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Got a girl at clubs number, now what? Need help from the players

GottaThinkBIG

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Here's a real quick summary of the situation: i've been in almost back to back long term relationships since high school and through most of college. I'm a senior in college now, turned 21 a few months ago and am single for the first time in awhile. My buddies and I went to a club last friday and I ended up dancing with a girl and one thing led to another we were kissing and her hands were EVERYWHERE (as were mine). Her friends came and got her eventually and she had to go but I got her number. I'm kicking myself in the ass for not asking this girl to come to my apartment with me that night but my cousin (who is a girl my age) was visiting from another college and sleeping over at my apartment and I thought it would make my cousin feel pretty awkward.

Need help from you players. I haven't been in this scene very long. I'm not really interested in having a relationship with this girl, in all honesty I just want to try to get some no strings action. If you were in a situation like this, when would you call her and what would you ask her to do or where would you try to take her out?
 
Tough call bro

I'll toss the question out to some of the single guys at work and get back to ya

For now see whats goin on with your cousin
 
I get lots of numbers, I never call them or if I call them it's like a month later


that said, dont do what I do cause I end up blowing it every time.
 
Just call her if she doesn't remind you move on but if she does you could get some ass....only one way to find out....call her :)
 
Call her, seeing as you are not looking for anything but some tail it doesnt matter if she doesnt remember you.
 
send a message, hi its gottathinkbig, had a great time with you on saturday at blahblah nightclub. ive had a really busy week, but its freeing up and id love to get together. when are you free?

im a fan of messages because theyre not confrontational, she'll probably reply one way or another even if its to bullshit turn you down, in which case you can keep dropping her a line now and again (particularly on weekends around midnight when she will likely be on the town, tipsy and maybe a bit horny) so you have your foot in the door

if you two were really really warm on each other then really you should have called in person a couple days ago, but its not at all too late. not at all.

if she doesnt sound too keen on a date per se, then at least make sure the message conversation swings towards where she will be and what she will be doing regarding clubbing/drinking the next week so you can bump into her when youre both in the mood/ dressed up/ in the right frame of mind for that sort of thing, and there you go.

good luck, take photos, post them here. thanks in advance, God bless you, goodbye :D
 
Throw her a bone with the "didn't call for a wekk' thing or you prolly won't even get a return call. Chicks are really sensitive about that, especially since the two of you were already messin around some. Not saying to lie, but it would have been convenient if the number had been accidentally left with your female cousin or something.
 
Call, go out for a few drinks at a bar or some type of semidinner thing with drinks and a lay afterwards. or A club and make sure you get home in time for the lay.

It`s all about the lay.


the lay.

or Send her a karma message with a request for........a lay.
 
Pick up a phone and press the numbers slowly. If you sit on this too long, kiss the opportunity goodbye. She will meet some dude just like you who will call.
 
it hasn't been a week. its only been a little over one day. it happened last friday (technically saturday at 2:00am) and as i'm writing this its 11:00am sunday. i like the semidinner idea with drinks but she is 20 and i'm 21. we were at an 18+ club. maybe i'll try to meet her at a club again, i dont know if i can do this weekend though. More ideas are always welcome and i'll keep you posted on how its going. Whoever comes up with the idea that works I will make her scream your name!
 
JerseyArt said:
Throw her a bone with the "didn't call for a wekk' thing or you prolly won't even get a return call. Chicks are really sensitive about that, especially since the two of you were already messin around some. Not saying to lie, but it would have been convenient if the number had been accidentally left with your female cousin or something.
i messaged a girl after a couple of months and it worked

then again, i am hot as shit :p


(lol)
 
GottaThinkBIG said:
it hasn't been a week. its only been a little over one day. it happened last friday (technically saturday at 2:00am) and as i'm writing this its 11:00am sunday. i like the semidinner idea with drinks but she is 20 and i'm 21. we were at an 18+ club. maybe i'll try to meet her at a club again, i dont know if i can do this weekend though. More ideas are always welcome and i'll keep you posted on how its going. Whoever comes up with the idea that works I will make her scream your name!


That`s cool. Just give her a call while you`re fresh in her mind and make plans for next week.

Can you make her speak with a russian accent when saying my name? thanks.
 
look up her number and find out where she lives....

park outside her house and wait for her mom to leave on an errand (grocery shopping?) follow her mom to the store and seduce her in the produce aisle... invite her to your college party where you take advantage of her only to drop her off, drunken and defiled, at her door late in the night....

then give the girl a call...
 
Forget about her. I never bothered even getting a phone #. If I couldn't close in 2 hrs. I was "Secreast Out!".

Here's what will happen if she agrees to go out w/you. (especially since you are a relationship guy. You go to pick up this chick that was drunk and humping you on the dance floor and all of a sudden she is a little princess. You will spend the whole night buying her drinks/dinner and kissing her as bc she has the advantage. You might latch onto her and spend another couple of yrs like you have in your past.

You did good. So, this weekend goto the club again and get another girl. This time try to take her home and bang her. If it doen't work out, then find another girl or just consider it a learning experiance.

I little bit of extra info for all the youngsters. If you goto a club to get chicks, then do just that. Don't get in a fight, play video games, get wasted w/your friends,etc. Spend your time trying to get chicks!

Good luck my horny little friend
 
Call her. keep it short and simple. Try to find out if she is looking for sex or wants to get to know you.

Usually a girl who just wants sex will mention she likes to have fun and do whatever..

Example: Call her up then be like I want to see you on Friday. Do you have a man? Are you looking for fun or a serious thing?

If she says fun. You take her out to a bar/grill type place and get drunk.. Once your drunk you just need to kiss alittle and be like, lets get out of here and take her to a motel...

Just remember if they acting like they dont want to fuck then they dont. End the night fast and save lost time. Go find another girl.
 
i was gona say forget it until i read she wasnt 21....if a girl who's 21+ does that, chances are she does the same shit 4 nights a week....but if she wasnt 21(and wasnt drunk) she remembers you...i never call a number i get at a bar, just cuz its sooo akward when u see each other sober....best thing to do is this...call/write her, and say you're gona be at XXXX club/bar on friday night, she should go with her friends...that way, if ur not that into her when u arent quite as buzzed, then ur not stuck with her...and if u are into her, take it from there
 
GottaThinkBIG said:
Here's a real quick summary of the situation: i've been in almost back to back long term relationships since high school and through most of college. I'm a senior in college now, turned 21 a few months ago and am single for the first time in awhile. My buddies and I went to a club last friday and I ended up dancing with a girl and one thing led to another we were kissing and her hands were EVERYWHERE (as were mine). Her friends came and got her eventually and she had to go but I got her number. I'm kicking myself in the ass for not asking this girl to come to my apartment with me that night but my cousin (who is a girl my age) was visiting from another college and sleeping over at my apartment and I thought it would make my cousin feel pretty awkward.

Need help from you players. I haven't been in this scene very long. I'm not really interested in having a relationship with this girl, in all honesty I just want to try to get some no strings action. If you were in a situation like this, when would you call her and what would you ask her to do or where would you try to take her out?

Bro, if you don't know what to do already, there's nothing I can do or say to change that.

:rolleyes:
 
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