Going out with a girl your best friend "likes"

[mountain muscle]

DT Is spot on on this one. He is hooking up with other girls and doing jack about the one he is "obsessed" with. She called you after you blew her off and didn't call for a month. Your friend has no say in the matter. Take the girl out.

 

[75th]

If hes as good a friend as you say he is he should understand. The man is seeing other women, so obviously hes not all that into her. Good women are hard to find. If this is one of them, then go for it.

 

[PIGEON-RAT]

I've been in this situation more times than I can count. She doesn't like your friend, don't fuck yourself over to keep his hopes alive for something that's not going to happen. Every time i kept bros before hoes it backfired like hell on me, and I blew my chance.

Don't go trying to hide it from your friend. That's just shady, he WILL find out, and then it looks bad that you were going behind his back, even though there's really nothing wrong with what you did.

 

[chrisoh]

She's just one girl, let her go, theres 146 million more out there (20 million hot ones).

 

[fistfullofsteel]

I tell my friends. "Listen if the chic isn't feeling me and you think she is feeling you then go for it." Now when you are really feeling a girl and she isn't into you at all then it becomes a tough situation, but if I felt my friend and the girl were really liking each other then I definitely have to step aside. Yeah, it sucks if you are really liking her, but life can be like that.

 

[Werd]

DT is 100% on the money.

Why on earth would your friend be pissed at you for going out w/a girl that is into you (that you are also into) that is NOT into him regardless of how much he digs her?.... especially since he never had the balls to even ask her out?

Sounds to me like you should hang with different guys if this is the case.

 

[jackangel]

i'm pretty sure everyone remotely connected to this thread is cheating on each other.

 

[Werd]

i'm pretty sure everyone remotely connected to this thread is cheating on each other.

LOL got no time for cheating(ers).

Either I am in a relationship or I am fucking some dude - there is no in between.... I dont waste my time with players or imbeciles.

Please for heaven's sake dont anyone misread what I have said. This does not mean that I am fucking 24/7. It only means that I am upfront with peeps and expect the same in return.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

i wouldnt go so far as to say FUCK HIM but if he's seeing other girls, well, just wait until he is halfway through his latest conquest story and drop it on him that youre going to go out for a movie with the girl

i know it sounds like a bit of bad timing, but its an excellent way to make the point, and really shut the door for him to get upset

ive used this technique before. lol. it works well

 

[awittyusername]

bro, you have done nothning wrong and received excellent advice from DT and pigeon rat

Guys need to stop acting like jealous teenage girls when it comes to banging chics. We all need to remember its always ladies choice! If you've dreamed about some chic for a yr, but she doesnt want you and wants your friend. Nut up and let him bang her. Not cockblock him like a bitch.

Quit hanging w/this guy. He is going to bring you down. By the time I was in my late 20's I had got rid of all my jealous cockblocking friends. I had one great friend. And, we got laid 10 times as much when we were together than any of the cockblock friends. (even though they were better looking, richer, etc) The goal was always for both to get laid. but, I was just as happy when only my friend did, bc I knew he would be there for me next time.