JoNeS
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Heres the scenario. My best friend has liked this girl for the past 4 months. 4mths ago when he first met her they went out on a date. Actually not even a date he just went over to her house and watched a movie. He didn't even kiss her...nothing happened.
Well my friend and this girl have mutual friends, and they see eachother at parties almost every week. In addition, he tells me that she calls him like 3 times a week and they talk.
Well whenever my friend and I are at the gym, we talk about women, and he always manages to bring up this girl. And how much he likes her. And I always tell him to stop being a fucking pussy and ask her out, or make a move on her at a party. But none the less, he's a pussy.
I had never even met this girl before, and I stole her number from my bro's phone. So I could give her a call and invite her to my bro's suprise 21st birthday party. Well I was like "my bro would really like it if you came" and she told me that she didn't like him like that, but would come because she's friends w him. (bare in mind I had never met her before)
Well I meet her for the first time at the party. (and she was a hot as fuck) And I was just being polite and social to her. Actually, we were having some very good conversation and she seemed like a really cool girl.
But I swear to shit I Was NOt flirting with her at all. I'm not a dick like that when it comes to my friends. Well anyway, she ends up slipping me her number at the end of the night. I was totally suprised because I wasn't expecting that at all.
My bro finds out and thinks that I'm the biggest asshole in the world. Of course he thinks that I was mackin on her, which of course was not the case. I was just being social.... So i'm like "dude just ask her the fuck out, I don't even like her"
Which of course I did like her but was willing to let her go because my bro liked her first and fucking obsessed about her.... None the less, he is still to much of a pussy to make a move on her.
So anyway I never called her and a month has passed. Since then my bro still talks about her all the time, However, he has gone out and hooked up with other girls / and gone on dates with other girls. And actually, he recently went on a date with a girl that one of his good friends really likes.
Well I don't know how, but the chick my friend likes, got my number and she called me today. And she basically was very direct and asked me if I wanted to come over to her place tommorow / friday. I told her that she already got me in trouble once with my boy, and that it wasn't a good idea. And she said that she wouldn't tell anyone that I came over.
She also said that she didn't like my best friend, and when she talks to him on the phone she has even made it a point to say "we're just friends". I then told her well I dunno, I'll call you later.
So here's the nutshesll. My best guy friend talks about this chick whenever we are in the gym. I actually think he is obsessed with her. He won't make a move on her, but he is comfortable hooking up with other girls, even a girl that his good friend likes.
So, should I hang-out with this girl? (I really want to, she is hot and has a cool personality)
Or should I blow her off because my bro really likes her.
*bare in mind my bro has obsessed about her for 4mths, won't make a move on her (even though I encourage him to), and he is going out w other girls
Well my friend and this girl have mutual friends, and they see eachother at parties almost every week. In addition, he tells me that she calls him like 3 times a week and they talk.
Well whenever my friend and I are at the gym, we talk about women, and he always manages to bring up this girl. And how much he likes her. And I always tell him to stop being a fucking pussy and ask her out, or make a move on her at a party. But none the less, he's a pussy.
I had never even met this girl before, and I stole her number from my bro's phone. So I could give her a call and invite her to my bro's suprise 21st birthday party. Well I was like "my bro would really like it if you came" and she told me that she didn't like him like that, but would come because she's friends w him. (bare in mind I had never met her before)
Well I meet her for the first time at the party. (and she was a hot as fuck) And I was just being polite and social to her. Actually, we were having some very good conversation and she seemed like a really cool girl.
But I swear to shit I Was NOt flirting with her at all. I'm not a dick like that when it comes to my friends. Well anyway, she ends up slipping me her number at the end of the night. I was totally suprised because I wasn't expecting that at all.
My bro finds out and thinks that I'm the biggest asshole in the world. Of course he thinks that I was mackin on her, which of course was not the case. I was just being social.... So i'm like "dude just ask her the fuck out, I don't even like her"
Which of course I did like her but was willing to let her go because my bro liked her first and fucking obsessed about her.... None the less, he is still to much of a pussy to make a move on her.
So anyway I never called her and a month has passed. Since then my bro still talks about her all the time, However, he has gone out and hooked up with other girls / and gone on dates with other girls. And actually, he recently went on a date with a girl that one of his good friends really likes.
Well I don't know how, but the chick my friend likes, got my number and she called me today. And she basically was very direct and asked me if I wanted to come over to her place tommorow / friday. I told her that she already got me in trouble once with my boy, and that it wasn't a good idea. And she said that she wouldn't tell anyone that I came over.
She also said that she didn't like my best friend, and when she talks to him on the phone she has even made it a point to say "we're just friends". I then told her well I dunno, I'll call you later.
So here's the nutshesll. My best guy friend talks about this chick whenever we are in the gym. I actually think he is obsessed with her. He won't make a move on her, but he is comfortable hooking up with other girls, even a girl that his good friend likes.
So, should I hang-out with this girl? (I really want to, she is hot and has a cool personality)
Or should I blow her off because my bro really likes her.
*bare in mind my bro has obsessed about her for 4mths, won't make a move on her (even though I encourage him to), and he is going out w other girls