I think guys get more pleasure out of being tied up than women. If a girl is having sex with a guy she already has a much higher trust level for him than he has for her. Girls are kind of at the mercy of men even without bondage so it doesn't make a big difference if they are tied up or not, but when the guy is tied up its like a complete role reversel. Most guys would dig being tied up and letting their lady have their way with them.
I like being tied up but would rather do the tying up. I love being spanked, bring on the cat o' nine tails, whips, as well as hot wax, leather restraints, bondage furniture.....yeah