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workinglegs

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Looking for some advice on my girl. She's recently started in with some snarky comments about my physique. Nothing too rough but just little comments ... "chicken legs" is a favorite recently. Weve always ribbed eachother a lot but this is taking on a new edge. I think she has an issue with my physique. She always notices muscly guys but we just joke about it. We both work out but no one would call me muscular for sure and in all candor i am a little self conscious about my skinny pegs. We have a typical male/female body comparison. her legs are probably more muscular than mine but my upper body is bigger. Anyway ... not sure whether to confront yer and let her know it bothers me or just blow it off.

Looking for some opinions ...
 
Kick that bitch w em, then ask he if they strong enough? Naw, she prolly block it and pull a Mortal Kombat finisher on ya anyway.
 
ask her if she has an issue..

why blow it off when it clearly bothers you?
 
feels insecure to acknowledge it somehow. Its not THAT obvious the way she does it but youre right it bugs me. She's the only one who would know im sensitive about my legs so calling me chicken legs in front of people in my shorts ... crosses the line. she has to be doing it on purpose ... right?
 
workinglegs said:
feels insecure to acknowledge it somehow. Its not THAT obvious the way she does it but youre right it bugs me. She's the only one who would know im sensitive about my legs so calling me chicken legs in front of people in my shorts ... crosses the line. she has to be doing it on purpose ... right?
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right?

and now, you've even made your EF screen name because of it..
 
workinglegs said:
feels insecure to acknowledge it somehow. Its not THAT obvious the way she does it but youre right it bugs me. She's the only one who would know im sensitive about my legs so calling me chicken legs in front of people in my shorts ... crosses the line. she has to be doing it on purpose ... right?
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She is definitely doing it on purpose. You tell her to stop, damn it. If she says it one more time...walk away. She is doing that on purpose to make you feel like shit. I guarantee that's what's happening.
 
Talk to her about it. If she really loves you, she'll understand. If not, fuck her. Move on. You shouldn't have to put up with abuse of any kind from a loved one. Good luck.
 
cindylou said:
I'm seriously furious reading this thread. What a bitch.
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Well CL ... youre making me think i should get really mad. Maybe thats what shes trying to provoke. At the moment i just feel like shit and kind of humiliated. Guess i need to think about this some more.

(obviously i try and work legs lol ... but lets face it big legs are TOUGH and ive inherited some sticks!)
 
workinglegs said:
Well CL ... youre making me think i should get really mad. Maybe thats what shes trying to provoke. At the moment i just feel like shit and kind of humiliated. Guess i need to think about this some more.

(obviously i try and work legs lol ... but lets face it big legs are TOUGH and ive inherited some sticks!)
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I doubt you have sticks for legs. In fact, I bet your legs look great!

That subtle stuff is the worst.

I doubt she is trying to make you mad, she is trying to knock you down a peg or two, keep you off balance. But, to give her the benefit of the doubt, you have to tell her how it makes you feel, so once she knows it hurts you, if she continues doing it you know for sure what the deal is with her.
 
Yea ... I think shes been lifting a lot ... looking good and feeling good. Shes talen up kickboxing etc. I just think she's felling her oats lol. I will think about it some more and see if she keeps it up. Thanks for the advice.
 
workinglegs said:
Looking for some advice on my girl. She's recently started in with some snarky comments about my physique. Nothing too rough but just little comments ... "chicken legs" is a favorite recently. Weve always ribbed eachother a lot but this is taking on a new edge. I think she has an issue with my physique. She always notices muscly guys but we just joke about it. We both work out but no one would call me muscular for sure and in all candor i am a little self conscious about my skinny pegs. We have a typical male/female body comparison. her legs are probably more muscular than mine but my upper body is bigger. Anyway ... not sure whether to confront yer and let her know it bothers me or just blow it off.

Looking for some opinions ...
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Get one some joose and dump that hoe.
 
Dude, get to the fuckin gym and start squattin like a muther fuker! Tell her to pound sand and stfu. Get rid of the "my girfriend is mean to me attitude." Let her know who does the fucking in you relationship. Grow a pair of wheels an a ball bag.
 
i say good for her for trying to get you to man up. a man should have trunks for legs so hit the squat rack and start doing cleans, deads, etc. lots of calf work etc.

she probably is embarassed that her legs are bigger than yours, a lot of guys at the gym don't even work legs.. just upper body so i'm glad this girl has the balls to call you out on it. I would love if a chick criticized me like this, it would tell me what i needed to work more on. don't be insecure about it, use it to your advantage. cause your next gf is gonna think the same thing so correct it now so it doesn't come up in the future
 
are you serious? Not only is it shallow, it's abusive. Why are you condoning abuse? His girlfriend should encourage him and build him up, not tear him down. There is no reason for someone to make comments like that in front of people when she knows it bothers him. He should only develop his legs because it's what he wants to do, not because his girlfriend humiliates him into doing it. :rolleyes:

His screen name is from 2010. He has been insecure about his legs for a minute.
 
workinglegs said:
Well CL ... youre making me think i should get really mad. Maybe thats what shes trying to provoke. At the moment i just feel like shit and kind of humiliated. Guess i need to think about this some more.

(obviously i try and work legs lol ... but lets face it big legs are TOUGH and ive inherited some sticks!)
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Don't get really mad yet. It's not fair to jump to mad before telling someone plainly and honestly how their action makes you feel.

People are too quick to assume that someone hurting them knows their actions are hurtful. Most people are far too unaware of others to have thought through exactly how hurtful something may be when they are not the one being hurt.

Tell her it hurts you. If she does it after that, she's made her intentions to hurt you plain or at the very least, decided she doesn't care if she does or not, and moved from passive-aggressive to straight aggressive.
 
cindylou said:
are you serious? Not only is it shallow, it's abusive. Why are you condoning abuse? His girlfriend should encourage him and build him up, not tear him down. There is no reason for someone to make comments like that in front of people when she knows it bothers him. He should only develop his legs because it's what he wants to do, not because his girlfriend humiliates him into doing it. :rolleyes:

His screen name is from 2010. He has been insecure about his legs for a minute.
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I agree.

People should look good and be healthy for themselves first and their partner second. I think it's ok in a relationship to encourage and motivate your partner to look and be their best if it comes from a place of love and wanting the best for them - not if it's from a place of what's best for you.

It's not ok, though, to nag someone about specific flaws thinking they'll change.

There's a big difference between the "lets go to the gym and get hot together" sentiment and a "your ____ looks like shit. You need to go to the gym and fix it" one.
 
yeah...I tease my other half about shit..but in private and its never a tear down
I'd never tear him down in front of someone. Thats shitty no matter how you slice it
legs don't come naturally to some people and Ive known way more guys with bad wheels than good wheels

tell her shes taking the teasing too far shes making you self concious and youre workin on the legs..if she continues, get mad and call her ass fat
 
cindylou said:
are you serious? Not only is it shallow, it's abusive. Why are you condoning abuse? His girlfriend should encourage him and build him up, not tear him down. There is no reason for someone to make comments like that in front of people when she knows it bothers him. He should only develop his legs because it's what he wants to do, not because his girlfriend humiliates him into doing it. :rolleyes:

His screen name is from 2010. He has been insecure about his legs for a minute.
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sounds like they got together.. she knew he had skinny legs but was okay with it, not a deal breaker yet.. but now since she worked out and improved herself she feels like he isn't keeping up with her physically so she is giving him hints that he needs to improve his legs. i don't see the relationship lasting regardless but if he wants to avoid the problem in the future he should definately fix his chicken legs not for her but for himself.

if it was a guy doing this to a girl it would be ridiculous i agree.

and she shouldn't be doing it in public that is immature. but sounds like they are young anyway and she doesn't care
 
AFeedz said:
I agree.

People should look good and be healthy for themselves first and their partner second. I think it's ok in a relationship to encourage and motivate your partner to look and be their best if it comes from a place of love and wanting the best for them - not if it's from a place of what's best for you.

It's not ok, though, to nag someone about specific flaws thinking they'll change.

There's a big difference between the "lets go to the gym and get hot together" sentiment and a "your ____ looks like shit. You need to go to the gym and fix it" one.
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yeah, me and the other half critique each others work outs for lagging body parts...and are semi brutal to each other about food stuffs but its mutual and not mean on either end

and when the other makes progress on something that hasn't been so great we're both quik to compliment each other.
 
lol @ tag.

you should really burn her house down. if she doesn't have one, buy her one, then burn it.

this will teach her.
 
workinglegs said:
Looking for some advice on my girl. She's recently started in with some snarky comments about my physique. Nothing too rough but just little comments ... "chicken legs" is a favorite recently. Weve always ribbed eachother a lot but this is taking on a new edge. I think she has an issue with my physique. She always notices muscly guys but we just joke about it. We both work out but no one would call me muscular for sure and in all candor i am a little self conscious about my skinny pegs. We have a typical male/female body comparison. her legs are probably more muscular than mine but my upper body is bigger. Anyway ... not sure whether to confront yer and let her know it bothers me or just blow it off.

Looking for some opinions ...
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calling you names?? not encouraging you or building you up but tearing you down and belittling you?? I guess that's what her mom did to her dad, its learned behavior.. so you need to inform her or hit it and quit it, because that's now how women treat men..
 
shirlene29 said:
yeah, me and the other half critique each others work outs for lagging body parts...and are semi brutal to each other about food stuffs but its mutual and not mean on either end

and when the other makes progress on something that hasn't been so great we're both quik to compliment each other.
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I think it's different while working out. If I was self conscious of a body part and at the gym with my boyfriend, I think it's acceptable for him to come over and pump me up or help improve what I'm doing wrong or could do better. In a gym, I think it's acceptable to speak about training specific things. That's the whole point.

As with anything, it all depends on the people involved and how its said.
My man and I tease a lot. We always have, since way before we were together. But there have been times both of us has said something teasingly that struck a cord with the other. And at that moment, we said it didn't sit right with us, and the other discontinued making that joke, whatever it was.

Which is why this dude should just say something. A joke to one person isn't always a joke to another.
 
stevesmi said:
sounds like they got together.. she knew he had skinny legs but was okay with it, not a deal breaker yet.. but now since she worked out and improved herself she feels like he isn't keeping up with her physically so she is giving him hints that he needs to improve his legs. i don't see the relationship lasting regardless but if he wants to avoid the problem in the future he should definately fix his chicken legs not for her but for himself.

if it was a guy doing this to a girl it would be ridiculous i agree.

and she shouldn't be doing it in public that is immature. but sounds like they are young anyway and she doesn't care
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I can't imagine legs being a deal breaker for someone, especially once already in a relationship. I just can't imagine a scenario where someone would actually think...you know, his legs are just too skinny and I just can't do this any more!

I'm an alien. :/
 
Tell her that her pussy is as big as a grarage and she needs vagoplasty
 
workinglegs said:
Looking for some advice on my girl. She's recently started in with some snarky comments about my physique. Nothing too rough but just little comments ... "chicken legs" is a favorite recently. Weve always ribbed eachother a lot but this is taking on a new edge. I think she has an issue with my physique. She always notices muscly guys but we just joke about it. We both work out but no one would call me muscular for sure and in all candor i am a little self conscious about my skinny pegs. We have a typical male/female body comparison. her legs are probably more muscular than mine but my upper body is bigger. Anyway ... not sure whether to confront yer and let her know it bothers me or just blow it off.

Looking for some opinions ...
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Did we say you could ask for opinions? Who the fuck do you think you are?
 
He’s the chicken leg guy getting owned by his woman who is going to bust his balls for the rest of his life until he buys a chipper and she mysteriously vanishes.
 
workinglegs said:
Looking for some advice on my girl. She's recently started in with some snarky comments about my physique. Nothing too rough but just little comments ... "chicken legs" is a favorite recently. Weve always ribbed eachother a lot but this is taking on a new edge. I think she has an issue with my physique. She always notices muscly guys but we just joke about it. We both work out but no one would call me muscular for sure and in all candor i am a little self conscious about my skinny pegs. We have a typical male/female body comparison. her legs are probably more muscular than mine but my upper body is bigger. Anyway ... not sure whether to confront yer and let her know it bothers me or just blow it off.

Looking for some opinions ...
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Give her a few tylenol PM. Then while she's out stick a golf ball up her ass. Leave it there. See how she likes that.
 
400mg deca & 250mg of sust per week and hcg for 12 weeks. Do squats and calve raises till you puke and call me in the morning. Then kick that chick in the vagina.
 
Obviously, you don't have a close relationship with this girl. True love is being able to tell your girl to shut her fucking pie hole and never say that shit again, and then go fuck her (preferably doggie style).


The beauty of my advice, is that she will gain respect for you and love you more for acting like a man, and she will gladly give you that doggie style (maybe after a little pouting, which is good).
 
Can I intest?


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Can I incest?


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Hmmm wanna play my slow running sister?


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Especially now that you are getting all sweaty.


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Umm I love me some sweaty slippery womanz!


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So a game of twister would be in order?
 
Now your just plain talking dirty to me!


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Olololol well my cardio time is up!!

4t I owe you a pm... And some k
 
Negor


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workinglegs said:
Looking for some advice on my girl. She's recently started in with some snarky comments about my physique. Nothing too rough but just little comments ... "chicken legs" is a favorite recently. Weve always ribbed eachother a lot but this is taking on a new edge. I think she has an issue with my physique. She always notices muscly guys but we just joke about it. We both work out but no one would call me muscular for sure and in all candor i am a little self conscious about my skinny pegs. We have a typical male/female body comparison. her legs are probably more muscular than mine but my upper body is bigger. Anyway ... not sure whether to confront yer and let her know it bothers me or just blow it off.

Looking for some opinions ...
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Your girls fat bro
 
just tell her one or a combination of the following:

1- you got tiny boobs
2- you got saggy boobs
3- do you even own a mirror?
4- do you even lift bitch?
5- wtf is that on your face? oh you call that a nose?
6- your vagina is like the grand canyon
7- when's the last time you used deodorant?

After she gets offended, ask her how she would like it if you did it everyday, 2-3 times a day.
 
workinglegs said:
Looking for some advice on my girl. She's recently started in with some snarky comments about my physique. Nothing too rough but just little comments ... "chicken legs" is a favorite recently. Weve always ribbed eachother a lot but this is taking on a new edge. I think she has an issue with my physique. She always notices muscly guys but we just joke about it. We both work out but no one would call me muscular for sure and in all candor i am a little self conscious about my skinny pegs. We have a typical male/female body comparison. her legs are probably more muscular than mine but my upper body is bigger. Anyway ... not sure whether to confront yer and let her know it bothers me or just blow it off.

Looking for some opinions ...
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Tell her that she should know that making fun of a your skinny legs is the same as making fun of her gut/ass/legs/etc
 
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