Girl Advice

[studcj]

I was pretty close to this girl in high school, and she had a boyfriend. She broke up with her boyfriend for me and I didn't want her anymore cause I started dating someone else. So she got another boyfriend when I went away to college 1st semester, I came home 2nd semester and she ended up breaking up with her boyfriend a week ago, and she was talking about how much we should hang out etc. But now she doesn't answer any of my phone calls, and I've called her about 3-4 times in the past week. Should I just cut her loose or should I just show up at her door with flowers? I'm not too sure cause she used to be almost obsessed with me, so her behavior is surprising.

 

[ORGANON CANON]

Some woman are crazy

 

[The Ranger]

Women love the feeling of being wanted, lusted after, and chased....

Don't call or anything for 5 or 6 days and see what happens....You might be surprised...

Ranger

 

[Kakdiesel]

I'm with Organon Cannon on this one. Women are fucking nuts sometimes.

 

[smallmovesal]

don't call her and she'll come around if she normalizes.

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Stand outside of her house holding a noose and do not move until she comes out and talks or calls the cops on you.

 

[StoneColdGold]

Stand outside of her house holding a noose and do not move until she comes out and talks or calls the cops on you.

LOL

You continually create images in my head which are quite amusing. I'm picturing poor CJ standing outside in the pooring rain holding a damn noose and wearing a big smile, wondering why his girl won't come out.

CJ-- She might be "getting you back" for turning her down when she broke up with her man for you.

 

[ORGANON CANON]

I thought about the getting you back thing as well. Don't call her though, the less she thinks you want her the more she will want you.

 

[Big Johnson]

Don't chase her unless she's worth being chased. Just go with your instincts

 

[velvett]

In with the new, out with old.

Let her go and find someone new.

 

[bignate73]

plenty of fish in the sea....just throw back the ones that smell like fish.

 

[May1010]

they all smell like fish

 

[bignate73]

they all smell like fish

lmao!!!

not the ones i eat...i bring the little plastic lemon with to kill the flavor.

 

[Slice of Peach2]

lmao!!!

not the ones i eat...i bring the little plastic lemon with to kill the flavor.

Awwww, how sweet.

 

[bignate73]

lol. i was hoping you wouldnt see that. now im going to have a bad reputation. doh!

 

[danielson]

shes probably trying to determine your interest level ....her plan would be u keep calling and tghen eventually she'd pick up and be all calm and relaxed while you would (in her mind) be feeling 'why didnt ya pick up'

im kinda going through the same thing ast the moment where the ho's tryuing mind ghames with me .she might get really frustrated if yhou dont cal back, which could be a good thing if it means she tries harder, or bad if she cuts her losses. alternately if u play along it might be all in her master plan to getting you, or she might take great pleasure in wrapping her round your finger. women can be bitchy like that (like no-one dont know that :EL: ). its just all about choices, you know the girl best so go on gut instinct, but its good shes doing this, 1) she dumped a guy for u so her interest level is high
2) if shes playing mind games with u (potentially) she must like you to even bother


alternativly she just went on holiday or her phones faulty

 

[Freak Show]

Give her one more phone call and if she doesn't return that.... well, forget her.

 

[studcj]

well, this is what I did tonight...I e-mailed her (we e-mail pretty frequently) and it was basically just a note saying hi etc. if she doesn't write back then I'm done with her. what do you guys think?

 

[dunkin]

True May1010 so true Dude she is probably just enjoying having you chase her after dogging on her like that. Might be revenge.

 

[madbomber31]

if we all had real dolls we would be very happy!!!

chix annoy me!

 

[METHYL MIKE]

I still cant figure women out-and when i try, i get more confused. Sometimes I wish i was gay-then i remember my last physical-I DONT THINK SO. I guess its just one of those things that makes you glad theres a gym and plenty of booze and weed in this world to help with the aggravation

 

[supersizeme]

amen methyl

 

[karson]

dude

she dont like you. just walk away. sometimes when a girl sees you dont care and walked away they want what they dont think they can have. but in the mean time realize she thinks your a dork pretty much. people change bro. sorry but sometimes stepping forward helps you get closer to something even better

 

[May1010]

Sometimes I wish i was gay-then i remember my last physical.

Yeah, you feel that way at first. Then, you'll be begging for it!