Getting Caught Looking.... (for the ladies)

[Marauder79]

Hey Girls out there, if you catch us eyeing you at the gym or work etc. can you tell us any obvious ways to tell your interested BESIDES looking right back continuously?

Is there ways to tell when your talking to her and there is this eye contact thats soo powerful niether of you blink?

IS there ways to read your girls eye contact when looking at us? whats the difference between being interested and attracted to just normal level?

I wonder if both of you stare into each others eyes when your talking and dont blink then it means theres chemistry? Do you ever feel that?

 

[Gymgurl]

I have read this and I don't know if it is true is that they will slant thier head to the side if they are attracted to you while you talk to her..i think that if she is looking in your eyes the whole time and not at other things she is interested....if she can't shut up she is interested

 

[KillahBee]

I have read this and I don't know if it is true is that they will slant thier head to the side if they are attracted to you while you talk to her..i think that if she is looking in your eyes the whole time and not at other things she is interested....if she can't shut up she is interested

lmao - this made me think of how a dog looks at you and turns his head sideways.

 

[*MissFit*]

When im at the gym and im doing my work out and some guy is watching me.. it make me nervous and i wish he would invest in a magazine or bring a friend to the gym..

I'm at the gym to work out. not to pik up

 

[Marauder79]

OK so how do i deal with her best friend having a crush on me.....

Everytime we talk outside of work her friend is there and shes pretty much the only person i can talk to about her...

 

[buffer1]

give her the stick

 

[Gymgurl]

Make sure that you make it VERY clear that you are not interested in her friend..or you will be in big trouble

 

[BUBBLES]

I totally avoid making eye contact with guys when I am at the gym plus I listen to my Ipod which is really loud. So if the guy is interested he should wait until I finish my work out and then approach me with confidence and say something nice but not tacky.

BTW if I see a guy it does not necessarily mean I notice him. I look at people but maybe I am be thinking about something different like work, washing my car, a dress I have seen... etc...

 

[pintoca]

I think is always different. You just know. I don't believe in the "Body Language" idea, since every person is different.

 

[Gymgurl]

Come on you can't tell when someone is interested??

 

[rudeboyja]

Damn Marauder79, reading your threads it seems you need a little boost with the confidence..If you're feelin someone, just tell them. Don't worry about all the games

 

[pintoca]

Come on you can't tell when someone is interested??

Me, I can't tell for shit... but I've been told you can... (unless they come and grab your ass and make a saucy comment, that is)

jokes aside, I think you kinda develop that sixth sense thingie... some people only need a look and they know.

 

[Colonel Ingus]

I have read this and I don't know if it is true is that they will slant thier head to the side if they are attracted to you while you talk to her..i think that if she is looking in your eyes the whole time and not at other things she is interested....if she can't shut up she is interested

I've read that the tilting head thing is really a woman exposing her neck. It's usually done along with a tossing of her hair so that the bare flesh is visible. At least that's what the guy on The Discovery Channel said.

I've also read that her pupils will dialate when she's turned-on, so if you're really talking with your eyes locked together like that, see how big her pupils are.

Then again, like someone else said on this thread, if you are really that interested, just go introduce yourself to her. Be sincere and see where it goes from there. What's to lose?

 

[Gymgurl]

K to you for seeing that too Colonel.....

Pintoca...don't you think age makes a huge difference in reading people and knowing what you want and what they are looking for

 

[USMC fighter]

I think as guys we think all women are interested in us, or maybe its just me lol

 

[pintoca]

K to you for seeing that too Colonel.....

Pintoca...don't you think age makes a huge difference in reading people and knowing what you want and what they are looking for

Of course, as a teenager you cannot see past your own insecurities and hormones... as you grow up, you start getting a feeling for the game and you understand it takes 2 to Tango.

Funny thing, though, once you get married, you kinda go like Neo in the first Matrix when he can "see the real world"... but then it's too late, isn't it?

Anyway, yes, the older you grow, the more confident you are and the more experience you get, so it becomes easier to spot the ones spotting you.

 

[Gymgurl]

LOL that is it!!!!

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

If a girl catches me looking at them, they flash their bottle of mace real fast to show me what the score is...

 

[corythosaurus]

I've read that the tilting head thing is really a woman exposing her neck. It's usually done along with a tossing of her hair so that the bare flesh is visible. At least that's what the guy on The Discovery Channel said.

"You and me baby ain't nuthin' but mammals - So let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel."

 

[AristotleBC]

ask her to give you a brown shower

 

[TruBalla4Real]

I think as guys we think all women are interested in us, or maybe its just me lol

why wouldn't they be?

 

[Gymgurl]

Yep you bunch of man whores

 

[HiDnGoD]

When im at the gym and im doing my work out and some guy is watching me.. it make me nervous and i wish he would invest in a magazine or bring a friend to the gym..
I'm at the gym to work out. not to pik up

See below

BTW if I see a guy it does not necessarily mean I notice him. I look at people but maybe I am be thinking about something different like work, washing my car, a dress I have seen... etc...

This is the same with us. Sometimes we focus on our music or workout & it appears we are looking at you, staring at your hair, neck, belly, tits or cootch. It's just random looking (unles the guy is contorting to get the view, then he's a perv).