get an abortion?

[gsxr]

OK, I slept with this girl that I shouldn't have. Now she's telling me she's pregnant and that I'm the only one that could be the father. I don't want a child at this point in life, especially not with this woman. Yeah I know it's murder and all, but any tips on convincing her to have an abortion?

 

[prophet]

just hope 1 of 3 things happens

1. she is lying

2. she dies in a car wreck

3. she has a miscarriage

 

[LivinLarger]

If I were you.....
glad I'm not

Tell her even if she keeps it you will not marry her and that it would be a mistake for her to have this baby.
She might consider adoption but may change her mind after birth, then you get to pay child support for 18yrs, unless she let's you give up rights to it but she will most likely take your money because she can.
Also, bitches lie about this crap all of the time, did you stop calling her or end it recently? They like to throw that up and see if they can pull you back in, then in another few wks she'll have an magical immaginary "miscarriage" and things will be back to normal.
I would test her ass so you know if she is BS'ing you, if she is move on, if not you will not be able to force her to get an abortion if she does not want one, then it gets ugly.
Good luck

 

[gsxr]

Well I'll keep hoping. #2 and #3 seem pretty unlikely, but #1 is a always a possibility. I doubt it though, we've been fucking pretty regularly for the past few months. If I had some I'd slip her a few RU486s, but they don't exactly grow on trees.

She says she would feel bad if she gave up the baby. I don't care if she feels bad or not, she was supposed to be on the birth control patch... 99% effective my ass. Besides telling her the truth (that she's emotionally fucked up and a total psycho and that having a kid would be a nightmare), anybody know of a good argument for abortion?

 

[Alpine]

Just explain to her how an abortion is the best way to handle this situation. Tell her how it is only going to ruin 3 lives - hers, yours, AND the babies. Also explain how the baby deserves a better chance at life than the 2 of you can provide at this point in your lives. Unfortunately tho, ultimately the final decision is up to her. Good luck!

 

[Alpine]

Also, get her to make this decision immediately! Make the appointment for next week, pay for it, and take her to the appointment. The longer she thinks about it the more likely she will be to having the child. That's a shitty situation to be in. I feel for ya bro!

 

[LivinLarger]

She says she would feel bad if she gave up the baby

Tell her you will feel bad if you have to pay child support for 18 yrs for a kid you never wanted in the first place.

Also, get her to make this decision immediately! Make the appointment for next week, pay for it, and take her to the appointment. The longer she thinks about it the more likely she will be to having the child. That's a shitty situation to be in. I feel for ya bro!

GOOD ADVICE!

 

[Alpine]

Tell her you will feel bad if you have to pay child support for 18 yrs for a kid you never wanted in the first place.

I wouldn't say that because it will probably piss her off that your bringing something like this down to a money issue. Then she may not listen to anything else you have to say just to spite you. That would suck even worse if she had the kid out of spite for you.

 

[gsxr]

Also, get her to make this decision immediately! Make the appointment for next week, pay for it, and take her to the appointment. The longer she thinks about it the more likely she will be to having the child. That's a shitty situation to be in. I feel for ya bro!

I'll try this aproach. If she doesn't go for it I'm slipping her some RU486. Whether it is ethical or not, I'm getting out of this fucked up situation. If I have to see this psycho for 18 more years my life would really suck.

 

[the_jarhead]

Been there done that. Have the kid to prove it.

First thing take her ass to the nearest clinic to make sure. Even if she isn’t lying she might just be late. Make sure!
Try your best to convince her that abortion is the best thing. I can’t really help too much It obviously didn’t work for me. 5 years later my ex agrees that it would have been better. We love the kid and are able to tolerate each other enough to be civil around her but we both agree our lives could have been much better have she not had her.
As for slipping her the pill if she suspects you did it and you get caught you’re looking at major time. Minimum of illegal possession and mileage distribution. Not to mention I read that is being tried for attempted murder for the doing the same thing.