My doc was a woman and touched my balls, and I liked it. BUT, she was doing it for a reason, like testicular cancer inspection. Get over the fag thing and think about your health and well being. He/she has a job to do and that is a part of it, as much so as stickin that finger up your butt for your prostate or to take a sample.
Of course it's just something that has to be done for health reasons, that's all, right?
Think of this though, when this doc was a student back in med school and the Professor says: "Okay, you guys have done well in your first year studies here. Now comes that time when you decide which type of doctor you want to be. At the back of the auditorium you'll find sign sheets for each medical discipline. Your choices are pediatrician, dermatologist, chiropractor, gynecologist, proctologist...
Don't you kind of wonder why anyone would choose to be a proctologist over the other choices?