Fuck Buddies

[Gymgurl]

Men will use you and be done with you if YOU let them. Stop giving it to them right away and make them work for it.

 

[Gymgurl]

I better clear this up rightnow before you guys jump my shit. I ment "work" as in developing a relationship, get to know them and maybe make them show you they are interested in more than sex

 

[SoKlueles]

OK.....if u refer to your sex partners as "fuck buddies" there is DEFFFFFFINATELY something wrong....do what my mother always told me....take an aspirin a day....and hold it between ur knees..
get to know someone before u do em..dang....men have no respect for an easy girl...why buy the cow when u get the milk free?

and again.i agree with jubei.....if ur just trying to make a thread..make a good one gymgurl.we rock gf.we should get paid for this advice

 

[NorthNPrincess]

Men will use you and be done with you if YOU let them. Stop giving it to them right away and make them work for it.

Gymgurl.....Agreed!

Bella, Don't sell yourself short! Definately make them work for it. Remeber there's no free lunch. They will appreciate it and you more! And I'm sure you are worth more!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[bitter_man]

All good avice, if it's a relationship you want, seek one. If you just want to get laid, keep your buddies. I've had Fuck buddies before, we were both good with it. We hooked up when we hooked up. No ties. But then there were some who wanted more, then the conflicts began. I guess what I'm trying to say is know where you/they stand before going further.

 

[Paulo]

I think bitterman was the clearest of all. If a woman wants to have unattached sex, then what is the problem? This goes back to the whole "it's okay for men to do it but not for women" concept. Maybe I should make the woman 'work' for it before she fucks me. Oh wait, I guess her having to be around me is work enough. Nevermind..

Anyways, Girls that seek 'fuckbuddy' relations are obviously not intending to 'sell the cow'. Does it matter that the guy(s) she is doing might think she is easy? No.

G'day

 

[d3track]

if you are friends then there is more than just sex

 

[granby140]

Girls make me work too hard.

 

[NorthNPrincess]

If you just want to get laid, keep your buddies.

I agree with bitter man....I don't think there is ANYTHING wrong with having this type of buddy (if you're not comitted) and that is all you want.
However, Bella stated that is ALL she has been getting. I assumed she may want more sometime in her lifetime.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Not all guys are the same. My ex-gf (whom I dated for a year) slept we me the first time, over a year before I ever took her out on a date. Then again, I guess that falls into the category that jubei mentioned, of guys falling in love with a girl after having repeated sexual encounters with the, without having earlier feelings for them. My point is, in response to the part about respect, there are some guys who do not think like that, and don't loose respect for a girl just because she sleeps with them very quickly.