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[mrsgoodbody]

Hi all.

I had a question for all you couples out there - married or in long-term relationships:

What's your view on the normal (is there such a thing?) frequency of sexual encounters with your mate. DrG and I have been together for 7 years (no itches here!) and we've been doing it every night since mid-December. Only 3 nights were missed 'cause we were just too sore. Then we discovered lube. Not even my period has stopped us. (Sorry if that's ucky to some - tough).

I love getting it so good, but am wondering if we're abnormal. If so - I'm all

Let me know,
MrsG

 

[DepressiveJuice]

well my girl and i do it at least three times a day. but we've been intimate since december though....

 

[andezzz999]

Well, I have been married over 13 years. My wife and I work in demanding jobs and have kids. So, we are about 3-4 times a week. Usually Thur-Sun is open. I work out late, she works out early so the other days, training puts a damper on the sex. She needs to be asleep by 8:00 pm to wake up at 4:00 am (which is when I go to the gym. But when the time comes its all about quality!

 

[drgoodbody]

agreed...

Quality, not quantity is key and BTW, we have 2 kids of our own (BOTH in DIAPERS) so MrsG and I know very, very, well what you're talking about.

DrG

PS: But we still do it like bunnies in heat....

 

[mrsgoodbody]

Dialtone,

Actually, with 2 kids in diapers, only one of us is truly proud of the way we look. I'm doing my best, but haven't been to a gym in a bit. I suppose I look damn good for that fact, if DrG does say so...

But as for it being more than average, that's what I thought. Hey, in my book, there's nothing I'd rather be "above average" in!

Ha ha.

Yes, I do have sisters, but you wouldn't want the available one...
-MrsG

 

[Puddles]

Abnormal? Probably! But it seems like it's a good thing.

For me, sometimes it's a few times a day, other times it's a few times a week. I'm more of a night person and he's more of a morning person...somehow we work it out though. We've been together 19 yrs. as of this Valentine's Day.

 

[mrsgoodbody]

Happy Anniversary

a little early, but good for you.

Wow. That's a long time, and so young too. How old is Stromba? There's a 4 year gap between me and DrG in his favor, so I'll be fighting the aging thing loudly and with everything we can!

Do you guys have kids? Shit, that makes it hard for sex. Last night for example, our daughter ruined our first attempt.

Just curious.

Thanks for the post.
-MrsG

 

[Puddles]

Stromba just turned 39, I'll be 37 in May. We have an 11 y.o. Kids get easier as they get older. Two in diapers...a little tough on ya now, but when they're older it'll work in your favor, they'll keep eachother occupied.

As for fighting aging...I'm enjoying it and I seriously look forward to becoming old and grey with my husband. Right now I fight the grey hair, but I'll probably quit that when I'm in my 70's. Living in FL I see many couples who are still together after 50 years and I think that is one of the greatest joys in life...being with the person you love for LIFE, sharing all of the joys, pains, and just every day things together until the day you die. You can see the love and caring in elderly couples eyes that they have for eachother...it's one of the most precious gifts we can have...it's what seperates us humans from the other animals on this planet.

 

[mrsgoodbody]

As for fighting aging...I'm enjoying it and I seriously look forward to becoming old and grey with my husband. Right now I fight the grey hair, but I'll probably quit that when I'm in my 70's. Living in FL I see many couples who are still together after 50 years and I think that is one of the greatest joys in life...being with the person you love for LIFE, sharing all of the joys, pains, and just every day things together until the day you die. You can see the love and caring in elderly couples eyes that they have for eachother...it's one of the most precious gifts we can have...it's what seperates us humans from the other animals on this planet.

I like you a lot, too!!!

You definitely have the right idea. We want to grow old together, too, but in the meantime, I'll fight all the signs as best I can. I'll do the face lift thing if need be (fortunately, there's good genetics on my side) and I've been doing the hair thing since even before DrG met me Ah well. I always tease him about gumming one out of him one day! It may take awhile, but I'll keep those jaw muscles in shape!

One set of grandparents were in love til the day he died and it nearly broke her heart. As for the other set, he didn't live more than 3 months after she died. It's sad but beautiful in a way - that he loved her so much, he had nothing more to live for after she died. That's totally how I feel about DrG. I wouldn't want to live without him. I just hope that many many many years from now, I'll go first...

 

[Puddles]

You call your looks and body fighting aging? I'd say you're kicking it's everloving ass and the fight is about to be called based on the mercy rule.

OK...you get karma from me for the rest of this year with that one!

Mercy...last night I arm wrestled for the first time ever (against a guy)...lost both times but put up a damn good fight and held him off from gettin me down for a decent amount of time. I don't think the guy expected it to be so close. I told Stromba that we'd have to practice...next time I wanna win! LOL

 

[Puddles]

I wouldn't want to live without him. I just hope that many many many years from now, I'll go first...

I've said the same thing myself. My biggest fear in life is him dying before me. I've had nightmares about this many times. The people in my family do not live nearly as long as his so I think I'll be the first one to go if it's of natural causes.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Oh shut the fuck up BOTH of you!

LOL

I am very envious... but in a good way. Both of you couples have the right idea.

My ex was gettin it AT LEAST 6 nights/p week practically up until the night he went waaaaaay over the line and I asked him to leave us. We had been together 12 years (10 1/2 married) and had four kids. The only time my desire waned was when I was pregnant but honestly, I could hardly wait the 6 weeks post partum for the doc to give the green light. I think in all those years I refused sex maybe twice and I generally was the one to initiate it.

If and when I ever decide to make the fatal decision to marry again (LOL) I will make a much wiser choice and be with a man who will love me as much as I do him.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Do guys call you "bikinimom" in bed?

HEheheee Nope. Been called many things wild doin' the nasty, but I can honestly say that that weren't nun of 'em.

 

[TEXgrl]

we're about to have our 10 year anniversary, been together 11 years, have a 9 year old, and we go thru spurts i guess, we might go at it every day for a while, then if things are too busy or whatever for us, we may skip a day or two, we tend to make up for it and then some on the weekends, tho, we don't keep track of it honestly, as long as everybody is happy and satisfied, it really just boils down to personal preference for the couple.

 

[Spectre]

11 years and 2 kids and we manage about 2-3x per week. I think the people on this board are far from normal. Most people I know would be lucky at 2-3x a month.

 

[the_jarhead]

My wife and I have been married for 5 and 1/2 years. we have dated off and on since we were in the 6th grade.
We go through our up and down times. For the most part it's at least 4 days a week. One of gets real ansty if we miss two day in a row.

 

[Frackal]

HEheheee Nope. Been called many things wild doin' the nasty, but I can honestly say that that weren't nun of 'em.

can I call you bikinimom when we have sex?

 

[robsatx]

Since December 30th

We have had sex about 30 times. NO BS! My wife is an awesome woman. The more I try to do for her, she outdoes me 2 to 1. We have been married almost 11 years. I have heard some bullshit about having the "same thing" on the menu is boring. If you have the right women, sex can be a great thing! She will go as long as I want. Two nights ago we were at a party. I was standing by a friend of mine - this girl (i have never met) comes up behhind me and rubs her tits all around my back. I was wearing a silk mock (kind you wear with a suit without a tie) Being on juice you can see muscles through the shirt. She then stands in front of me and is staring trying to make eye contact. My wife sees the whole thing walks up calmly puts her arm around me and starts to make out (wildly) with me. Gives her a look and that was it. She could tell that my wife was more than I could handle. She ran for the door. My wife was not worried at all. She knows that I do not want anyone but her! Why waste my time - a woman that loves me and does everything I want. I am no dumbass.

 

[mrsgoodbody]

Re: Since December 30th

My wife sees the whole thing walks up calmly puts her arm around me and starts to make out (wildly) with me. Gives her a look and that was it. She could tell that my wife was more than I could handle. She ran for the door. My wife was not worried at all. She knows that I do not want anyone but her! Why waste my time - a woman that loves me and does everything I want. I am no dumbass.

First, this post totally made my night! You are an awesome husband/man.

I think your wife and I would have lots in common. That is SO what I would do if someone were to come on to DrG like that.

DrG says: "I couldn't have written that post better myself. I totally agree. I am no dumbass either."

-MrsG

 

[Frackal]

Just curious, what does Dr. G do for a living...I am genuinely interested because I am looking into this field

 

[Bikini Mod]

can I call you bikinimom when we have sex?

Frack - if I ever fucked you, you wouldn't be able to speak. But, IF you could verbalize any intelligible words, the answer is, "Yes, by all means... please do!"

 

[mrsgoodbody]

Just curious, what does Dr. G do for a living...I am genuinely interested because I am looking into this field

He is a management consultant. he is one of the senior people at his firm. Still interested?

 

[Frackal]

Frack - if I ever fucked you, you wouldn't be able to speak. But, IF you could verbalize any intelligible words, the answer is, "Yes, by all means... please do!"

That sounds good to me...would you like to come to colorado?

He is a management consultant. he is one of the senior people at his firm. Still interested?

Well not as much thanks...I am horny though... if it is ok with dr. g you should post a nudie pic

 

[SizeMatters205]

Children? What children?

My wife of 8 years has given birth to our 5th child this year. Ages 6 1/2, 5, 4, 2, and 4 months. And the average week includes 7 - 8 sexual events, usually on 5 to 6 nights (or mornings). For her that includes probably not less than 21 orgasms a week and most likely in access of 30. Of course this didn't start until she became a stay-at-home-mom 3 years ago. We barely could stop for the post partum, and usually don't stop for cycles. (trick for us is to do it in the shower, seems the water has some effect on the blood flow)

We used have an inside joke, where I could "borrow the car" that is if she were too tired to have sex I could just go ahead and use her body parts as necessary. Of course it never came to that. Every time I tried she woke up and within minutes was leading the way. Now we joke about her pulling her car up to me and racing the engine and telling me to get in.

It started out good and has gotten better ever since. Of course a good cycle of Test hasn't hurt either.

So you are perfectly normal in my book!