My turn on is an "adventurous" woman......which of course I don't currently have, but I digress. A woman who will do anything once, and than twice etc.... if she really likes it. Nothing is a bigger turn off than a woman with sexual hangups, I've had to deal with it for the last two years.....and now I'm about done with it. I need a freak, or more appropriately, a freak with "me". Especially if you've been dating the person for an extended, and I mean a year or more, period of time. After that much time together there really shouldn't be anything that you don't want to try. I should clarify that it's a two way street. If you expect the woman to try things you want to do, you should reciprocate.