first move, you or the girl

[sconoscuito]

like lets say you are sittin with a girl and she justs gets on you and you two take it from there

that has only happened twice with me



anyway, is it supposed to be the guy always making the first move?

cause if girls do it, it takes lot less effort


so the question, you go first or you wait for girl to go?

usually I just wait for her to give me a good sign and im hooked but wanna hear wht others say

 

[avenirup]

After I pay them....it is usually them making the first move....

 

[Mr.HeavyDuty]

i usually read their body language, if they are touchy feely or moving closer etc., but if i'm unsure i let them make the first move.

 

[SoKlueles]

depends on what mood Im in.

 

[d3track]

its more fun when she makes the first move

 

[avenirup]

depends on what mood Im in.

..........or if it is check or cash...........

 

[sconoscuito]

yea i like if a girl makes the first move

but how often does that actually happen?

 

[Robert Jan]

It all depends what you call the first move.
Love is like an escalation... the first thing is usually eye contact, which is a mutual thing.

 

[Deterass]

It all depends what you call the first move.
Love is like an escalation... the first thing is usually eye contact, which is a mutual thing.

At eighteen years old i really don't think your qualified for alot of these questions.

 

[Robert Jan]

Whatever. I was right.

 

[Dial_tone]

I like a woman who isn't afraid to be assertive....as long as she's only that way with me. LOL

 

[Robert Jan]

deteras-

I suppose nobody ever expects a younger person to be qualified to think about anything. Its impossible however to live completely trivialising your own thoughts.
Also I think Idont need to

 

[SoKlueles]

..........or if it is check or cash...........

lol or ATM cards

 

[avenirup]

lol or ATM cards

Took you long enough...

 

[string_bean00]

It's hot for the girl to make the first move.

 

[sconoscuito]

well they should do it more often

I'm gonna try and never make a move on girl and see where that lands me from now on

even if im drunk

 

[Johnnyrocket]

Yes it is fine if she takes the first move. If she rubs my thigh for awhile, OOHHH, she is going to get it good. I love my thigh rubbed with a soft touch that goes inside to out.Wow, I am getting hot thinking about it. I have had several woman that made the first move just this way. I had one that would come into my house and crawl into bed with me naked in the morning. She was the best!!! i do not mind at all if the lady makes the move as long as she let's me do my thing then everything is cool.

 

[sconoscuito]

well it worked

the only problem is that I dont know her name or anything, from scale of 1-10 she couldnt have any worse than 7
either way, im kinda happy now

im gonna stick with this method for a while

 

[jubei]

Its pretty much 50/50 with me.

 

[Naeem]

Personally the women ALWAYS make the moves with me. I would make em, but they always beat me to it.

 

[sconoscuito]

they always come really close with me most of the time and than I have to break the ice by kissing her or something

I think I just need to be a bit patient though and they will do all the work

 

[jubei]

I agree that its easy to out wait a woman who is obviously interested.

 

[Werd]

The first move as in to say, "What's your name?" way or the first move as far as initiating physical contact when you are getting to know each other?

As far as I am concerned if I find a man attractive I will smile or find something to say to him or make it very easy for him to talk to me...

If it is physical contact though, IT MUST ALWAYS BE ME. If a man makes the first move towards a kiss then I am immediately turned off and there is no hope for the relationship to continue, because I view this as a sign of disrespect. I know that this might not be true on his end so I do say it just like that - "I MUST MAKE THE FIRST PHYSICAL MOVE - PLEASE DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT TRY TO KISS ME OR EVEN ASK FOR THE FIRST KISS AS IT MUST COME FROM ME 100%."

You would be surprized at just how many men still blow it... a clear sign that he could care less about what I have to say or what it is that I want or the he just plain was not listening. Either way he is clearly disrespectful of me and I have no time for that.

I generally tease myself and wait so long to initiate the first kiss though, that the bedroom is not too far away LOL.

 

[sconoscuito]

yea Im talking about the first physical contact so like a kiss that usually leads to other things or just ends right there

im gonna experiment and wait for a woman to make her move, so far it worked so we'll see