Extremely tempted to even the scales (warning...long)

[~HOUNDOG~]

Go and fuck that little blonde,your dick will thankyou.

 

[Mandinka]

My , you are a vindictive little fucker aren't you?

Mako ,
My history is pretty funny - last girl I went out with (2 yrs) tattoed my name on her butt - still has it. Her history read like the diary of a porn star - fucking at 14 , married guys blah, blah.
The fact that you have never been with someone else says a lot about you - that you are a straight shooter -all that jazz , but the truth is you got your doubts , and I think that they are well founded - from bitter personal experience. Personally I think you'll never know what really went down all those years ago with your woman , but that she burned your house down around you , and lied about it - the fact that she made out with this dude after only one night showed just how "unrequited" his "feelings" really were - yeah - I know what she was feeling.
So don't take it like it's revenge - take it like it's gettin even - that this was a place you never wanted to go but she brought you there.

 

[gethard1]

Very

interesting...

Aside from what you have written, have you had any fun with her? You seem to still have feelings for her, are the ones of obligation? Throughout your rrelationship has she been honest? Have you been honest? Has she taught you anything about yourself?

I ask these questions because they are important to you, every relationship has its good times and bad times. Having anamosity for a confessed make out session is normal, but to use it to base the rest of your time togehter is obviously unhealthy.

So now you have a chance to nail a hot little blonde, whose to say that she will not turn out the same way? I guess you need an excuse to go nail her ass to a bed for a few hours. But to throw away a long relationship over regressed feelings, is to leave that part of your life foreever unresolved.

1. So fuck the blonde and keep your mouth shut

or

2. end your relationship for other reasons than a hot little biatch

or

3. swallow your hatred and work things out

 

[FlexBailey]

my opinion..When someone cheats in a relationship it takes the purity away. You will never fully trust that person again or atleast I wouldn't.
You're 100% less attracted to her now as well and that is VERY IMPORTANT.
Alot of the times when a couple gets married the attraction becomes even less, just think about that for a second.
I think you should give the new girl a try(i've been in a similar situation myself with a girl I dated for 3 years and basically left for a new one). If it's meant to be with the current girl you guys will end up back together. But stick with her now you may end up miserable and always wondering 'what if'.