Thanks for the green...and if you're asking me, then yes. But I do work in a Wal-Mart so that does knock that lady thing down just a bit (Credit Union I work for is in a Wal-mart.)
Women can fake it if they lubricate a lot anyways. They don't all. or always gush, depends on type of 'O' & intensity.
Some women have been having satisfying sex for years before they have a real orgasm. Some women orgasm easier than others.
Frankly I'd rather wifey tell me if it's not happenin, then I won't desensitize her& we can try again later. In my experience, many times ladies are up for sex, but just can't reach 'O' due to other things like, time, external stress, ambient mood, etc.. I don't worry about it 'cause I know I can make it happen if she's able.
nycgirl said:
Some of them don't. Some expect the whole yelling, eyes rolling to back of the head, trembling, etc., etc. routine. I think that is more of a boost to their ego then the "gush."
Some women don't do any of that. They just lay there all tense & shuddery, like a vibrating guitar string. I'd rather a real orgasm if possible, than a choreographed production number.
Spank yourself for that sistah.
IMO, determination of a Lady or not is not a matter of where work, but attitude. I know very low income menial workers who are definite ladies, and I know some High-brow skanks who are anything but.