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Dunno how to deal.....

lil'tangerine

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Girls I posted a similar thread to this this morning, but I'm still having quite a day.

I hate this relationship being long distance! The novelty of seeing him a month and a half ago is wearing off and fast! I've been let down too many times in the past 6 months over jobs and getting a visa it's making me insane.

On top of that my man has a hard time dealing with me when I'm sad and lonely! He is the type that likes to ignore things until they either just get better (I get over my tantrum) or it just goes away. He just never feels like discussing it when I've been in a mind fuck for days and am ready to explode.
He doesn't seem to realize there are little things he could say to make me feel a little better. I know that I don't make it easy for him by being so miserable, but I hate missing him so much.

Maybe one of the biggest things is that my life is on hold until we finally find out if I will get a job where he's at. I told him I'm not waiting around here, in our hometown...I'm going to move away to my own adventure where I won't have time to be so sad, I'll be focussed on new things.

Aunt Flow being around for the past few days isn't very good for the emotions I'm feeling either! Probably making things 10x worse than if it were any other time of the month! Damn being a girl sucks ass sometimes! Going to the doctor in a couple weeks, think I may need to change up the bc pill. Recently was put on Alesse and seems that it's affecting me to rage all the time! Had to change pills once before years ago cuz I was PMSing every day of the month!

What do ya gals figure that are/have been in long distance relationships? Do you ever feel crazy like this? My mind plays tricks on me constantly! Seriously I've thought about just giving up, but I know I'd be even more miserable knowing we will never be together then. Needed to vent all this so I may be able to sleep tonight!
 
lil tangerine

I too am in a LDR, and yes they can suck majorly at times, I wouldnt give up wutang for anything, the key to any realtionship is conversation, and you have to be able to open up to each other at any time, no matter the mood of one of you, if he isnt sensitive to your moods and you to his, then it isnt the distance that is the problem, you need to have a heart to heart with your man and tell him what you expect/want/desire out of the realtionship and ask him to tell you the same. Goodluck, and hope everything turns out for the best.
wutangsfiancee
 
lil'tangerine said:
What do ya gals figure that are/have been in long distance relationships? Do you ever feel crazy like this? My mind plays tricks on me constantly! Seriously I've thought about just giving up, but I know I'd be even more miserable knowing we will never be together then. Needed to vent all this so I may be able to sleep tonight!

I think unless you established a long, solid relationship prior to the physical seperation the LDR thing has a very poor chance of working out. The only ones I've ever seen work, including myself, were with people that had been together for several months minimum and had a really solid, trusting bond. Good luck to you though sister.....everyone's different....you guys could be together for 40 years. :) :)
 
Thanks ladies....I'm feeling a little better today, although I'm angry still with him for being so insensitive. We will get through this I'm sure, we've made 2 1/2 years so far....I can't imagine my life without him in it, even if he is temporarily away.
 
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