Don't you love it when....

[Jade19]

And of course foreplay is extremely important... Not just fucking around but foreplay of the mind... That could keep me going for years..

Feel kinda dumb saying this but what exactly do you mean by foreplay of the mind?

 

[courtneybcca]

Feel kinda dumb saying this but what exactly do you mean by foreplay of the mind?

goodness you know like... boy calls you and trys to play off like he is someone else that you have to come meet... or dinner with the parents and he leans over and whispers that he can't wait to get you home because you look so hot... sends you flowers unexpected to your work or something just to tell you how beautiful you are... Calls when he is out with his friends and tells you that he can't wait to get home to you.... Or your away for a few days and he tells you that he has been sleeping with your dirty shirt so he can smell you... meets you for lunch and to find out that he has actually rented a hotel room for the hour... etc... there is so much to this

 

[Jade19]

goodness you know like... boy calls you and trys to play off like he is someone else that you have to come meet... or dinner with the parents and he leans over and whispers that he can't wait to get you home because you look so hot... sends you flowers unexpected to your work or something just to tell you how beautiful you are... Calls when he is out with his friends and tells you that he can't wait to get home to you.... Or your away for a few days and he tells you that he has been sleeping with your dirty shirt so he can smell you... meets you for lunch and to find out that he has actually rented a hotel room for the hour... etc... there is so much to this

I've had guys in the past that are those kind of romantics..... and your totally right. A feeling of true love and apprieciation even in the smallest ways makes you say wow....... you feel lucky, and loved. Don't you think a lot of relationships end because of apprieciation? One looses their apprieciation and things begin to crumble? My SO now is so sweet but he has no clue how to do those things very well. N E tips on how to whip him in shape? LOL

This guy on the post whats your sexuality just totally pissed me off, talking about gay people how they have no right to marry and how they weren't born that way its a crime of nature blah blah...... Guys drive me crazy sometimes

 

[courtneybcca]

I've had guys in the past that are those kind of romantics..... and your totally right. A feeling of true love and apprieciation even in the smallest ways makes you say wow....... you feel lucky, and loved. Don't you think a lot of relationships end because of apprieciation? One looses their apprieciation and things begin to crumble? My SO now is so sweet but he has no clue how to do those things very well. N E tips on how to whip him in shape? LOL

This guy on the post whats your sexuality just totally pissed me off, talking about gay people how they have no right to marry and how they weren't born that way its a crime of nature blah blah...... Guys drive me crazy sometimes

Appriecation is everything... If I don't feel appreicated then I am out... That is what I am going through now... You can not get lazy in a relationship you have to continue to show the person that you care..... This is what relationships are subpost to be about. If your boy has lost it in this department tell him that this is an important aspect of your relationship for you to be happy. If he doesn't shape up then ship him out... There are tons of fish in the sea as they say....

 

[courtneybcca]

Appriecation is everything... If I don't feel appreicated then I am out... That is what I am going through now... You can not get lazy in a relationship you have to continue to show the person that you care..... This is what relationships are subpost to be about. If your boy has lost it in this department tell him that this is an important aspect of your relationship for you to be happy. If he doesn't shape up then ship him out... There are tons of fish in the sea as they say....

 

[Jade19]

Appriecation is everything... If I don't feel appreicated then I am out... That is what I am going through now... You can not get lazy in a relationship you have to continue to show the person that you care..... This is what relationships are subpost to be about. If your boy has lost it in this department tell him that this is an important aspect of your relationship for you to be happy. If he doesn't shape up then ship him out... There are tons of fish in the sea as they say....

No... see he is sweet but hes not good at planning and thinking up romantic things. He does nice things, and says a lot of nice things. He's my best friend, he just doesn't understand i guess...... never done it b4 and hes 28!!

 

[courtneybcca]

when then you clearly have a choice to make... You started dating him knowing this and you can't change him... Nor should you want to.. That being said you either deal with it or get out

 

[Jade19]

when then you clearly have a choice to make... You started dating him knowing this and you can't change him... Nor should you want to.. That being said you either deal with it or get out

Thanks for the info girl.....
he just read this conversation between us...haha..... I dont want to change him, im just more of the hopeless romantic type.

 

[courtneybcca]

I hope you didn't get in trouble

 

[Gymgurl]

I guess mine can be romantic sometimes...this weekend we were sitting there taking an he was just rubbing my face looking at me.....we must be on a "up" swing. We have been married for a long time so I will take it when I get it........


Anyone ever dated someone that was so "sappy" it drove them nuts??