Do you ever take it personal.....

[Gymgurl]

When having sex for the first time with someone....they don't cum?

 

[luciano]

I know women take it personal maybe not form the very first time but if it happens more often .... then yess

 

[Gymgurl]

Would you? I might start to after the first time or so...

 

[pinsnfriends]

If a guy doesn't cum, there may be something wrong. If the lady doesn't cum, it just may take some time to figure her out.

 

[sigmund]

If a guy is nervous or slightly uncomfortable he may not cum. It's the old fight of flight instinct kicking in. As soon as anxiety occurs, even at a subconscious level, you can kiss goodbye to a happy ending! If a guy suffers from performance anxiety he can usually get it up but may either lose his erection during sex or never reach orgasm. It's all about feeling totally at ease with the situation and enjoying it and if necessary releasing repressions related to sexual pleasure. It's certainly not something that should be taken personally!

Alternatively if he's an AAS user and his E2 is elevated following a cycle or he's on Deca he will have a hard time finishing off and may not be able to get hard at all!

 

[Gymgurl]

So if heis waitng for his girlfriend to walk in the door at any minute...he isn't going to cum?? So much for people who like to have sex with that fear of getting caught element

 

[sigmund]

So if heis waitng for his girlfriend to walk in the door at any minute...he isn't going to cum?? So much for people who like to have sex with that fear of getting caught element

lol depends on his personality!!

 

[Gymgurl]

Oh your a bad bad boy

 

[Gymgurl]

Now that situation might even turn me on a little more....I like what I can't have somedays

 

[marshallmadman]

So if heis waitng for his girlfriend to walk in the door at any minute...he isn't going to cum?? So much for people who like to have sex with that fear of getting caught element

It's almost to the point where sex is boring for me without the fear of getting caught element.