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Sundance
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Have you ever cheated on your wife/husband??
If yes, why?
If yes, why?
SlavikHavik
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yeah i cheated on my girl with two girls in the course of three nights.
wish i never did. she still hasnt gotten over it. second worst decision i ever made.
The first was telling her.
i should have just delt with the guilt.
Why? cause she was just sayin all this shit to make me feel like crap, i was down and needed the ego boost.
We split up for a year because of it. it was probably a good thing. Things are better now. We appreciate how good things were, before they went wrong.
wish i never did. she still hasnt gotten over it. second worst decision i ever made.
The first was telling her.
i should have just delt with the guilt.
Why? cause she was just sayin all this shit to make me feel like crap, i was down and needed the ego boost.
We split up for a year because of it. it was probably a good thing. Things are better now. We appreciate how good things were, before they went wrong.
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DBCooper
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If I consider her my girlfriend, no I would never cheat on her.
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Crazy Ivan
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DBCooper said:
tuc biscuit
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I'm a pretty immoral guy in a lot of other aspects, but I could never cheat on someone. If I'm ever tempted I just think how I would feel If I was on the recieving end.
tempest2003
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if u cheat on anyone im sorry but your a fucked up pathetic piece of shit, and i wanna kick your ass, wether your a guy or a girl, you dont have any idea how you make people feal when you cheat, its almost enough to push some to suicide, the fealing is indescribeable, you go through every emotion possible, and ask your self if only, or what if for weeks upon weeks, sometimes months
dballistic
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Here's a question...
Given we have marriage, a situation where you commit yourself to another person until death do you part.
If the commitment occurs with marriage, why is there a commitment involved with the whole 'girlfriend/boyfriend' deal. If you're strictly committed to a 'girlfriend' whats the point of marriage? A stronger commitment? Is that just a ## day risk free trial of commitment with money back guarantee?
And then there's engagements. So we've got 3 levels, and they all mean the same thing as far as seeing others goes. So if you cheat on a girlfriend, its not as bad as cheating on a fiance, which is not as bad as cheating on a marriage. I figure you're either married or not. The inbetweens are ways for one of the parties to unofficialy place a lock on the other person that would rather be out nailing others.
I'm sure each of these stages differ based on the person or couple.
What do you think?
Given we have marriage, a situation where you commit yourself to another person until death do you part.
If the commitment occurs with marriage, why is there a commitment involved with the whole 'girlfriend/boyfriend' deal. If you're strictly committed to a 'girlfriend' whats the point of marriage? A stronger commitment? Is that just a ## day risk free trial of commitment with money back guarantee?
And then there's engagements. So we've got 3 levels, and they all mean the same thing as far as seeing others goes. So if you cheat on a girlfriend, its not as bad as cheating on a fiance, which is not as bad as cheating on a marriage. I figure you're either married or not. The inbetweens are ways for one of the parties to unofficialy place a lock on the other person that would rather be out nailing others.
I'm sure each of these stages differ based on the person or couple.
What do you think?
tempest2003
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theres no fucking exuse to cheat on your partner no matter how big or small the relationship, if there is any kind of a commitment it should be held period. people like u piss me off, cheating is cheating, nothing makes it better at any level
dballistic
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tempest2003 said:
Relax. I was just posing a question for discussion. Looking for opinions.
Apparently you've been screwed over, no need to take it out on the world.
I really love, maybe loved not sure i really hate her right now, my ex. I thought she was alot better of a person than she turned out to be, she basically put on a front for 2 years i think. Had oppertunities to cheat but never even gave it a thought.
WELL now I regret it like hell because the day after or i think even the same night me and her got into a fight she got in bed with someone i thought was a good friend.
I see no reason not to cheat 99% of the people i know cheat and why the f* do i have to be the nice one and get hurt all the time. I am done with that fuck love its all BS,
WELL now I regret it like hell because the day after or i think even the same night me and her got into a fight she got in bed with someone i thought was a good friend.
I see no reason not to cheat 99% of the people i know cheat and why the f* do i have to be the nice one and get hurt all the time. I am done with that fuck love its all BS,
phatty123 said:
Man, I can relate. My exwife took off with a married man about a year and a half ago. Never would have DREAMED of cheating on her, in our marriage.
I am not sure what you say is entirely far from the truth. If you love your woman, keep her satisfied at all costs and don't ever let her feel that you're neglecting her emotionally, as well as physically-sexually.
I think until you find that ONE that you want her to have your children, you might be onto something there. Everything else is dress rehearsal. (I never wanted to have kids w/ my ex - now I know why. My new girlfriend I'm thinking incredibly crazy things about along those lines).
Generic MALE
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I am considering it. Believe it or not, my wife is the only person I have ever had sex with - and then only after we were married. The same is true for her. We have been married a fairly long time - lets just say well over a decade. 2 reasons : I grew up SUPER religious (the religious people here have no idea what religious is) and secondly I am super shy. I have always been considered good looking - always won these stupid popularity contests when I was in public school, and was a good athlete (state wrestling champion one year, on the basketball team, school high jump record) which added to the popularity - but never scored with a single chick at all - even through college. I am so shy I am the type who would never go to a public pool and take my shirt off. I was asked to be a male stripper in college but there is no way. I am middle aged now and still look okay - few wrinkles, few grey hairs, 6'1" 200 LBs about 9% BF. I have had several opportunities recently - once with the most incredible 21 year old girl I have ever seen, which I turned down. The regret is killing me and I don't want to be 60 (when I plan to die) and die with regrets. So I am seriously considering nailing alot of strange in the next couple of years.
canadianhitman
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NO....and even if I did, I wouldn't admit to it...not even here. That's the key to getting away with it....never tell anyone, and convince even yourself that it didn't happen.....or so I hear, from friends who cheat.
Zander1983
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canadianhitman said:
Your friends should take their own advice.
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Sundance
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Generic MALE said:
Just one partner????
MAN, you should have tasted the life to the fullest.....Multiple partners is good shit and healthy..
At least before you get married...
if you dont cheat...she might...
I use to keep tab of all my bitches..Now I lost track..
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