Do men like to be hit on?

[SpyWizard]

I'm single and the men who hit on me are creepy and yuck, so I'm thinking when I'm ready to date again, I'll do the "hitting" because I feel if a guy hits on you, he's a player


discuss

eye contact and a smile.. thats what it takes.. and to be frank, if you can't make me smile, i'll have sex with you but a relationship?? i'm thinking no..

 

[ceo]

yeah no shit huh?

all of the qualities that make a good...what? lay? except..who else is he shagging and whats he gonna give you for a "gift"?

maybe he just needs a little something on the side to go with his entree. Just a little extra ya know? Not like Tiger, where he needs to bang every hottie in sight.

 

[ceo]

Here's an abbreviated version of "The Laundry List." I call it the 5 K's...No Kuddling, No Kissing, No Karessing. No Komittment. No Kidding.

I Love this girl!!

 

[smurf2]

There are people out there who have it right, i'm not saying this 100% across the board. If you got it right you got it right, same with SD. But look at our society as a whole. Do you beleive that as a whole people view relationships as you seem to? or do we have a seriously warped view of the male/female dynamic? I tend to think it's warped based not just off my own experiences but those around me and yes, what i see in modern pop culture. One of the biggest sources I draw on is how my sister was raised, it was old school. My dad has changed now but he actually felt for a long time like there was no poin in women attending college because they're to be married anyway. I love my dad but god he was a jurassic period piece of artwork for awhile. And with small differences here and there, that's how everyone i grew up with was predominantly raised. I often wish to have been raised in the more liberal coastal regions where the impetus to mind fuck you into a life not of your choosing is not as severe. Things are obviously drastically different now even here...but during the early 80's this was everyday U.S.A

I get the feeling i'm a little older than you so my perceptions are going to be different, can't be helped.

Wtf are you talking about. Almost everyone in my graduating class ('88) went to college regardless of gender. I'm from Illinois, not the coastal region.

In addition to that, my dad is the oldest of 9, and ALL of them went to college (in the 70s and 80s). I have never known being female as being a deterrent to going to college.

Did you grow up in the 40s and 50s?

 

[cindylou]

I knew there was a reason I didn't understand. I'm too lost in the 21st century. Thanks for the 411.

Right, like values are soooo last century. It seems you are lost, and have no idea where you are.

My post about your laundry list was a lighthearted joke, but don't for a second think you are making any progress belittling people repelled by you. You are the one acting like a savage. You are uncivilized. Be quiet, your being so proud about it and justifying it by trying to belittle others is what is repulsive.

 

[youpissmeoff]

Wtf are you talking about. Almost everyone in my graduating class ('88) went to college regardless of gender. I'm from Illinois, not the coastal region.

I graduated in 81 and this is the same. I can't think of one girl I knew that did not go yo college. This guy has more daddy issues than a 17 yr old stripper.

Boo hoo - daddy cut off my foreskin without asking and didn't think my sister should go to college.

 

[Dial_tone]

Wtf are you talking about. Almost everyone in my graduating class ('88) went to college regardless of gender. I'm from Illinois, not the coastal region.

In addition to that, my dad is the oldest of 9, and ALL of them went to college (in the 70s and 80s). I have never known being female as being a deterrent to going to college.

Did you grow up in the 40s and 50s?

You're from Snootyville though.

 

[smurf2]

I graduated in 81 and this is the same. I can't think of one girl I knew that did not go yo college. This guy has more daddy issues than a 17 yr old stripper.

Boo hoo - daddy cut off my foreskin without asking and didn't think my sister should go to college.

lmao!

 

[blueta2]

Right, like values are soooo last century. It seems you are lost, and have no idea where you are.

My post about your laundry list was a lighthearted joke, but don't for a second think you are making any progress belittling people repelled by you. You are the one acting like a savage. You are anti-civilized. Be quiet, your being so proud about it and justifying it by trying to belittle others is what is repulsive.

and I love this girl!

 

[AFeedz]

Right, like values are soooo last century. It seems you are lost, and have no idea where you are.

My post about your laundry list was a lighthearted joke, but don't for a second think you are making any progress belittling people repelled by you. You are the one acting like a savage. You are anti-civilized. Be quiet, your being so proud about it and justifying it by trying to belittle others is what is repulsive.

Agreed.

And the theory doesn't make sense anyways. You want something simple so you go after a married man? Sounds like a complicated situation to me. in what world is dating a married man ever simple and drama/issue-free for any real amount of time?

Plenty of single men will hit it and throw her to the side, if that's what she's looking for.