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Do men just stare at boobs without even realizing?

RottenWillow

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Or do you always know when you're doing it?

I mean damn, WTF? I just came from a stupid training the company made me go to this morning and there was this old guy in my row that just blatantly stared at my rack on and off for almost 3 hours. He had to look in my direction to look at the speaker so even though I could feel his head was turned towards me I thought he was just looking at the person talking. Finally I kind of looked in his direction and he was just straight up eyeballing me. I talked to him a minute during the break and he was polite and friendly (not flirty) so I thought he'd stop him when we went back but nope.

So I'm wondering (really hoping) that maybe men can just zone out and absentminded stare, even for long periods of time. I get those skanky trucker dudes in traffic staring down at me, grinning and acting skeezy, all the time. They obviously are trying to be lasivious, but I just cant figure out seemingly nice older men like this one.
 
We all stare... no matter how old we are, if we're 13 or 93... And I think we do know we are staring, and when we look we loose all train of thought and look stupid
 
Sounds like he was bored at the meeting, so he figured he'd pass the time by staring at your breasts. He probably got a good visual so he could jack off later.
You should have told him to bring a camera next time.
 
I would like to stare at a picture of you 26" muscular legs.
 
jerkbox said:
we really can't help it.....


It also depends on what you were wearing.

If you are wearing something tight,low cut,sheer etc anything that draws attention to your breast then don't bitch because some guy that you werent interested in was looking at them.

If not then he was rude to just stare like that.

Too many women(not you persay)wear skimpy reveling outfits, then get offended when someone looks at them.
 
We can't walk around with our eyes closed, y'know. If we turn our backs on you we'll just bump into you a lot. It's safer this way.

At least I try not to drool....

Truth to tell, I sometimes notice where other guys are looking, and think "Geez, don't they know how obvious they are? Sheesh!" But then I catch myself doing the same thing.

Yes, we zone out. It's this wordless, mammalian pleasure that's rather hard to describe... like a cat in a paper bag. I sometimes wonder why women (being mammals as well) don't also experience it, actually. Is it drummed out of you?
 
digger said:
We can't walk around with our eyes closed, y'know. If we turn our backs on you we'll just bump into you a lot. It's safer this way.

At least I try not to drool....

Truth to tell, I sometimes notice where other guys are looking, and think "Geez, don't they know how obvious they are? Sheesh!" But then I catch myself doing the same thing.

Yes, we zone out. It's this wordless, mammalian pleasure that's rather hard to describe... like a cat in a paper bag. I sometimes wonder why women (being mammals as well) don't also experience it, actually. Is it drummed out of you?


No, they lie about and say shit like " oh, no I wasn't looking at your bulging crotch, I was wondering what kind of fabric your pants are" :verygood:
 
TC2 said:
No, they lie about and say shit like " oh, no I wasn't looking at your bulging crotch, I was wondering what kind of fabric your pants are" :verygood:

yeah women are sneaky about staring and what not...
 
I stare at women's hips all the time when they walk, and not even sexually. I'm always noticing things like 'are they bowlegged, knock kneed, short torso...all kinds of weird things. If I stare at a rack it's almost always sexual though.
 
I notice Anya never acknowledges me when I ask to see a pic of her stems.
 
I'd say about half the time we know we're doing it and the other half it's more of a case of zoning on them because we can't help it. Didn't you say you were like a c cup? If you're more breast oriented than butt oriented like myself, not admiring a full chest(provided she's in decent shape) like that is the same as driving past a car accident and ignoring it. I won't straight up blatantly stare at it for hours on end and especially not if I'm talking directly to her, but the allure of the curves is really hard to fight. It sucks that it comes off as rude and pervy, but I just try to be as discreet as possible about it. I make no apologies for the way my brain is programmed, just as I can't berate women for zoning in on the healthy buldge of my crotch. Ya'll do it, too.
 
jerkbox said:
yeah women are sneaky about staring and what not...

wutchutalkinboutJB? that's called being discreet not sneaky. And I absolutely admit to checking out hot guys but damn not just relentless, blatant staring.

BBR I'm not ignoring you but I dont have any response. I wont be posting any bod pics for a multitude of reasons....really bad past experiences, current bf wouldnt like it, etc. I said once before I much prefer to be thought fat, ugly or a gay guy than have any more pics of my body on the harddrives of dudes I dont even know.
 
i catch myself staring all the time. i agree with what DT said - i'm always watching women walk, noticing their builds, whatever. then i check them out head to toe and think to myself "would i?"

most of the time the answer is yes, go figure :D
 
Magnets attract iron

Boobs attract men

it is just Life :)
 
anya said:
wutchutalkinboutJB? that's called being discreet not sneaky. And I absolutely admit to checking out hot guys but damn not just relentless, blatant staring.

BBR I'm not ignoring you but I dont have any response. I wont be posting any bod pics for a multitude of reasons....really bad past experiences, current bf wouldnt like it, etc. I said once before I much prefer to be thought fat, ugly or a gay guy than have any more pics of my body on the harddrives of dudes I dont even know.


I told ya i'd give you my email addy. :)
 
I cannot help but to stare, Just be thankful of that because on a cycle of test i am compelled to not only stare but grab & squeeze. :chomp:




RADAR
 
I don't thinks its intentional, we just do it automatically. I am more of a leg and ass man than a boob man, so I always look at a girls ass if she has tight jeans on, even if she has no ass, or a poorly shaped one. Its similar with legs. If a girl has short shorts or a skirt on, I'm going to look at her legs if they are at least of average quality. If they look great, I can't help but watch them for long periods of time.
 
i love looking at hot chicks, i get pleasure out of it. i can appreciate a nice rack or ass. i do critique them too though. like, they could be perkier, or her ass is too flat or whatever. i love T&A. i am discreet about it though, i never oogle. i glance then look away.

Example of this in reverse:
This chick in my history class is always checking out my goods. She is definatly hitable but i'm pretty sure she has a bf, so i dont think she is up for it. I tend to wear jeans in school and since my legs are big, they cause my pants to be tight, especially when i sit down. she sits next to me nearly every class even though she doesnt have too. when i sit down there is an outline of my dick. it doesnt stand out but if you look in that area you can see it. i have caught her looking a couple of times. she just proptly looked away when i looked at her. it's flattering because i rarely ever get attention from chicks so it's kind of cool that she is staring at my goods in awe/lust (insert sexual term here).
to sum it up. if i stare at them then they have the right to stare back.
 
I think they do it without realizing it. Even one of my best friends will glance at mine every once in a while. But there's nothing between us. It's just a matter of guys like to look.
 
PHATchik said:
I think they do it without realizing it. Even one of my best friends will glance at mine every once in a while. But there's nothing between us. It's just a matter of guys like to look.

Oh yeah! Natural reaction.

I embarrassed a good friend of mine when he was talking to my wife one evening at a party. As he was talking to her, I could tell he was looking at her boobs and I casually interrupted and said, "Talk to her face Michael...not her boobs."

He turned red as a beet and I have never let him forget that moment.:)
 
HumorMe said:
Oh yeah! Natural reaction.

I embarrassed a good friend of mine when he was talking to my wife one evening at a party. As he was talking to her, I could tell he was looking at her boobs and I casually interrupted and said, "Talk to her face Michael...not her boobs."

He turned red as a beet and I have never let him forget that moment.:)

Lol. How come that doesn't surprise me? :)
 
PHATchik said:
I think they do it without realizing it. Even one of my best friends will glance at mine every once in a while. But there's nothing between us. It's just a matter of guys like to look.


There's something between you.....a bra!
 
anya said:
Or do you always know when you're doing it?
maybe men can just zone out and absentminded stare, even for long periods of time.

Nope....but sometimes you'll do a "holy shit" look, which allows you to look for around 5 seconds or so. people who straight up stare are weirdos.

I think the reason men like boobs so much could probably be the fact that we suck on our own mothers tits for like 3 or 4 years of our lives. that probably fucks with us a little ya think?
 
I like boobs and I stare at them often.

Why do women get so creeped out? If some chick was starting at my chest for 3 hours I'd take it as a compliment.
 
Sweed said:
We all stare... no matter how old we are, if we're 13 or 93... And I think we do know we are staring, and when we look we loose all train of thought and look stupid

Its true that we we loose all train of thought when lookin at a nice rack, but i dont think we know were starin unless we had set out that morning to look at as many boobs as possible.
I mean, I was staring at this chicks rack in karate the other day. I was supposed to block the punches she threw but I sorta was lookin at her chest on accident even tho i dont really think shes hot (she was wearing some cleavage showing shirt even tho hers arent that great). I caught myself and had to sorta force myself to look up ;)
 
I stare at people all the time without realizing it until I have already been staring at them for as long as five minutes. I just zone out and it happens.
 
anya said:
Or do you always know when you're doing it?

I mean damn, WTF? I just came from a stupid training the company made me go to this morning and there was this old guy in my row that just blatantly stared at my rack on and off for almost 3 hours. He had to look in my direction to look at the speaker so even though I could feel his head was turned towards me I thought he was just looking at the person talking. Finally I kind of looked in his direction and he was just straight up eyeballing me. I talked to him a minute during the break and he was polite and friendly (not flirty) so I thought he'd stop him when we went back but nope.

So I'm wondering (really hoping) that maybe men can just zone out and absentminded stare, even for long periods of time. I get those skanky trucker dudes in traffic staring down at me, grinning and acting skeezy, all the time. They obviously are trying to be lasivious, but I just cant figure out seemingly nice older men like this one.


You know you like it.
 
If I were a chick I would feel proud and honoured when a guy would stare at my boobs :coffee:
 
anya said:
Or do you always know when you're doing it?

I mean damn, WTF? I just came from a stupid training the company made me go to this morning and there was this old guy in my row that just blatantly stared at my rack on and off for almost 3 hours. He had to look in my direction to look at the speaker so even though I could feel his head was turned towards me I thought he was just looking at the person talking. Finally I kind of looked in his direction and he was just straight up eyeballing me. I talked to him a minute during the break and he was polite and friendly (not flirty) so I thought he'd stop him when we went back but nope.

So I'm wondering (really hoping) that maybe men can just zone out and absentminded stare, even for long periods of time. I get those skanky trucker dudes in traffic staring down at me, grinning and acting skeezy, all the time. They obviously are trying to be lasivious, but I just cant figure out seemingly nice older men like this one.
boobs are like a magnet. we guys just can't help it.
 
Had a girlfriend who although beautiful hated the fact she had a large chest and staring made her horrridly uncomfortable so I never did. I never knew how easy it was until I made a serious effort not too as to not upset her ever. Oh well, learned to appreciate pretty eyes more.
 
PHATchik said:
I think they do it without realizing it. Even one of my best friends will glance at mine every once in a while. But there's nothing between us. It's just a matter of guys like to look.

No offense but that's fantasy. Your friend is not doing it by 'accident', he's admiring them and if he finds you attractive, he'd jump in the sack with you at the first opportunity. In my opinion, male/female 'friendship' is nearly an impossibility. I don't know about for the women but for the guys, if there is any attraction, they think about it and would take the opportunity if they thought they could get away with it.
 
Its the drooling part I try to avoid, I must admit that the gaping mouth thing is a bit off key, but I do have a cavity free maw and a constant air of minty freshness. I would prefer to stare at breasts than watch The Surgery Channel, but I am a pig/man/dog after all.
 
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