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Do memebers of the opposite sex intimidate you?

Bobber

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I have to admit that sometimes I am a pussy and wont talk to a girl because I think she is out of my league. Like last night...gorgeous brown hair blue eye girl and all I could do was say hi. Sometimes I wish i could be more direct.
 
Yes, this happens, but usually I manage to say something to them, unfortunately it usually involves me making a fool of myself, and finding out they are not interested. :)

But it is intimidating no doubt. Oh how good it would be to have better attributes about myself. i wouldnt mind having better looks, better social skills, better wit, in order to make myself more deserving of these women.
 
Yeah. They can insult me and I can't kick the fucking hell out them for it like I can men.
They used to make fun of me cuz I stutter sometimes when I talk.
...so I pretty much avoid them now.
 
Phaded said:
women only care about money

not true (its like me saying men only care about money)

yes, sometimes they do when the guy knows he is wealthy and good looking ....when arrogance kicks in I am not interested in him anymore....i go and puke!
 
No, never get that way but then again I seem to have a nack to know when I have a chance with a girl. So if I think I am in, I move right in, if not I ignore them.
 
No, I love the ladies!
Treat them well and they will treat you well, (well most of them anyway)

RADAR
 
only when they weigh more than me, have rolls of fat wrapped around their guts that look like 4 octopuses glued on, and have a mouth like that chick BBF almost picked up but didnt, are sloshingly drunk and are trying to discreetly bump into me in nightclubs with that awful intoxicated "i want you to want me" look on their faces, as if i were a little dumpling covered in sauce :worried:

the rest of the time, nah :D
 
no, i've been around women for way too often for that to happen; i mean at my old job i met hundreds of girls and saw most of them naked.
 
Yasmina said:
not true (its like me saying men only care about money)

yes, sometimes they do when the guy knows he is wealthy and good looking ....when arrogance kicks in I am not interested in him anymore....i go and puke!


if you don't speak truth, don't speak at all
 
HumanTarget said:
no, i've been around women for way too often for that to happen; i mean at my old job i met hundreds of girls and saw most of them naked.
WHAT!?!
Where you a doctor?
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
WHAT!?!
Where you a doctor?

I touch womens breasts every day in a cardiology clinic, but theyre usually old and have heart disease. Not my type.
 
women freak me out sometimes. i think they can go off any second and like stab you or some shit when your sleeping or run you over with their car. i don't fuck with anything where their hormones are fluctuating in all different directions.
 
fistfullofsteel said:
women freak me out sometimes. i don't fuck with anything where their hormones are fluctuating in all different directions.

good boy, keep it that way and you will live long :evil:
 
very rarely

but most women seem to be very scared of me when first meeting, god knows what they think i am gonna do to them lol
 
i wouldnt say intimidate but somewhat. im naturally i shy person till i get to know you.

a few weeks back me and the ol lady went to a club/bar just to have a few beers. were about to leave and she goes to the bathroom. im standing by myself and i turn around and three hotties are right in my face, it was like they all said lets go talk to this guy.

they say hi and im so nervous i say hi back but something like forest gump would do. they immediately pick up on it and laugh and ask me if im shy. i felt like a moron. then i left with my ol lady and she laughed at me.
 
I don't get intimidated because I know no matter what I say, she won't be able to say anything back with the duct tape over her mouth.
 
alien amp pharm said:
I don't get intimidated because I know no matter what I say, she won't be able to say anything back with the duct tape over her mouth.
LMAO...thats awesome.

Nope, me either.
 
Here's a tip...STOP GIVING A SHIT ABOUT WHAT THEY THINK.

Do this and they will flock to you.
 
Nah, theyre just people.

Just practice bor, you'll be fine.
 
Damn I didn't know I was sharing a board such big pimps! I am glad to know I am the only guy on here that thinks some women, aesthetically, are out of his league.
 
Bobber said:
Damn I didn't know I was sharing a board such big pimps! I am glad to know I am the only guy on here that thinks some women, aesthetically, are out of his league.


What is she going to do to you bor, say Im not interested?

What exactly scares/intimidates you?
 
JerseyArt said:
What is she going to do to you bor, say Im not interested?

What exactly scares/intimidates you?

She was just fucking hot as hell. It's not like all women intimidate me, just the really really hot ones that I don't know. And I guess fear of rejection is why I am ":scared".
 
Bobber said:
She was just fucking hot as hell. It's not like all women intimidate me, just the really really hot ones that I don't know. And I guess fear of rejection is why I am ":scared".
Your intimidation is a result of your acute awareness of what heavenly bliss it must be to have sex with said woman, and that makes it hard to relax and be yourself because you are paralyzed at the thought of getting rejected by such a hot woman. That = intinidation. The key is to not place so much mental awareness on the sex and also realize that if she turns you down you will not actually stop living.
 
spongebob said:
they say hi and im so nervous i say hi back but something like forest gump would do. they immediately pick up on it and laugh and ask me if im shy. i felt like a moron.
I know this feeling and circumstance far to well :mad:
CanadianCutie said:
U can't show intimdation.. ppl view it as weakness:P
This is true, unfortunately.
 
I will give you a tip, pretend you have no sexual feelings towards the opposite sex EVEN if they are the hotest people on the planet.

Think of them as a little pet. Then you won't be intimidated. Disconnect your feelings of attraction until you establish in your mind that it is safe to flirt with that person and he/she returns the favour. If you don't you will get shy, say the wrong thing and come out with some awful body gesticulation you never knew you were capable of doing and stuff up your chances.

Just be cool and think about what the other person is saying not how her boobs look and how she would look in the kitchen only in her apron doing the dishes, legs spread apart like an eagle.
 
Bobber said:
Damn I didn't know I was sharing a board such big pimps! I am glad to know I am the only guy on here that thinks some women, aesthetically, are out of his league.


Bro.. people are people, don't put ANYBODY on a pedestal.

It has nothing to do with being a pimp, it has everything to do with not giving that person that power over you.
 
TC2 said:
Bro.. people are people, don't put ANYBODY on a pedestal.

It has nothing to do with being a pimp, it has everything to do with not giving that person that power over you.


Thte whole power game blows...why can't we all just fuck and get along?
 
For some reason it is easier for me to talk to hot chicks moreso than any others. I just usually end up teasing them about something to avoid sounding like I'm hitting on them. If I'm in a good mood, I'm compelled to say something to them. Other less attractive females, I'll usually say hi to, like if we make eye contact.
I used to be intimidated when I started school, but hell, like anything, it's primarily just a state of mind, nothing more unless you make it out to be.
 
Yasmina said:
some people need their egos stroked
:rolleyes:


I was hoping for something much more tangible
 
Bobber,

don't let it bother you.


Some people are going to like you and others won't but it really has little to do with league. League is something we create it's not real, you don't know what that person thinks of you or more importantly what they think of themselves until you take the chance to reach out.
 
Yasmina said:
I will give you a tip, pretend you have no sexual feelings towards the opposite sex EVEN if they are the hotest people on the planet.

Think of them as a little pet. Then you won't be intimidated. Disconnect your feelings of attraction until you establish in your mind that it is safe to flirt with that person and he/she returns the favour. If you don't you will get shy, say the wrong thing and come out with some awful body gesticulation you never knew you were capable of doing and stuff up your chances.

Just be cool and think about what the other person is saying not how her boobs look and how she would look in the kitchen only in her apron doing the dishes, legs spread apart like an eagle.


Damn, you know just what's up don't you? Smarty pants.
 
Bobber said:
Thte whole power game blows...why can't we all just fuck and get along?


Stems from natural instincts-it's a derivative of the old "survival of the fittest" bag.
 
superdave said:
Your intimidation is a result of your acute awareness of what heavenly bliss it must be to have sex with said woman, and that makes it hard to relax and be yourself because you are paralyzed at the thought of getting rejected by such a hot woman. That = intinidation. The key is to not place so much mental awareness on the sex and also realize that if she turns you down you will not actually stop living.

lol, wow. that was quite an analysis!

Is there any truth to this?
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
Yeah. They can insult me and I can't kick the fucking hell out them for it like I can men.
They used to make fun of me cuz I stutter sometimes when I talk.
...so I pretty much avoid them now.

Bitches. I hate girls like that.
 
CanadianCutie said:
U can't show intimdation.. ppl view it as weakness:P

And people are animals (except for us rare geniuses) they will unconsciously set out to destroy the weaker ones.
 
TC2 said:
Here's a tip...STOP GIVING A SHIT ABOUT WHAT THEY THINK.

Do this and they will flock to you.

I do this and they pretty much stay the fuck away from me, but I do bare a resemblance to a maniacal looking killer.
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
Yeah. They can insult me and I can't kick the fucking hell out them for it like I can men.
They used to make fun of me cuz I stutter sometimes when I talk.
...so I pretty much avoid them now.

Ive been there before man

I hate the fact that I have alot to say but somehow the pathway from brain to mouth gets fucked up
 
evansteve said:
lol, wow. that was quite an analysis!

Is there any truth to this?
Of course. Think about your self for a split second and it all becomes crystal clear. But please dont ask anymore questions about getting a woman or I just might stop living myself.
 
Ever since I did that chokeslam to a mouthy girl and I got my name in the local news, they haven't really talked to me anymore.
 
superdave said:
Of course. Think about your self for a split second and it all becomes crystal clear. But please dont ask anymore questions about getting a woman or I just might stop living myself.


cant help it dude, I'm an inquisitive guy.
 
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