This sounds like a recurring pattern... I can't think of any of my friends that juice and most only go to the gym for short periods (a few weeks at a time) if at all. It is hard to find anyone to explain it to, so I don't. My wife is the closest to understanding. I have been lifting for 10 years (currently on first serious cycle EVER) and can't think of a time when I took more than 2 weeks off.
Some of the guys I used to play hockey with obviously juiced, but I don't play hockey anymore. Maybe I should!
There are also lots of juicers mostly younger than me at the gym but I don't make too many friends there.
There is one guy in my extended circle who seemed like he juiced for a short time - we didn't know him all that well then but he had big arms and for a few months was into going to the gym and just working chest and bi's. Guys called him "pipes" and he had a BB look to him (to us anyway).
Something bad like gyno must have happened because he got real spooked and never did any gear at all after that. He also started running and got real skinny. It made him look terrible. The saggy chest probably didn't go away and he wound up skinny with a weak looking jaw line and a haggard look from not eating enough and running too much (but BF seemed to go up). To be honest he looks like an old woman. My fat fuck non-running friends look better than that.
Man, that guy never should have stopped lifting. It's like he felt guilty for having big arms!
Actually a couple of times I have had friends comment that I look "too big" and one even struck some kind of stupid pose to imitate me as if I was just some idiot who walks around puffing out his chest all the time. I was just sitting there! Not puffing anything out!
Most guys are bigger than me genetically - and it really ticks them off that they cannot push me around now!
Oh well, c'est la vie, it seems that people who don't know you very well or not at all will respect you more for a good physique than your family and friends, who feel threatened or think maybe you've gone off your nut.
I just remembered I also have one crazy ripped friend who either has access to a lifetime of winny, or is an occasional juicer who diets a lot and takes his share of stimulants (is also a drinker). He works at a casino.
Anyway, when my flabby out of shape pals and I are standing around in a bar and they don't get the same kind of female attention they got when they were 23 years old (but I do), it makes it worth it because it pisses their flabby asses off.