I agree with this 100%. My GF knows. But we've been together a long time and she trusts me and my decisions. She was against it when I first told her, but I have been able to back up my views about it and she has educated herself about AAS. Honesty is the way to go if its a serious relationship. I can't imagine hiding something like that from a wife for 20 years. But if its just some girl your dating then fuck no.BigCracker said:Only God knows how many keystrokes I've typed on this topic here in the past. Once again, I must say that it's quite pathetic how many guys will go to such extremes to keep their supply of ass in check. Lying to your significant other, or lying by ommission about this part of your life is absolutely retarded. Guy's can argue otherwise as much as they want, but IMNSHO any girl that won't accept you for who you are along with your lifestyle choices is not worth keeping around. Guys will say they love their old lady, yet they're making them look foolish by hiding their AAS use. Especially when it's obvious to everyone except her. The repercussions a guy will suffer when she finds out the truth will likely kill the relationship. If you're lying/hiding your AAS use, what else are you hiding? Chances are she won't let you know that she knows the truth until after she sucks your best friends cock. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. For any successful LTR, honesty is a must.
mendo said:I agree with this. My GF knows. But we've been together a long time and she trusts me and my decisions. She was against it when I first told her, but I have been able to back up my views about it and she has educated herself about AAS. Honesty is the way to go if its a serious relationship. I can't imagine hiding something like that from a wife for 20 years. But if its just some girl your dating then fuck no.
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! K to ya for that bro!!!!!BigCracker said:I agree. No need to air out your dirty laundry right away. But before you're in a committed relationship it's best to fess up. If she thinks you're too big of an ignoramus to make decisions for yourself on whether roids are harmful or not, then dump that bitch. I can't stand people that never questions the bullshit the media feeds them-as if it's on tv, on the web, or in the news, it's gotta be fact, right? Duh.
I met some dumbass chick in the gym that said you're not one of those roid guys are you? I was like "that's like me asking you if your breasts are real?"(which they obviously were not) I also suggested for future reference that maybe she should at least try asking a person their name before she starts asking them such personal questions. She definitely wasn't feeling me after that. lol Fuck that bitch. I don't care how hot she thinks she is w/ her big fake titties, her shitty personality is enough to make my dick suck back into my pelvis like the head of a turtle.
ortiz34 said:You handled that perfectly Cracker. BTW did she cry? Lord knows NOBODY talks to a princess like that! You should be ashamed of yourself.
stuck said:Not telling her doesn't make your relationship a lie, and telling her doesn't make you morally superior to others.
Do what you think is right, either way you could end up screwed. There's no right answer here.
So the next time the old lady introduces you to one of her guy friends it's totally kosher to not tell you that his cock was in her mouth at one time? After all, it's up to her whether she tells you or not. Don't even say that it's any different. Lying is betrayal in any situation. It's precisely this reason our divorce rate is so high. One lie always leads to another and it's just a matter of time before the truth surfaces.docchiro08 said:that's my stand exactly!
BigCracker said:So the next time the old lady introduces you to one of her guy friends it's totally kosher to not tell you that his cock was in her mouth at one time? After all, it's up to her whether she tells you or not. Don't even say that it's any different. Lying is betrayal in any situation. It's precisely this reason our divorce rate is so high. One lie always leads to another and it's just a matter of time before the truth surfaces.
BigCracker said:So the next time the old lady introduces you to one of her guy friends it's totally kosher to not tell you that his cock was in her mouth at one time? After all, it's up to her whether she tells you or not. Don't even say that it's any different. Lying is betrayal in any situation. It's precisely this reason our divorce rate is so high. One lie always leads to another and it's just a matter of time before the truth surfaces.
docchiro08 said:i see where your going and respect your opinion, but in situations like that my "old lady" knows that i don't really care. i know what goes in "and out" of her mouth now. we share the same point of view on things like that. if there is something i want to know, i'll ask her, and she does the same. now if she asked me and i lied, then i'm the ass and responsible for what happens when i'm busted. by the way, my girl DOES know. she asked and i told her the honest truth. she knew anyway, but wanted to hear it from me. you do make a good point though.
BigCracker said:Ask me no questions and I'll tell you no lies.
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stuck said:Not telling her doesn't make your relationship a lie, and telling her doesn't make you morally superior to others.
Do what you think is right, either way you could end up screwed. There's no right answer here.
My own opinion - tell her how many other girls you've slept with, how many times you masturbate a week, or about each chick you see at the mall you'd like to nail. There's a line for everything, it's just up to you to decide where yours is.
BigCracker said:She was definitely surprised and I undoubtedly fulfilled any dickhead bb stereotypes she may have had-but oh well? I normally go out of my way to not notice the girls that seem to know every guy in the gym. When they try to talk to me, I tell them I don't wanna be a member of their fan club. They hate that-but when I see them out at a bar before the night is over I'll sodomize them while bent over their car in the parking lot. One girl even blew me behind the bar right next to a smelly garbage dumpster. I could barely nut with the smell distracting me. Funny how the less respect I give them the more likely they are to bang me. Even funnier is the guy that bought her flowers and took her out to an $80 dinner the night before and didn't even get a kiss goodnight. Then again, I didn't get a kiss goodnight either. I feel so used and dirty. I need some of that Order Of The Serpentine body scrub stuff-and probably a wood file to scrape the warts off my cock a few days later.
docchiro08 said:exactly. look, relationships aren't "cookie-cutter", different things work for different people. i've been in plenty of relationships where the girl wanted to know everything whether she asked me or not. those obviously didn't work FOR ME. i'm also not saying that i hide things that i think she won't like. you treat your spouse with the same respect you think you deserve. if i screw up and she doesn't know about it, then i'll tell her. it's better that way. but you should know your significant other well enough to know what would bother her and what she could care less about. if something happens that would bother her then i don't wait to tell her, but that sort of thing rarely happens. i just happened to be lucky enough to find someone as laid back as i am.
BigCracker said:Whatever happened to being a real man and telling her if she doesn't like something about you to hit the fucking road?
Cookie cutter? Sounds more like the pussified male this country's been turning out since chicks started burning their bras 40 yrs ago. The whole beg for forgiveness rather than ask permission thing is both deceitful, and disrespectful.
Why are guys so afraid to be themselves? Likely because they're too pussywhipped and insecure with their ability to be able to find a girl that will accept them as-is. Guys that lead this secret life behind their woman's back are living a lie. Their relationships are a complete facade as well-and will most likely end up another divorce statistic.
Personally I'd rather be alone than have to hide shit from my girl as if she were the vigilant parent constantly monitoring my behavior. I'm a grown man, and no pussy in the world is worth altering my life or personal views on anything. The girls I date respect me more and never have to worry about looking like a fool that dates a guy that's dishonest and sneaky.
If a girl with any amount of self esteem catches you in even 1 lie, it will not be forgotten any time soon. So when prince charming comes along and takes her away from you she'll be able to justify it no problem. Chicks are like monkeys-they don't let go of one branch until they have a firm grip on another. However, she'll let you think you're forgiven until the right opportunity surfaces. Sounds kinda shady on her part huh? What you reap is what you sow.
My post wasn't directed towards you specifically. I see nothing wrong with your view on relationships. Some girls like Ryan Seacrest types where others prefer to be treated like shit. However this isn't the topic I'm posting about. I'm talking about the guy that revamps his personality whenever his girl comes around and hides his less sociably acceptable habits(roids) from her like I used to hide my beer drinking from my parents when I was in high school. These are the same guys that fuck strippers at their bachelor party 2 days before they marry the girl of their dreams-basically making his future ex wife look like a fool before the ink is even dry on the marriage license. If lying and deceit is love, let me never be loved.docchiro08 said:wow buddy. no one said anything about secret lives behind their woman's back. nor did i say anything about running to my woman and begging for forgiveness for anything. i said that if i screw up, nothing big like cheating or anything just the average kind of stuff, then i'll let her know. and of course, if she has a problem with it or starts to dictate my life, then she's not the one for me and i move on. i'm sorry if you think that one thing works for everyone in every relationship. i am VERY respectful of women i date and the woman i'm with now. matter of fact, i've been told by, seriously, EVERY girl that has ever gone out on more than one date with me that i'm the most respectful and have the most manners of any other guy they've dated. if i remember correctly your the one that posted the other day about treating girls like crap, and the worse you treat them the more they want to sleep with you. kuttos to you if that works. another example that not everything works for everyone, but i'm finished defending my point. say what you will.
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