ashash said:
I've never had a virgin. What's it like? Is it really hard to penetrate? Does it hurt (guys and gals)? How far in is the hymen?
Discuss your fond defloration memories!
Well, the last time (possibly the only time) I had sex with a virgin I was 17 (12 years ago now!). She was 16. I had a bit of experience, but not a lot, of course.
Yes, it was hard to penetrate, and the first time I tried I realised that she wasn't nearly wet enought (although she seemed wet to me at the time). Trouble was, I was all but busting my load as it was. Anyway, a bit of calming down from me, a lot more foreplay and a bit of lube later, we tried again, this time with her on top so that she could control everything. I seem to remember that she thought this was a bit odd but she soon realised the sense of it, I think.
She was very tight, and the first few times we did it she stayed on top. She was more relaxed after a few sessions, though.
It's a good feeling, knowing that you're the first man to have been inside her.
I don't recall any issues with the hymen - more exercise for teenage girls and the near-universal use of tampons means, I think, that this sign of virginity, which was so prized in earlier times, is often broken before the virginity is!