Dating question....

[Meantime1]

IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO THE RULES

It is that simple and some of you said it best, it is about who has the upper hand, i for one play games only to a certain extent, if i like a person i would let them know i like them, BUT if i feel u are playing me for a fool, i move on very quickly and PUNISH u by NEVER EVER given u a moment of my time, i will NEVER even look your way or acknowledge u exist, it is funny, when i often do that, that is when they sooo want my attention and to spend time with me, BUT the problem is by then i have already moved on

I do think the only way to go around this game thing is to be honest and have a great deal of self respect, if u feel someone is taken u for a ride or playing games, Loose their number soo fast, they would not know what hit them.

 

[Forge]

I think guys think i play games, but really i'm just not interested

LOL. But the question is do you tell them you aren't interested, or do you just act uninterested? One is playing games, the other is being upfront and honest.

 

[*MissFit*]

I show im disinterested. i'm not rude about it though..

I find alot of guys to not get the hint

 

[Forge]

I show im disinterested. i'm not rude about it though..

I find alot of guys to not get the hint

My ex wife had the same kind of behavior, she would drop hints about things but never directly say what she really felt or wanted. I used to always tell her that men can't read minds and we don't think like women do, directness is something we both appreciate and respect. Well, at least I do.

 

[*MissFit*]

I'm a bit picky though.. sometimes.. i wish that would change..

I have gone out a few times with ppl i don't think im interested in order to give them a chance..

My ex wife had the same kind of behavior, she would drop hints about things but never directly say what she really felt or wanted. I used to always tell her that men can't read minds and we don't think like women do, directness is something we both appreciate and respect. Well, at least I do.

 

[Forge]

I'm a bit picky though.. sometimes.. i wish that would change..

I have gone out a few times with ppl i don't think im interested in order to give them a chance..

Oh I'm picky too, and I've gone out with people I really wasn't interested in just to give them another chance, but when I made up my mind I've always told them exactly why I was breaking it off. I wouldn't want some girl to just start avoiding me without an explanation so I won't do it to someone else either.

 

[javaguru]

Games are unnecessary if you play by the golden rule and are genuinely compatible as a couple.

 

[Spartacus]

I did too, read my fuckin' post. (the first one I made)

beanie babies

 

[evansteve]

beanie babies

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lol

 

[Spartacus]

?

lol

well looks like we're gonna have to hijack QT's thread now doesn't it?
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