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I woke up cranky cuz hubby left today and returns a week from Saturday, I've been maniacally cleaning since I got home and now am going to sleep in my empty bed :(
I feel pathetic and lame lol
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Im pretty sure Id fall apart if he left me, it's always been, just me and him, since we moved here

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I feel ya girl. I forgot how nice it was to fall asleep next to a man until I got together with my Tshirt guy.
 
i have a crazy awesome marriage with my wife and i am crazy about those kids. but when they leave for a week, i gotta say i get pretty excited. they are leaving for a week to go to springfield and I can't wait. Now if they left me, that would be a shitty deal and i'd miss them a lot. but for a week it's kinda a treat.
 
Nan, I've been left and I fell into a million pc's, but you know what? It all turned out ok. Made me stronger and more confident that I could be alone and be ok with that.
It's not pathetic! It's just scary to feel or sense loss.

How did you do last night?
 
blueta2 said:
Nan, I've been left and I fell into a million pc's, but you know what? It all turned out ok. Made me stronger and more confident that I could be alone and be ok with that.
It's not pathetic! It's just scary to feel or sense loss.

How did you do last night?
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Lol, yeah you realize all the stuff they did that you didn't appreciate too. Like, kill spiders and do "man" stuff etc call repair men and deal with car trouble. Feeling safe.
 
cindylou said:
Lol, yeah you realize all the stuff they did that you didn't appreciate too. Like, kill spiders and do "man" stuff etc call repair men and deal with car trouble. Feeling safe.
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Well, I never allow anyone to kill bugs in front of me..haha!
I am really independent and the men in my life didn't do any "man" stuff for me, but I did miss certain things like some cooking, picking up things for me etc.
They all had good traits. But you grow, you live you learn.
As independent as I am, I still like when others help me out
 
I used to get like that..now Im all like

"ahhhhhh the middle of the bed is MINE, all mine"
 
hes cheating on you
 
was going to have morning sex, but kid woke up at 5:20 fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuccccccccccccccccckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
 
Now I'm kinda pissy/butthurt.... he hasnt called me or logged on to chat or anything and it's been almost a week WTF!? he posts in FB pics and shit he's doing and posted once in my wall saying he's happy to see friends and family but misses me and cant wait to go back... but srsly a FB post, that's what I get...

Am I being to irrational? is it too much to ask to actually chat or talk to him at least once? getting just a FB post seems irrelevant regardless of what it said, anyone can get a FB post, I'm his wife....

I'm probably just being ridiculous :worried:
 
nangiggles said:
I woke up cranky cuz hubby left today and returns a week from Saturday, I've been maniacally cleaning since I got home and now am going to sleep in my empty bed :(
I feel pathetic and lame lol
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Ah, don't be so hard on yourself. You're young, that's all!

I'm sending mine off by himself for a week in June to a pagan festival. Told him it's long past time that he take a vacation alone, go have an adventure before it's too late.
 
musclemom said:
Ah, don't be so hard on yourself. You're young, that's all!

I'm sending mine off by himself for a week in June to a pagan festival. Told him it's long past time that he take a vacation alone, go have an adventure before it's too late.
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at least I keep the insanity to myself and I'm not calling him or giving him shit for not calling, I may be pissy but dont wanna ruin his vacation.
 
cindylou said:
No you're not. He should be calling you.
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You think? I kinda figured Thursday doesnt count since he left in the afternoon, and weekend he's out to trips and parties at night, but Monday he should have at least sent an email or something.... there's skype, msn, phones, etc I guess he thinks FB is enough.... damn technology era :mix:
 
nangiggles said:
You think? I kinda figured Thursday doesnt count since he left in the afternoon, and weekend he's out to trips and parties at night, but Monday he should have at least sent an email or something.... there's skype, msn, phones, etc I guess he thinks FB is enough.... damn technology era :mix:
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Nice husband...I would run him off
 
nangiggles said:
You think? I kinda figured Thursday doesnt count since he left in the afternoon, and weekend he's out to trips and parties at night, but Monday he should have at least sent an email or something.... there's skype, msn, phones, etc I guess he thinks FB is enough.... damn technology era :mix:
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Well yeah, but that's just me, but I think you kinda agree. You already said you were hurt. There is no way you're being "needy" and this isn't "insanity". You can't help what hurts you. You are putting his needs and vacation above your own which is awesome; you are a great wife, but when he gets home or when he gets a free minute you might tell him that you're a little hurt (but not angry) that he hasn't called you or contacted you outside FB.

I don't think you're being ridiculous at all. Not at all with 5 days no phone/text/nothing besides FB. :hug:
 
cindylou said:
Well yeah, but that's just me, but I think you kinda agree. You already said you were hurt. There is no way you're being "needy" and this isn't "insanity". You can't help what hurts you. You are putting his needs and vacation above your own which is awesome; you are a great wife, but when he gets home or when he gets a free minute you might tell him that you're a little hurt (but not angry) that he hasn't called you or contacted you outside FB.

I don't think you're being ridiculous at all. Not at all with 5 days no phone/text/nothing besides FB. :hug:
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he just logged into MSN like 20 min ago.... but hasnt talked to me, I dont know why (pig headed pride?) but I dont want to approach him... I dunno... it's a two way street, I havent called him either...
 
when my husband and I are are gone somewhere separately we contact each other by phone at least daily...and honestly pretty constant running txt msgs
 
shirlene29 said:
when my husband and I are are gone somewhere separately we contact each other by phone at least daily...and honestly pretty constant running txt msgs
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OMG, if I went a day without calling my wife while I was traveling I'd never be able to kiss enough ass afterward to make up for it.

It's a little different when you don't have kids, but hell you are a couple.

I agree with cindy that it's awesome how you don't want to ruin his vacation; but I can tell you my wife would have been right up my ass by 11PM on the first night I didn't call to check in.
 
nydj66 said:
OMG, if I went a day without calling my wife while I was traveling I'd never be able to kiss enough ass afterward to make up for it.

It's a little different when you don't have kids, but hell you are a couple.

I agree with cindy that it's awesome how you don't want to ruin his vacation; but I can tell you my wife would have been right up my ass by 11PM on the first night I didn't call to check in.
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Lol wow, so Im being pretty chill then, interesting...
He did talk to me in chat, said he's been connecting on msn and I told him me too, seems my sister logged me off when she borrowed my PC -_-' Im glad I didnt blow up lol

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He told me he'd call me at 8 and I got home at 8:45, thankfully he was still there :P this time it was my fault :P
 
nydj66 said:
OMG, if I went a day without calling my wife while I was traveling I'd never be able to kiss enough ass afterward to make up for it.

It's a little different when you don't have kids, but hell you are a couple.

I agree with cindy that it's awesome how you don't want to ruin his vacation; but I can tell you my wife would have been right up my ass by 11PM on the first night I didn't call to check in.
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I actually have to have a procedure done on both elbows and shoulders the day my husband is going away, he'll be taking me to the doctor then headed off for vacation. I fully intend to tell him don't bother calling me until two days after he leaves because I expect to not be able to hold a phone.

Some women are clingy, in need constant of constant reassurance and insecure about their relationships. I don't fall into that category. I was considering telling him I wanted to go on vacation by myself in the next two weeks and since I don't own a cell phone calling him would be problematic, that was the least of my concerns.

Jealousy is the bane of youth. Getting rid of that shit is definitely one of the bennie's about getting older.
 
musclemom said:
I actually have to have a procedure done on both elbows and shoulders the day my husband is going away, he'll be taking me to the doctor then headed off for vacation. I fully intend to tell him don't bother calling me until two days after he leaves because I expect to not be able to hold a phone.

Some women are clingy, in need constant of constant reassurance and insecure about their relationships. I don't fall into that category. I was considering telling him I wanted to go on vacation by myself in the next two weeks and since I don't own a cell phone calling him would be problematic, that was the least of my concerns.

Jealousy is the bane of youth. Getting rid of that shit is definitely one of the bennie's about getting older.
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I honestly trust he's not cheating on me and jealousy is not the reason I wanted to talk to him, I just wanted to know if he was having a good time and if he was able to give the gifts I sent out to our friends and family and if they liked them
 
i don't take it like that nan

when my wife or i travels we talk daily, even if it's for a few minutes before she goes to bed
 
i'm sorry nan, i'd eat dat box if i were closer to help comfort you
 
musclemom said:
I actually have to have a procedure done on both elbows and shoulders the day my husband is going away, he'll be taking me to the doctor then headed off for vacation. I fully intend to tell him don't bother calling me until two days after he leaves because I expect to not be able to hold a phone.

Some women are clingy, in need constant of constant reassurance and insecure about their relationships. I don't fall into that category. I was considering telling him I wanted to go on vacation by myself in the next two weeks and since I don't own a cell phone calling him would be problematic, that was the least of my concerns.

Jealousy is the bane of youth. Getting rid of that shit is definitely one of the bennie's about getting older.
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I have a tendency to withraw into myself sometimes so having a wife who's a little insecure keeps me communicating and keeps us close. If she called me constantly and was a basket case all the time I could never put up with it.

But the fact that she wants to hear from me at least once a day works for us and it doesn't seem unreasonable.
 
nangiggles said:
he just logged into MSN like 20 min ago.... but hasnt talked to me, I dont know why (pig headed pride?) but I dont want to approach him... I dunno... it's a two way street, I havent called him either...
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He's your husband for fuck's sake. Why wouldnt you call him if you miss him and want to talk? Are you 'putting him to the test' to see if/when he might call you? Thats stupid IMO. Pick up the phOne and call if you wanna talk. This whole thing seems weird.
 
smurf2 said:
He's your husband for fuck's sake. Why wouldnt you call him if you miss him and want to talk? Are you 'putting him to the test' to see if/when he might call you? Thats stupid IMO. Pick up the phOne and call if you wanna talk. This whole thing seems weird.
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it seems a lil bf/gf ish to not just say hey when he signed in
 
EarthRider said:
it seems a lil bf/gf ish to not just say hey when he signed in
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Because I didnt want to bother him, maybe he logged in just for a minute to check his email or something and he's on his way out, if I say hi then he's gonna have to talk to me and I know he's nice enough to not tell me he's busy.

I'm very weird like that, not just with him, I always feel like I bother or inconvenience people :worried:
 
nangiggles said:
Because I didnt want to bother him, maybe he logged in just for a minute to check his email or something and he's on his way out, if I say hi then he's gonna have to talk to me and I know he's nice enough to not tell me he's busy.

I'm very weird like that, not just with him, I always feel like I bother or inconvenience people :worried:
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Its one thing if its an acquaintance or something, but this is your husband. Dont you think he would WANT to talk to you ?
 
smurf2 said:
lol you two need to stop acting like teenagers! hahaha
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lolol, I'm now perfectly fine with not talking to him until he comes back Saturday :D

I'm so happy because I've done a bunch of stuff around the house, finally took dogs to get shots and county tags, took dane to vet for his ear infection, redid a part of the front garden with a zen/Buddhist planter head on a column, made some flowering hanging baskets for the pool deck area, bought some solar lights for the entrance, planted a giant pot of begonias in the entrance and am going back to black hair which I'm sure he'll love :heart:
 
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