Cumming inside her(ladies please look)

[trinigodzilla]

I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 1/2 yrs and she still will not let me do this. She is on the pill and she still says she is scared of getting pregnant. I have even suggested using vaginal spermicides, still nothing. This is bothersome as with my ex we were doing this after 3 months. Ladies any advice/help.

 

[NLR TJ]

One question, bro. Are you ready to do the right thing if she does, I know you want to use other methods but none are definate. Look, I may sound like a pig in this manor, but obviously she isn't ready for that and you need to respect that bro. Just do it on her, can be very entertaining and fun, and alot less dangerous, just mind the eyeballs. LOL

 

[trinigodzilla]

One question, bro. Are you ready to do the right thing if she does, I know you want to use other methods but none are definate. Look, I may sound like a pig in this manor, but obviously she isn't ready for that and you need to respect that bro. Just do it on her, can be very entertaining and fun, and alot less dangerous, just mind the eyeballs. LOL

Yes we have often talked about getting married and its just a financial step hold back at this point.

 

[SoKlueles]

Yeah respect her wishes, if she doesnt want to get pregnant, and obviously the bcp is safe but sometimes women get preg while on it, play it safe and let her be the one to decide to let u do it.....

 

[unikron]

make sure she is taking her pill and when she is starting her period the first day, cum inside her. she could theoreticallly still get pregnant but its waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay lower than just on the pill

 

[trinigodzilla]

Yeah respect her wishes, if she doesnt want to get pregnant, and obviously the bcp is safe but sometimes women get preg while on it, play it safe and let her be the one to decide to let u do it.....

It's just that I do not understand the fear. She seems to have a lot of irrational fears. What bothers me is that even when we talk about this activity after marriage she is still unsure.

 

[MissJanet79]

Well typically, it can take a while for a woman to be pregnant while on the pill...like I've been on the pill for 3 years & I'd have to be off of it for a few months in order to get pregnant. However there's always risks! But I know my body already...I had a scare before b/c I hadn't taken my pill in 5 days!! But it turned out fine... like the doc told me, (for me) I'd have to be off the pill for a few months if I wanted to get pregnant!
For the 3 years that I've been on the pill, that is literally the ONLY time I've been sexually active...so before that I wasn't. & for all 3 years, my ex & my current, came inside of me EVERY SINGLE TIME!!

 

[trinigodzilla]

Well typically, it can take a while for a woman to be pregnant while on the pill...like I've been on the pill for 3 years & I'd have to be off of it for a few months in order to get pregnant. However there's always risks! But I know my body already...I had a scare before b/c I hadn't taken my pill in 5 days!! But it turned out fine... like the doc told me, (for me) I'd have to be off the pill for a few months if I wanted to get pregnant!
For the 3 years that I've been on the pill, that is literally the ONLY time I've been sexually active...so before that I wasn't. & for all 3 years, my ex & my current, came inside of me EVERY SINGLE TIME!!

When I was with my ex(a little over 2 yrs) i came inside every single time. We had one scare and this girl would always forget to take the pill. My current girl in 3 1/2yrs has NEVER forgotten. I just don't get it. I should also say that this girl has nearly no sexual desire. I was good friends with her for a while so I know its not just with me. My ex couldn't get enough. The other weird thing is, I know or believe that the average girl can feel when a guy cums inside her, but my current seems to have no feeling in there. There have been about 4 mishaps since we have been together, and she never felt one. I feel bad but I didn't want to scare her so I never told her that is what happened.

 

[pinkpanther3speed]

the risks for getting pregnant is very low while on the pill, i was on the pill for fifteen years & never once did i get pregnant, i have now been off the pill for a year now & my fiance' & I all we have done over the last twelve months is he has pulled out & still no probs but we are getting married in seven weeks and then he can blow all he likes then!

 

[trinigodzilla]

the risks for getting pregnant is very low while on the pill, i was on the pill for fifteen years & never once did i get pregnant, i have now been off the pill for a year now & my fiance' & I all we have done over the last twelve months is he has pulled out & still no probs but we are getting married in seven weeks and then he can blow all he likes then!

your'e making me jealous I just don't know how to explain this to her. Any advice on getting over this hump, even other forms of doubling up on birth control.

 

[pinkpanther3speed]

your'e making me jealous I just don't know how to explain this to her. Any advice on getting over this hump, even other forms of doubling up on birth control.

well i have some suggestions for you and these are some examples below, I hope this will help you out! goodluck

The diaphragm and the cap
The diaphragm and cap are devices made of thin, soft rubber that are inserted into the upper part of the vagina to cover the cervix (neck of the womb). They act as a barrier to sperm.

Caps are smaller than diaphragms, but both are available in several types and sizes. In the first instance the cap or diaphragm needs to be fitted by a doctor or family planning nurse, to make sure it’s the right size and is positioned correctly. After the initial fitting, they are put in place up to a few hours before sex. They need to be used with a spermicidal cream or pessary, and should be left in place for at least six hours after sex.

If used correctly, with spermicide, caps and diaphragms are 92 to 96% effective at preventing pregnancy.

Sponge
This is a small sponge impregnated with a spermicidal gel or cream. It is moistened with water before use, and then inserted high into the vagina to cover the cervix. It needs to be left in place for at least six hours after sex, and can be left for up to 30 hours, although there is a risk of infection if left for longer than that.

This method offers 70 to 90% protection.

Spermicides
These are creams, gels or pessaries (dissolvable tablets, inserted into the vagina) that contain a chemical that kills sperm. They can increase the effectiveness of barrier methods of contraception, but they do not provide reliable contraception when used alone. Spermicides can be bought without prescription at pharmacies. Some condoms have a coating of spermicidal lubricant.

 

[Mr. Black]

My advice would be to just to fuck her in the ass and blow there instead. Best birth control ever

 

[onebigab]

If you fuck her in the ass then she can't get pregnant.

 

[TheMaestro]

when my ex was on the pill i would do it all the time, otherwise no way!!!!

 

[Gymgurl]

If you fuck her in the ass then she can't get pregnant.

Unless she lays down and it runs into the kitty.....then there goes this theory.

 

[Dial_tone]

For the 3 years that I've been on the pill, that is literally the ONLY time I've been sexually active...so before that I wasn't. & for all 3 years, my ex & my current, came inside of me EVERY SINGLE TIME!!

Okay, I'm hard now.

 

[Robert Jan]

Whats so cool about that. I prefer in the mouth anyway

 

[Spartacus]

whatever you do,don't marry this girl
I'm reading betwwen the lines in your posts,and you will not be happy with this one long term
hell you're not happy now

 

[Dial_tone]

Wear a rubber and cum inside her...don't put it all on her.

 

[javaguru]

Facials are better anyway....

 

[Mandy]

Why is sex everything that matters to guys? If she doesn't want you cumming inside her then just fucking respect it. My bet is that if you are sensitive to her wishes about it and don't push it and bug her about it then she will be more likely to relaxing and letting you. When my ex didn't bug me about doing kinky stuff it made me want to do it. But the second he started on me with his bullshit nagging and stuff I was like "OH HELL NO!" And that was it. Be grateful she even has sex with you. Women can restrict that stuff so easily and then you would be SUFFERING! The more understanding and respectful you are of her needs the more she will relax and let you have your way.

 

[solidg]

dump

 

[Spartacus]

Why is sex everything that matters to guys? If she doesn't want you cumming inside her then just fucking respect it. My bet is that if you are sensitive to her wishes about it and don't push it and bug her about it then she will be more likely to relaxing and letting you. When my ex didn't bug me about doing kinky stuff it made me want to do it. But the second he started on me with his bullshit nagging and stuff I was like "OH HELL NO!" And that was it. Be grateful she even has sex with you. Women can restrict that stuff so easily and then you would be SUFFERING! The more understanding and respectful you are of her needs the more she will relax and let you have your way.

UNFUCKINGBELIEVABLE

 

[Mandy]

UNFUCKINGBELIEVABLE

Why?

 

[Spartacus]

Be grateful she even has sex with you. Women can restrict that stuff so easily and then you would be SUFFERING!

intimacy is enjoyable for both

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Why is sex everything that matters to guys? If she doesn't want you cumming inside her then just fucking respect it. My bet is that if you are sensitive to her wishes about it and don't push it and bug her about it then she will be more likely to relaxing and letting you. When my ex didn't bug me about doing kinky stuff it made me want to do it. But the second he started on me with his bullshit nagging and stuff I was like "OH HELL NO!" And that was it. Be grateful she even has sex with you. Women can restrict that stuff so easily and then you would be SUFFERING! The more understanding and respectful you are of her needs the more she will relax and let you have your way.

Wow. I was in agreement with you for the first part. I would not want a woman to do anything she wasn't cool with in bed, but if she pulled that shit on me of cutting me off, I would cut her lose so fast... or at the very least not turn down the offers I constantly get every time I seem to get involved with someone. Grateful that she even has sex with you? Wow. You sound like a frigid woman who doesn't enjoy sex. Sorry, but there ARE a very large number of women who enjoy sex greatly as well.

 

[Mandy]

Wow. I was in agreement with you for the first part. I would not want a woman to do anything she wasn't cool with in bed, but if she pulled that shit on me of cutting me off, I would cut her lose so fast... or at the very least not turn down the offers I constantly get every time I seem to get involved with someone. Grateful that she even has sex with you? Wow. You sound like a frigid woman who doesn't enjoy sex. Sorry, but there ARE a very large number of women who enjoy sex greatly as well.

Wow! You weren't kidding when you said you slammed me. I'm not saying I would ever restrict sex because I'm the one in the relationship who is always wanting to be naughty and mess around so that tactic would end up torturing me more than it would him. But, I was simply saying that I know women who have witheld it and their men truly did suffer.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Wow! You weren't kidding when you said you slammed me. I'm not saying I would ever restrict sex because I'm the one in the relationship who is always wanting to be naughty and mess around so that tactic would end up torturing me more than it would him. But, I was simply saying that I know women who have witheld it and their men truly did suffer.

LoL, its ok. That just blew my mind. I find women amusing who act like they are doing men a favor by letting them have some... but I think the issue is that those women are just not having sex with men who know what they are doing. Welcome to EF btw.

 

[Spartacus]

Wow. I was in agreement with you for the first part. I would not want a woman to do anything she wasn't cool with in bed, but if she pulled that shit on me of cutting me off, I would cut her lose so fast... or at the very least not turn down the offers I constantly get every time I seem to get involved with someone. Grateful that she even has sex with you? Wow. You sound like a frigid woman who doesn't enjoy sex. Sorry, but there ARE a very large number of women who enjoy sex greatly as well.

my sentiments exactly,
just didn't feel like expressing them
too busy eatin pussy

 

[trinigodzilla]

whatever you do,don't marry this girl
I'm reading betwwen the lines in your posts,and you will not be happy with this one long term
hell you're not happy now

That's an interesting thing to pick up on. It is mainly because I came from a very sexual and loving relationship, into one that was built on friendship without lots of love and sex. It is a vast change. Don't get me wrong she is a great girl but it's weird being with someone that has just about no sex drive.

 

[trinigodzilla]

Why is sex everything that matters to guys? If she doesn't want you cumming inside her then just fucking respect it. My bet is that if you are sensitive to her wishes about it and don't push it and bug her about it then she will be more likely to relaxing and letting you. When my ex didn't bug me about doing kinky stuff it made me want to do it. But the second he started on me with his bullshit nagging and stuff I was like "OH HELL NO!" And that was it. Be grateful she even has sex with you. Women can restrict that stuff so easily and then you would be SUFFERING! The more understanding and respectful you are of her needs the more she will relax and let you have your way.

You have got to be kidding me. Look I'm not gonna say much as 4everhung has said it right so far. This is not some random girl I am talking about. If you were thinking of marrying some guy and you were sexually disatisfied you would be thinking along different lines. Sex is not everything but realize that it is the single physical thing that seperates good friends from a couple.

 

[Robert Jan]

Women can restrict that stuff so easily and then you would be SUFFERING!

HO

As soon as any girl gets her whoremonestm flowing and gives me this stupid manipulative bullshit I'd be so turned off I wouldn't even want to fuck her.

This isn't fucking war this is supposed to be fun and friendship and being nice to one another.

 

[Triple-G]

even if she would let me i didn't cum inside any women until i got a vasectomy. not because the pill is so unreliable, i would never trust a woman in that matter. there are a ton of cases where the man has to pay for a child because the women tricked him into having unprotected sex.
cumming in the mouth makes still more fun ...

 

[Gymgurl]

^^I agree about the mouth thing......

 

[milo hobgoblin]

"Be grateful she even has sex with you. Women can restrict that stuff so easily and then you would be SUFFERING! "

that made my stomach turn... you are a fucking disgusting woman who obviously uses sex as a tool.

 

[lavi]

even if she would let me i didn't cum inside any women until i got a vasectomy. not because the pill is so unreliable, i would never trust a woman in that matter. there are a ton of cases where the man has to pay for a child because the women tricked him into having unprotected sex.

agreed...

 

[MissJanet79]

Wow. I was in agreement with you for the first part. I would not want a woman to do anything she wasn't cool with in bed, but if she pulled that shit on me of cutting me off, I would cut her lose so fast... or at the very least not turn down the offers I constantly get every time I seem to get involved with someone. Grateful that she even has sex with you? Wow. You sound like a frigid woman who doesn't enjoy sex. Sorry, but there ARE a very large number of women who enjoy sex greatly as well.

Gotta agree w/ ya BBF....

 

[Mr. Black]

the second he started on me with his bullshit nagging and stuff I was like "OH HELL NO!" And that was it. Be grateful she even has sex with you. Women can restrict that stuff so easily and then you would be SUFFERING! QUOTE]

I pitty the poor bastard that ends up with you