And you WANT a WHOLESOME girl? What's your definition of wholesome? Would she want you?
Everyone - male & female - has done something (or someone) to regret, it's part of learning and sometimes you pick the wrong person or get fooled. I just dated a really wholesome girl... she's very smart, workout freak, only dated 2 guys before me (late 20's!) but TOO sheltered all her life. No edge. No snarkiness. Always nice to your face. I prefer a woman who can take care of herself, work the bitch side occasionally and say how she really feels
and I've got a friend just like yours.. any woman he's ever been with, is automatically off limits to the group cause he a) likes to give details at the time and b) he's enough of a pig to keep bringing it up behind your back....
If you've got questions and describing 'banging her ovaries' here you're not into her enough. And she's already been through both of you, I don't know if or what kind of conversation you had beforehand, if you had to seduce her or if she just jumped in on her own.... so move on. There's a TON of good women around who haven't been in your circle, you need to want to meet them badly enough and treat 'em right.