confused... need help

[Daisy_]

Kay here it is....
I have been off the pill for 2 months now, We arent using any sort of birthcontrol.. For example condoms. I have been on the pill for 5 years. I went out last weekend and got pretty drunk. Drank beer. Anyways I dont even know if I am pregnant and I feel guilty like what if I am and just dont know it yet? What are the chances of hurting my baby?? If I am pregnant?

 

[Sassy69]

From drinking beer? Let's back up. First verify your current situation - either wait 3 weeks & see what happens or go get a preg test. And dont' drink any more beer until you know. Next, explain to me why you are having sex w/o some form of birth control and not expecting to get pregnant? If you are expecting some sort of residual coverage by the pills you went off because it hasn't been that long, be aware that the OB-GYN will tell you that there's a chance of getting pregant if you miss 1 pill on 1 day. They usually tell you to double up on pills the next day & use a back up method of birth control (e.g. condoms) for the remainder of the month.

 

[Tink!]

HI there, i too am confused about which part could hurt your baby??? If you are talking about the drinking, as long as you don't any more, you should be in the clear. I have had a few friends who dabbled in drugs and drank the first few weeks of their pregnancy, and happy healthy babies!!! The first few weeks of my current pregnancy, i drank, and everything seems great!!! I would just wait off on everything until you find out for sure!

 

[Puddles]

Drinking during pregnancy isn't good but it's especially bad in the 2nd and 3rd trimesters. If you had a few drinks one night things will be fine.

 

[Daisy_]

I realize drinking during pregnancy isnt good at all. And I would NEVER do it if I knew that I was pregnant. I was just curious if say I was? And if I was I would only be about a week 2 weeks absolute tops. I guess I just shouldnt drink so I dont have a feeling of guilt. The thing is... I just recently got married and we decided to go off birth control to have a baby one day, Because it can take some girls soooo long to get pregnant and some others it is so easy after they go off the pill. So it is kind of a if it happens it happens sort of thing. We are not "not" trying I guess you could say.

 

[WORKIN' ON IT]

Kay here it is....
I have been off the pill for 2 months now, We arent using any sort of birthcontrol.. For example condoms. I have been on the pill for 5 years. I went out last weekend and got pretty drunk. Drank beer. Anyways I dont even know if I am pregnant and I feel guilty like what if I am and just dont know it yet? What are the chances of hurting my baby?? If I am pregnant?

I can totally relate to some of what your saying. I have been off the pills for over two months and had unprotected sex with my boyfriend, I don't know how many times. By all means, I am not looking to be pregnant.
Now, you have to know that when your on the pill for so long and then off it, it's very hard to become pregnant right away. Plus the fact that your periods every month might not be "on time". I've had many scares with this and all I can say is take a test 3 days before you are supposed to get your period. This will be an accurate time to take it. Until then, don't get yourself stressed. I know it's easy to say but i've been there. As for the alcohol is concerned, I don't think that "partying" for one night is gonna effect the baby in terms of hurting it or losing it. I would say wait to take the test though, to make sure your not before having another one of those nights. Hope everything is good and good luck!