? concerning guys and porn

[takniteasy]

Okay, here is my dilemma. My S/O downloaded a ton of porn over the w/end. And while I was asleep. However, I woke up and startled him while he was viewing a video, which he very quickly turned off. Now I don't have a problem with him looking at porn, that's a guy thing. He told me that it was a very private thing for a guy to watch porn. I feel uncomfortable with him keeping that secret from me. Is this normal for men who are in "committed" relationships? Does it make the guy any less committed? I am absolutely head over heels in love with this guy and I dont want my silly emotions over this to ruin our relationship. I just want to know if it is true that guys like to keep their porn private.

 

[WODIN]

Ssssssshhh..

It's no fun if you can't keep it a secrete. After my wife found my collection it has turned into "her" Peter North Gallarey.

Peter North does this, Peter North does that, blah blah.

She starts taking it up the ass then I well talk...

Oh about that issue of yours...LEAVE HIS PORN ALONE!!!!

 

[supersizeme]

depends on what you saw on that video. if you saw some other male getting anally violated by another man or possibly taking a small to medium sized animal from behind then i might be concerned. but you have come to the right place because this is like a big underground support group for all that hidden behind the facade of a bodybuilding chatboard.

email [email protected] or [email protected]

seriously...don't let it bother you. every man watches porn and enjoys it. it has nothing to do with his feelings for you, nor does it point to the notion that he may want to cheat on you. it's normal guy behavior regardless of whether or not he's in a relationship. we're visual creatures. let the poor man get his porn on and just make it clear to him that you don't want to be around or know when it's going on.

 

[WODIN]

I see ssme or [email protected] has weighed in on your issue with a solid piece of advise.

 

[acuraman]

I love to watch porn but my S/O does not she thinks it is dirty. I would love to be able to watch it with her. You should talk to him and tell him you don't mind him watching porn and maybe if your up for it you could watch with him he might get a kick out of it

 

[takniteasy]

I have offered to watch with him. It is kinda exciting in a way. But nothing has ever come of it. I just want to understand this guy thing, so that I dont mess up a good thing with silly woman thinking.

Thanks for the replies!

 

[havoc]

Whats crazy is that those websites actually work.

 

[WODIN]

Whats crazy is that those websites actually work.

Well so do

http://www.havocindrag.com, http://www.havocspumpsfetish.net, and http://www.havocandpumpgirlsdrill.org

WTF is that last one about?

 

[takniteasy]

So, why does a guy like to keep it "private" if his S/O is okay with it?

 

[frorider6]

So, why does a guy like to keep it "private" if his S/O is okay with it?

Because it's more fun that way. Maybe he kinda gets off on the feeling that he's getting away with something naughty. Probably very voyeuristic.

 

[the nature boy]

I guess some things are not meant to be shared. Porn might be one of them.

 

[HappyScrappy]

I guess some things are not meant to be shared. Porn might be one of them.

herpes is the other

 

[HumorMe]

This is one funny thread!!!!
Let him have his porn but don't be suprised when he wants to try the ole' brown eye!

 

[takniteasy]

Umm...nice that you find it funny. As for my guy trying the ole' brown eye thing, that will happen only in someone elses dream. He is not into that at all. SSMe had the best reply and I do thank him for it. I just needed some perspective on this issue, as I have had a dickens of a time putting it to rest. It is now at rest and I am back to my normal easy self.

(I hate having stupid woman issues)

 

[HappyScrappy]

so are you saying he doesn't like doing you in the pooper but you would want it?
that's just wrong - who the hell doesn't like doing it in the pooper?

 

[EYEPEEE]

Let roundeyes stick in chocolate hole!!

call me sex rady!!!

 

[takniteasy]

Uh, he equates that with gays. Dont blame him either. I had it one time and that will never happen again. Hurt like hell and I could not use that hole for its intended purpose for a couple of days!

 

[HumorMe]

Umm...nice that you find it funny. As for my guy trying the ole' brown eye thing, that will happen only in someone elses dream. He is not into that at all. SSMe had the best reply and I do thank him for it. I just needed some perspective on this issue, as I have had a dickens of a time putting it to rest. It is now at rest and I am back to my normal easy self.

(I hate having stupid woman issues)

I was talking about all the responses. Not the issue here.

 

[supersizeme]

EYEPEE I RUV YOU.

yeah what is this business about him not wanting to put it in the pooper? i think this is the real issue we need to explore about your man, not the fact that he's watching porn. is he too afraid of degrading you? talk us.

that's the beauty of it.
i grab a dog
and i choke him
and i...i kick the shit out of him!!
all day long my foot up a dog's ass just BANG BANG BANG up his ass.
it's my pleasure!!

 

[Raina]

My SO and I just went porn shopping yesterday. Always nice to add to the stash. It's fun to enjoy it as a couple but I get kind of pissy when he's just sitting around watching it alone. I guess I just think he should have something better to do than sit around watching it.

He has no idea how to use my computer so he doesn't look at it online. I'm sure he would if he knew how.

 

[supersizeme]

yeah any guy with a computer and a decent internet connection has no excuse not to have some hidden directory like C:\windows\temp\I'M HONAY!! full of clips of facials and double penetrations. raina what did you two buy yesterday??

 

[XBiker]

I have offered to watch with him. It is kinda exciting in a way. But nothing has ever come of it. I just want to understand this guy thing, so that I dont mess up a good thing with silly woman thinking.

Thanks for the replies!

Offer to give him a BJ when he's porning it up. See what happens then.

 

[Raina]

raina what did you two buy yesterday??

We got a video called WADD-- which is a documentary of Jonny Holmes. Jer bought a tee shirt with a naked chick spreading on it. He wore it to work today (he's a carpenter). I'm sure it'll go over well (vs if I wore it to the office). And we got a Jenna Jameson video. Cherry Pie. Haven't watched them yet but hey, we only bought them yesterday. No toys this time....didn't see anything I had to have.

 

[HappyScrappy]

yeah any guy with a computer and a decent internet connection has no excuse not to have some hidden directory like C:\windows\temp\I'M HONAY!! full of clips of facials and double penetrations. raina what did you two buy yesterday??

hidden? LOL
I have folders all over my desktop and shared folders and stuff.
why hide it? its a natural thing to wanna see horses mate.

 

[Raina]

its a natural thing to wanna see horses mate.

Nature is beautiful.

 

[takniteasy]

HumorMe, its all cool.

SSMe, where did all of this anal talk come from? I suppose if I was not as tight as I am, he would want to do an ole' brown eye. So, what is the purpose? I got another hole for him if he wants somethin' even tighter .

Raina, I sure was glad to see a woman's response. My thoughts exactly, I get pissy if he watches it alone, when WE could have fun watching it together.

 

[jordon]

hey takniteasy;

ask your s/o to show you how/where etc he found 'his' porn. tell him you are turned on by it and want to find some of your own.

that way you get a little bit of 'together porn' while he is showing you want to do (in terms of finding it on the net). you can also play dumb after you find some and have him show you how to view it etc. this way you can gradually get some more 'together porn'

by doing it this way he may feel less intimidated by you being with him. eventually you'll be watching it together all the time.

i don't think it is a private thing, i think he is more than likely a bit embarrassed by his viewing habits.

 

[takniteasy]

Hey Jordan, I appreciate your reply. He got his porn from his brother's FTP site. So, there was no "together" porn. I hope he wasn't intimidated by me wanting to watch with him. And you are probably right about the embarrassment thing. He just told me that he did not want me to see him looking at it. Oh well, I should probably go get some videos for both of us, pop 'em into the old DVD player when he gets home and see what happens

 

[supersizeme]

SSMe, where did all of this anal talk come from? I suppose if I was not as tight as I am, he would want to do an ole' brown eye. So, what is the purpose? I got another hole for him if he wants somethin' even tighter .

girl if you have spent any significant time on this board you know we try to steer any conversation towards anal sex. this is actually a support board for women who are afraid to give it up and allow penetration of the balloon knot. help us help you. and i highly doubt that other hole you're referring to is tighter than the bum unless your jaw is wired shut. i haven't ever seen that Jenna video you got, but it's hard to go wrong with that woman. it's imperative that you get home before he does tonight, get nekkid, oil yourself up, pop in the DVD and then wait for the look on his face when he walks in the door.

 

[HappyScrappy]

just make sure he isn't bringing home friends from work

 

[Raina]

just make sure he isn't bringing home friends from work

Most the the guys he work with have seen me pretty drunk at work parties....so most of them have seen most of most of me.

 

[bondgirl2217]

i have no problem with porn at all.. i find it rather fun to watch.. i would not mind my man watches it any time ( and he prob. watches it often) but i want him to watch it with me anytime..

Raina have you ever seen..my two favs..Shock and Latex??check them out

 

[killerass]

We love to watch porn together. He used to hide it from me until he found out that I like it as much as he does. I grew up with a bunch of brothers and found out a long time ago that guys/porn/masturbation all go hand in hand. Why your guy needs to keep it private could be for alot of reasons,, he's uncomfortable sharing that with a girl or he just may like having something he does on his own. Don't feel threatened unless his sex time with you diminshes b/c of it.

 

[Clairegirl]

I love to watch porn-my ex and I used to watch it all the time..Its kind of fun getting off while watching people get off..aa-the good ole days..

 

[Summer Bunny]

OK why do guys like to watch it together.....not meaning that they are gay but i have male friends that are like "yeah we just got done watching a porno.." i guess it is all in fun when they are watching it. but don't they get aroused from it....with a room full of guys?????????