My friend has been telling me this for years, but I didn't know if I believed him which is why I wanted to hear everything this girl had to say. She confirmed what he's been telling me. We have gone out often in the past and I've got shot down by girls that would then go for an ugly, or skinny, guy and I couldn't figure it out. It was pissing me off and I didn't like women as a result. I go to the gym, work my ass off and have a better body than over 90% of men, yet these stupid bitches choose some lame ass over me. Now I know why often times that was the case, their insecurity.