Its funny bro because i was just about to post something like this regarding myself... Alot of it has to do with genetics. I have long legs from the knee down to the foot and, shitty enough, my calves are placed at the very top. So there is alot of 'extra' length starting under my calf muscle all the way down to my foot..
Mine has got me so fucked up in the head that I don't even want to wear shorts. I feel like i'm getting judged and it really fuckin blows.. I've started to eat a really high protien diet along with other clean whole nutritious foods to cut, and I know its hard to gain alot of muscle while cutting.. But i'm starting to think that I don't need to be 250lbs at 20% bodyfat.. My calves are genetically skinny so I mine as well lean down as much as possible, of course not at the expense of losing muscle.
I've started jogging/walking on a steep incline on the treadmill and I have found that it really shocks and burns my calves which is something that I just might need.
Good luck to you bro. I hope you find out how to make them sons of bitches grow..