Cheating On Your Loved One

[Muscle Catalyst]

C,MON we have all done it ,the question is how many times have you did it??????was it worth it, did he or she find out if so what happend ...... isnt the sex better when you go back home to your loved one i think cheating on someone isnt all that bad ,only when you get CAUGHT does it suck.

 

[epinephrine munky]

Hello... McFly... cheating is called cheating because it's precisely that. If you're talking about a marraige type commitment... why would you promise to make a life-long pledge to one person only to destroy that person's trust and frienship by "cheating" on them and possibly bring disease into the picture?

I realize that a lot of these guys test levels are shooting thru the roof, but c'mon... use your head! I mean the other one... inside your skull.

If you don't want to be commited then tell the other person... cheating is a chicken-shit cowardly thing to do behind someone's back. my .02

 

[Frackal]

Quit being a selfish dickless fuck and just be single if you can't handle monogamy. sp

 

[Dean Kuntz]

Genetically a male is not monogamous. Being single is not a good option because then you are in danger of not getting puxxy when you want.

 

[cladshirt]

Re

I have cheated on my wife. I told her and were working things out now. The sex is the most awesome it has ever been now. Go figure. My advice for anyone considering cheating is don't do it. In the end everyone involved gets hurt. I know I am a scum bag so let me have it. I hope I learn from my mistakes.

 

[FyreWomanGoddess]

I've done when I was with Tommy. Only because he was cheating on me. Tommy caught me with the other man and had a shit fit about it too, but I looked at him and said how does it feel?

 

[TheGame2001]

Nope

Nope, not all us men are assholes.
I prefer monogamy. Its the sexiest thing there is on the planet.
Translation: I don't cheat.

 

[gorilla_boy]

If you can cheat on someone you truly love you are the lowest form of life.

 

[SDRaver]

Damn FyreWomanGodess

Damn that was brutal and mean. but yeah Karma comes in all forms. I like you. One thing i believe is that if you do something like that take it to the grave. Why cheat then hurt the other person just to clear your conscience. My ex wife of 5yrs and I confessed everything when we got back together and it just make things worse. But then again some people are better at forgiving than others

 

[Grizzly]

If you don't want to be commited then tell the other person... cheating is a chicken-shit cowardly thing to do behind someone's back. my .02

Thank you! My friends are always cheating on their girlfriends and it confuses the shit out of me. I've always been under the impression that one has a girlfriend because she is better than the rest of all the girls. If she's the best out there, then why cheat on her? I know when I was with my ex I could barely look at other girls. That's just how much I was in love with her. I honestly thought that she was the most beautiful and wonderful woman there was and I saw no reason to go humping around the town.

 

[VooDoo Lady]

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[gorilla_boy]

Oh come on Kronk - I don't mean to be judgmental here BUT I think you really don't have a good perspective on this issue.

I mean you are in an open marriage where you get to fulfill your sexual desires and fantasies freely....try to imagine not having that outlet...would you be answering differently??

VDL

P.S. I'm TOTALLY not knocking your lifestyle, I see nothing wrong with it - BTW

I'm really surprised it took this long for someone to bring up that point. I'll try and be succinct.

They are not being deceptive or going aginst each other's wishes. There's a big difference between a little sexual adventure with full consent and disclosure and fucking around behind someone's back.

Do I have that right Elite swingers?

 

[sheez_ripped]

yes....gorilla boy....

that's the way we feel about it....as long as everyone is in agreement and happy about it....fine....but going behind anyone's back is cheating and hurtful...no matter how "open" the marriage or relationship....

 

[Grizzly]

I'm really surprised it took this long for someone to bring up that point. I'll try and be succinct.

They are not being deceptive or going aginst each other's wishes. There's a big difference between a little sexual adventure with full consent and disclosure and fucking around behind someone's back.

Do I have that right Elite swingers?

Yeah, someone explain this to me. How can someone be happy sharing their wife/husband? I'm so not into that. "Mine" is my favorite word.

 

[Muscle Catalyst]

YOU guys are all lying fucks ,,,,,,telling me you are with someone who you love so much, first chance you get to fuck some hot chick or guy .you are on it
this post was for honest folks we all cheat period one way or another
men were created to fuck period ,,,this i have one women i love so deeply shit ,fuck that keep her at home let her take care of your offspring and go out and enjoy life men were not made to be with one women there whole lives .....and women are the most decepitive animals of the kingdom they will lie to your face with a smile while there getting fucked hard by someone else.

ITS funny while you are in this perfect realtionship you are great once you break up or fuck up all of a sudden the tables get turned and you are now the scumbag.....

GEE i wonder why the divorce rate is so high in this country ,
just tell her or him the truth you like them but you also like to get some new shit once and a while and thats how it is ....
I CHEAT ON EVERYONE ONE OF MY GIRLFREINDS I DONT CARE....

 

[VooDoo Lady]

 

[ccc]

I hear what mr. stein is saying... There are different chicks for different things.. We all want the chick that would be a good mother to our potential offspring.... and we want a wild dirty little fuck whore as well.. and that is normal and okay... the problem comes in when it would hurt the other person, that is the part that makes me feel guilty=== However, I think that probably has more to do with our socialization. Peace

 

[crimson coal]

I have been married 12 years and have never cheated. If I wanted to fuck around why would I ever be stupid enough to get married in the first place?! I have always been really good at putting myself in other peoples shoes. I would feel pretty shitty If I found out I had been cheated on. I let my heart rule over my dick.

 

[luv2workout]

Kronk and Kronkette

No need to get all upset....I really dont think she (VDL) meant it that way....maybe I read it wrong but it seemed like she was just saying "what if?"....you guys are a great couple - you have nothing to prove to these internet strangers.....alot of people dont understand b/c they arent in yall's situation...if it works for yall then thats all that matter luv you guys!!

 

[VooDoo Lady]

sent ya a pm Kronk

 

[Kahn]

I was a cheating puke the first time around. Now, I have more than I would have ever asked for and respect it too much to fuck it up. I like bringing my check home, not sending it to another address and only seeing my daughter every other weekend. I'd probavly never get to see her boys from the first marraige. They're not mine but they might as well be. ooooooo- just got that damn am I lucky feeling. no cheating(anymore), too much to carry

 

[tropicdude]

if its an open marriage and you have sex with other people and our in agreement, THATS NOT CHEATING, cheating is when you betray someone else, and do something hidden from them when you know they wouldnt agree

 

[woollis2]

if its an open marriage and you have sex with other people and our in agreement, THATS NOT CHEATING, cheating is when you betray someone else, and do something hidden from them when you know they wouldnt agree

I agree.

I could go on and on about cheating, but I won't. It will just get me mad and right now I'm happy and I want to stay happy.

 

[AziaReign]

C,MON we have all done it ,the question is how many times have you did it??????was it worth it, did he or she find out if so what happend ...... isnt the sex better when you go back home to your loved one i think cheating on someone isnt all that bad ,only when you get CAUGHT does it suck.

I am so appalled! How ridiculous of a statement/question is that? Tell ya what, here's how I feel:
If you're with someone, either married or a long-term relationship, you're with them for a reason. If the temptation or situation of cheating comes about, then you shouldn't even be in a relationship. There has never been a moment where I have thought about cheating on Pauly, and I have never created a situation for myself to be in to cheat on him. I love him very much and I would never even think about hurting him or damaging our relationship. Love is a precious thing, you don't come across it often, but when you do, you see the stars and feel the fireworks. If you cheat on the person your with, it means you don't love them, and you shouldn't be with them in the first place. Save the other person from misery as well as yourself. I find that people who cheat are fucking ignorant assholes and it what comes around goes around...............so be prepared to get what you got comin' to you.

 

[woollis2]

Re: Re: Cheating On Your Loved One

I am so appalled! How ridiculous of a statement/question is that? Tell ya what, here's how I feel:
If you're with someone, either married or a long-term relationship, you're with them for a reason. If the temptation or situation of cheating comes about, then you shouldn't even be in a relationship. There has never been a moment where I have thought about cheating on Pauly, and I have never created a situation for myself to be in to cheat on him. I love him very much and I would never even think about hurting him or damaging our relationship. Love is a precious thing, you don't come across it often, but when you do, you see the stars and feel the fireworks. If you cheat on the person your with, it means you don't love them, and you shouldn't be with them in the first place. Save the other person from misery as well as yourself. I find that people who cheat are fucking ignorant assholes and it what comes around goes around...............so be prepared to get what you got comin' to you.

Well said.

 

[AziaReign]

Thank you

 

[cm3504jm]

I look at a lot or responses to other topics on this and the chat board.

There are so many offers for cheating on your S.O. !

I just wonder why people say one thing and do another

 

[AziaReign]

BUMMMMMMMMMMMMP

 

[pajaro loco]

I,m not a cheater bro!!! and never have been. It,a just that when I,m with someone that likes me and love, I don,t feel the necesity of another woman

 

[NY Muscle]

i hate cheaters, they are the worst form of scum,
i dont do it, i never did it, and dont want it happenig to me either.

cheaters need to get spit in their face.

 

[Kodesh]

Well, I cheated once and as a result lost my ex. She transferred to the other school. We lived for about 1 year together and I never even realized how much she meant to me. It took me about 2 years to find a person whom a feel relatively close to. Even now, almost 3 years later, I am remembering her sometimes. As far as I am concerned I had everything I ever needed and I fucked it up. Now, that does not mean I would never cheat; after all it could be a long distance relationship or some other factors involved, but I will sure try not to. Well, given the fact I really care about the person I am with.

I guess, sometimes you just have to learn the hard way.

 

[The Dude]

C,MON we have all done it ,the question is how many times have you did it??????was it worth it, did he or she find out if so what happend ...... isnt the sex better when you go back home to your loved one i think cheating on someone isnt all that bad ,only when you get CAUGHT does it suck.

Bullshit. We haven't all done it. I haven't and I won't. I don't respect people who can't stop themselves from screwing around on someone else. It's not hard unless you have no morals or self control....in other words, unless you're a child. Oops, they have morals.

 

[woollis2]

We all have hormones and sometimes get all horned up by the sight of someone. But does that mean you should go fuck them? If you don't any respect or morals to control yourself, then well.............sorry that ain't right.

 

[KAYNE]

CHEATERS ARE SCUM!!! ONCE A CHEATER/LIAR ALWAYS A CHEATER/LIAR.


KAYNE

 

[Muscle Catalyst]

IF the right moment presents itself to both sexes the chance of cheating on a loved one are about 99.9% THAT is a fact .
and women most of the time can be worse then men ,us men have so much ego built into us we tend to make oueselves bei;ive what OUR women are telling us to be the truth when inturn she is actually lieing thru her teeth because she already has the preassumption that ALL MEN CHEAT ,,,,,THEREFORE if she slips up she can sleep at night...THE folks that come on here yelling about hateing liars and cheaters well ???????

THOSE WHO YELL THE LOUDEST ARE ALWAYS THE MOST GUILTY...

MRSTEIN

IM LIKE VISA IM EVERYWHERE............

 

[AziaReign]

IF the right moment presents itself to both sexes the chance of cheating on a loved one are about 99.9% THAT is a fact .
and women most of the time can be worse then men ,us men have so much ego built into us we tend to make oueselves bei;ive what OUR women are telling us to be the truth when inturn she is actually lieing thru her teeth because she already has the preassumption that ALL MEN CHEAT ,,,,,THEREFORE if she slips up she can sleep at night...THE folks that come on here yelling about hateing liars and cheaters well ???????

THOSE WHO YELL THE LOUDEST ARE ALWAYS THE MOST GUILTY...

MRSTEIN

IM LIKE VISA IM EVERYWHERE............

Quit speaking for eveyone, do us a favor and just speak for yourself. Obviously since you started this thread you have cheated on someone in your life and have no remorse for it. OR, someone has cheated on you and you have a whole hellva lotta frustration built up. Those of us that speak loudly are expressing our opinions, and a lot of us are perterrbed with the people that feel its all right to condone your immature ways around your significant other. There are plenty of us here whom were brought up with morals and respect. If you have something wonderful, why waste it?

 

[woollis2]

...THE folks that come on here yelling about hateing liars and cheaters well ???????

THOSE WHO YELL THE LOUDEST ARE ALWAYS THE MOST GUILTY...

MRSTEIN

IM LIKE VISA IM EVERYWHERE............

Excuse me??????? I just want to let you know something.....there are people out there that DO believe that cheaters are scum....I for one are one of those people.....and as far as being guilty....I would NEVER cheat, do you want to know why? Because I have respect for the other person.....if I wanted to cheat on them, why would I be with them for one....and for two, I wouldn't want it done to me......In FACT I HAVE had it done to me and it HURTS LIKE HELL to find out someone that you love, trusted, and respected could do something like that, something that is sooo low.

So I think the ones who are yelling the loudest AREN'T GUILTY, they're expressing their opinion that CHEATERS SUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[NY Muscle]

I ONCE CHEATED ON MYSELF

I USED MY LEFT HAND TO MASTURBATE, MY RIGHT HAND NEVER FORGAVE ME TO THIS DAY

 

[Canadian Viking]

Can't afford to cheat and get caught now that I am married. Can't stand to lose 30 to 40 grand a year in alamony.
Can't believe how awesome was to do the deed with the other woman.

I cheated on a girlfriend of 4 years, woke up the next morning, told the girlfriend what happened and that I didn't love her any more and four years later I am married to the other woman and have a daughter. NEVER BEEN BETTER.

I your gonna do the deed be truthful, lies hurt more than the fact that you got some outside ass. Cheat while your single, seeing some one but once your married, remember that your married for a reason.

 

[Muscle Catalyst]

NO reason for some folks on the board to get pissed off at me i just call it as i see it ,,,and yes i have cheated on all my girlfreinds no doubt about it .
does that make me a bad guy well i guess there is two ways to look at this

#1 HE lies to all of them, isnt true to them, and hurts them in the end so therfore he is a scumbagg.....which is a valid point to a certain degree.

#2 I tell them up front i travel a lot been all over the world plus not to mention i am in the tanning salon business several stores with hundreds of girls coming in on a daily ,,,so you do the math if you are with me knowing what i do how much i travel it doesnt take a fucking einstein to figure out that i am going to fuck other women .....

the problem is that most women live in denial of there own feelings therefore overlooking all of the signals sent to them ,thats my fault i think not ......

and there are plenty of guys out there a hell of a lot more succesfull then me that do the same thing and think nothing of it ,actually most are married and claim it helps there marriage ...

so you liberals out there TAKE NOTE: You will be cheated on.
Ps all wealthy married men have girlfreinds and yes your husband does TOOOOO

Mrstein
IM LIKE VISA IM EVERYWHERE....

 

[woollis2]

First of all about the signals....yes...I'm not stupid. Some of us aren't in denial about that.

Second of all how can you claim that all men have "girlfriends"...even the husbands? Do you know for a fact?

Yes there are also alot of women that cheat....can't leave them out can we. And how do you know that all women cheat?

How can you claim that we have ALL done it, hmmmmmmm?

 

[AziaReign]

#2 I tell them up front i travel a lot been all over the world plus not to mention i am in the tanning salon business several stores with hundreds of girls coming in on a daily ,,,so you do the math if you are with me knowing what i do how much i travel it doesnt take a fucking einstein to figure out that i am going to fuck other women .....

so you liberals out there TAKE NOTE: You will be cheated on.
Ps all wealthy married men have girlfreinds and yes your husband does TOOOOO

Mrstein
IM LIKE VISA IM EVERYWHERE....

#1, plain and simple, your a MAN-WHORE.
#2, Quit thinking so highly of yourself, you are not God's gift to all women.
#3, I work in the trucking business and I see hundreds of men (non of whom are anywhere near good-looking or have intelligence) and you don't see me fucking around with them.
#4, Why don't you just stick to what you're doing, and obviously its all you do, FUCK AROUND WITH WOMEN. You are the type of guy that only likes to have a woman around to screw, and when the "next best thing" walks in shakin' her ass atchya, you chase after her.

Also, NO, we all will NOT be cheated on because not everyone is scum and I know for a fact that my boyfriend along with myself have higher standards. No matter how much money you make, to some people, money does not compare to love. Love is stronger, for those who believe. Money is just an extra "additive" to the marriage...........well, I mean, you have to have money, but you don't have to be Hefner rich. Not everyone is like you, not everyone holds the title of the "Man Slut of the Year" award. Am I being mean, yes. Am I taking this too far? Maybe, but what you have just said pisses me off..........how can you think we are all like you?

Expect to get flamed by others here when you're the one who started the thread, and you know we are going to express our opinions when you ask a broad question and make a bold statement.

 

[NY Muscle]

so you liberals out there TAKE NOTE: You will be cheated on.
Ps all wealthy married men have girlfreinds and yes your husband does TOOOOO

I think you have watched one too many movies.

And dont be so quick to accuse us guys, women are just as bad if not worse in the cheating department, they just dont get caught as much.

 

[XBiker]

#1, plain and simple, your a MAN-WHORE.
#2, Quit thinking so highly of yourself, you are not God's gift to all women.
#3, I work in the trucking business and I see hundreds of men (non of whom are anywhere near good-looking or have intelligence) and you don't see me fucking around with them.
#4, Why don't you just stick to what you're doing, and obviously its all you do, FUCK AROUND WITH WOMEN. You are the type of guy that only likes to have a woman around to screw, and when the "next best thing" walks in shakin' her ass atchya, you chase after her.

Expect to get flamed by others here when you're the one who started the thread, and you know we are going to express our opinions when you ask a broad question and make a bold statement.

Geez, I sense a little bit of hostility from one of our local.... _____'s.

 

[Bramil]

I have never cheated. Dont know if that makes me odd-ball or not. But I believe when ya make a commitment in a relationship it should mean something.

 

[woollis2]

First of all, well said Azia.....you have such a way with words

Second of all I do believe I said, and I quote "Yes there also a lot of women who cheat....can't leave them out can we...".

Bramil, that doesn't make you odd....it makes you respectful and with morals!

 

[AziaReign]

 

[Bramil]

Bramil, that doesn't make you odd....it makes you respectful and with morals!

Thanks, I believe I do or hope I do.

Just dont understand why ppl cheat. They honestly believe the grass is greener on other side? Or is it the thrill of getting caught?

If its the grass, Its all the same after awhile with new problems.
If its the thrill, try bungi jumping!

 

[Muscle Catalyst]

HEY I have no problem being FLAMED none at all,However let the truth be told over 90% over the folks out there cheat in one form or another and no it doesnt take loads of money to make it happen i never once said I am better then anyone else on this never have never would as i AM NOT ,it seems that you are agro at me because i sleep with lots of women and cheat on my girlfreinds and make a broad statement like this .THAT MOST PEOPLE CHEAT will they do ,,,,how do i know well i was in the toppless bar business for 11 years and every single one of those so called family guys that came thru the door at any given time would have left with a stripper that is a fact and know i dont watch movies i live in reality not behind cnn......not to mention the women are just as bad as i said a few replys ago ......there are some lucky couples out there no douby and god bless you but you are the fEW and far between. and that is a FACT ,,,NO ONE CAN PROVE ME WRONG ON THAT ....DONT player hate.
as far as your boyfreind goes let him take a trip to thailand with me he will forget your name .....

MRSTEIN
IM LIKE VISA IM EVERYWHERE...

 

[Muscle Catalyst]

THANK YOU PAULY.....

 

[AziaReign]

Well, I feel like being a bitch today and of course every woman is entitled to it so FUCK OFF mrstein.

 

[TheGame2001]

hmmm

Well I was cheated on by my wife after 8 years of marriage. I didn't cheat. I came out of it feeling good about myself and my morals. She can live her life as a slut but not me. I'm since remarried and will not cheat on her either and trust she will not cheat on me. If she does , then I was wrong but I will not lose my trust that their are decent people in this world.

God, I'd hate to live my life as a cheater. Those are the people that deep down don't feel to good about themselfs. But would never admit it.

BUT WOW! You OWN TANNING SALONS!! WOW! NO WONDER THE WOMEN CAN'T TURN YOU DOWN! WOW, YOUR LIKE A GOD OR SOMETHING!!!!!!! WOW!!!!!

 

[Casablanca]

All I have to say is : Blame it on two things; that damn Testosterone shit and lack of morals. I believe that guys have it in them to cheat, it's their biological program to do so: testosterone... I watched some TV show where a transexual said:"I'm so glad to be rid of testosterone, I was always thinking about sex, I hated it" At least, he was aware of it... The bottom line is, MOST guys are ... biologically pre-deteremined to cheat, the rest is up to morals, and same thing for women. the formula is:"No Morals + perversion = Cheating" add testosterone and you get a man-whore... I need some advice on what happened to me this memorial day weekend.

I was invited to some great house party in the Hamptons. I was having a great time, there were about 5 bedrooms in the house. My friend Jen and her boy had rented a room there. I ended up getting reallly friendly with a group of people in another room. This guy George was very nice and we talked for hours with him and his friend. His wife introduced herself and I found her awesome. By then, everyone was all intoxicated. Anyways, There were about 3 married man in this room and we were all talking politics and shit. I could tell that they really enjoyed my company but I did not think anything more than that, all the wives seemed to enjoy my company as well. Anyways, someone asked me for my business card, so I had to walk out to my room to pick it up. The George guy followed me there, and once I got in the room he closed the door and tried to kiss me.. I pushed him away and felt terrible, 'cos i REALLY respected his wife, she was awesome. So i told him "dude you're married, what's the deal with you guys are you swingers?" he said " No, i just do my own thing and she knows.." and he added" don't you want me to do this and that and that and this to you"... the guy was attractive so I did say "sounds very good, but i'm sorry, eventhough you and you're wife are cool with this, i'm not, i just can not" so i was walking out of the room and he kept on trying, while he was saying "don't you want me to lick you all over blabalbbal" i was opening the door and his wife walks in with her eyes wide open, i could see the terror in her eyes.... I understood right away that this couple was just a normal married couple and that he was a piece of shit lier, he abused of her trust and easy going attitude to get me to believe that they slept with other people. She got in the room and closed the door. When she got out, i asked her to talk to her. I said that nothing had happened. She said "what the hell were you doing behind a closed door with my husband. " I didn't wanna hurt her too much, and say: "your husband was following me like a little dog everywhere i went.." i just said," we just happened to end up there and i would have never ended up there if i wasn't told that you guys did your own thing " she said "well i YOU thought we were doing our own thing, you should have asked me" I said, "however, i did not do anything, regardless of the fact that i was convinced you were cool. She just told me to stay the hell away from her husband. I felt like shit, eventhough i hadn't done anything. Once my hosts found out that there was some tention, i was asked to leave the house the next day... i felt like shit, and i had not done anything. My friend who invited hasn't called me yet. Why the hell do i have to feel bad about something that i haven't done? why did people look at me as if it was partly my fault? does this mean that married man are known to be attracted to other women and that other women are held repsonsible for married men's acts? this sucks, i'd love some feed back.

 

[Alpine]

I've done when I was with Tommy. Only because he was cheating on me. Tommy caught me with the other man and had a shit fit about it too, but I looked at him and said how does it feel?

Oh shit! That is a rude ass way to get back at him for sure! Brutal!

 

[Alpine]

I need some advice on what happened to me this memorial day weekend.

I was invited to some great house party in the Hamptons. I was having a great time, there were about 5 bedrooms in the house. My friend Jen and her boy had rented a room there. I ended up getting reallly friendly with a group of people in another room. This guy George was very nice and we talked for hours with him and his friend. His wife introduced herself and I found her awesome. By then, everyone was all intoxicated. Anyways, There were about 3 married man in this room and we were all talking politics and shit. I could tell that they really enjoyed my company but I did not think anything more than that, all the wives seemed to enjoy my company as well. Anyways, someone asked me for my business card, so I had to walk out to my room to pick it up. The George guy followed me there, and once I got in the room he closed the door and tried to kiss me.. I pushed him away and felt terrible, 'cos i REALLY respected his wife, she was awesome. So i told him "dude you're married, what's the deal with you guys are you swingers?" he said " No, i just do my own thing and she knows.." and he added" don't you want me to do this and that and that and this to you"... the guy was attractive so I did say "sounds very good, but i'm sorry, eventhough you and you're wife are cool with this, i'm not, i just can not" so i was walking out of the room and he kept on trying, while he was saying "don't you want me to lick you all over blabalbbal" i was opening the door and his wife walks in with her eyes wide open, i could see the terror in her eyes.... I understood right away that this couple was just a normal married couple and that he was a piece of shit lier, he abused of her trust and easy going attitude to get me to believe that they slept with other people. She got in the room and closed the door. When she got out, i asked her to talk to her. I said that nothing had happened. She said "what the hell were you doing behind a closed door with my husband. " I didn't wanna hurt her too much, and say: "your husband was following me like a little dog everywhere i went.." i just said," we just happened to end up there and i would have never ended up there if i wasn't told that you guys did your own thing " she said "well i YOU thought we were doing our own thing, you should have asked me" I said, "however, i did not do anything, regardless of the fact that i was convinced you were cool. She just told me to stay the hell away from her husband. I felt like shit, eventhough i hadn't done anything. Once my hosts found out that there was some tention, i was asked to leave the house the next day... i felt like shit, and i had not done anything. My friend who invited hasn't called me yet. Why the hell do i have to feel bad about something that i haven't done? why did people look at me as if it was partly my fault? does this mean that married man are known to be attracted to other women and that other women are held repsonsible for married men's acts? this sucks, i'd love some feed back.

 

[Alpine]

Casablanca

It sounds like your getting the short end of the stick in that situation. The "married" guy probably turned the story around on you and made you look like the aggressor. That's probably why you were asked to leave. I'm sure his friends agreed with him because of the fact that he IS married. The married woman might have even thought you were flirting with her husband because it sounds like you were the center of attention in that situation. That dude is a piece of shit, plain and simple! You shouldn't feel bad about what happened. Keep your head up and don't worry about it! Not all men are assholes like that guy! Oh yeah, I'm sure if his wife has half a brain, she won't trust her man as much as she did before. If she doesn't change the way she thinks about her hubby, just let her remain in ignorrant bliss. Either way, let it roll off your back! YOU are the one that knows what really happened that day!