Cheating On Your Loved One

[VooDoo Lady]

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[gorilla_boy]

Oh come on Kronk - I don't mean to be judgmental here BUT I think you really don't have a good perspective on this issue.

I mean you are in an open marriage where you get to fulfill your sexual desires and fantasies freely....try to imagine not having that outlet...would you be answering differently??

VDL

P.S. I'm TOTALLY not knocking your lifestyle, I see nothing wrong with it - BTW

I'm really surprised it took this long for someone to bring up that point. I'll try and be succinct.

They are not being deceptive or going aginst each other's wishes. There's a big difference between a little sexual adventure with full consent and disclosure and fucking around behind someone's back.

Do I have that right Elite swingers?

 

[sheez_ripped]

yes....gorilla boy....

that's the way we feel about it....as long as everyone is in agreement and happy about it....fine....but going behind anyone's back is cheating and hurtful...no matter how "open" the marriage or relationship....

 

[Grizzly]

I'm really surprised it took this long for someone to bring up that point. I'll try and be succinct.

They are not being deceptive or going aginst each other's wishes. There's a big difference between a little sexual adventure with full consent and disclosure and fucking around behind someone's back.

Do I have that right Elite swingers?

Yeah, someone explain this to me. How can someone be happy sharing their wife/husband? I'm so not into that. "Mine" is my favorite word.

 

[Muscle Catalyst]

YOU guys are all lying fucks ,,,,,,telling me you are with someone who you love so much, first chance you get to fuck some hot chick or guy .you are on it
this post was for honest folks we all cheat period one way or another
men were created to fuck period ,,,this i have one women i love so deeply shit ,fuck that keep her at home let her take care of your offspring and go out and enjoy life men were not made to be with one women there whole lives .....and women are the most decepitive animals of the kingdom they will lie to your face with a smile while there getting fucked hard by someone else.

ITS funny while you are in this perfect realtionship you are great once you break up or fuck up all of a sudden the tables get turned and you are now the scumbag.....

GEE i wonder why the divorce rate is so high in this country ,
just tell her or him the truth you like them but you also like to get some new shit once and a while and thats how it is ....
I CHEAT ON EVERYONE ONE OF MY GIRLFREINDS I DONT CARE....

 

[VooDoo Lady]

 

[ccc]

I hear what mr. stein is saying... There are different chicks for different things.. We all want the chick that would be a good mother to our potential offspring.... and we want a wild dirty little fuck whore as well.. and that is normal and okay... the problem comes in when it would hurt the other person, that is the part that makes me feel guilty=== However, I think that probably has more to do with our socialization. Peace

 

[crimson coal]

I have been married 12 years and have never cheated. If I wanted to fuck around why would I ever be stupid enough to get married in the first place?! I have always been really good at putting myself in other peoples shoes. I would feel pretty shitty If I found out I had been cheated on. I let my heart rule over my dick.

 

[luv2workout]

Kronk and Kronkette

No need to get all upset....I really dont think she (VDL) meant it that way....maybe I read it wrong but it seemed like she was just saying "what if?"....you guys are a great couple - you have nothing to prove to these internet strangers.....alot of people dont understand b/c they arent in yall's situation...if it works for yall then thats all that matter luv you guys!!

 

[VooDoo Lady]

sent ya a pm Kronk