I have 2 guy friends that I am close friends with....they are more "true" friends than the women I am supposedly friends with. My women "friends" let all this f'd up shit get in the way of our friendship -- jealousy, etc so I don't consider them true friends. For example, my one friend was great when I was single, but now that I'm married, she hardly talks to me. Like I can't do things with her w/o my hubby. The friendship has become so one-sided (my side) that I just don't bother to try anymore.