OK well as alot of you have said that you are proud of them, like them etc, even find it more attractive when a guy has rough hands the only thing is like someone else said, i end up picking at them making the worse, and its embarrassin when a girl feels them and they are like "eerr wtf have u done to your hands?!" and i have big lumps of hard skin on my hands and fingers, and on my left hand their is one that got ripped off and looks disgusting. So i might try to get rid of them and see what it is like without them and if it makes lifting harder then fuck it ill keep em. So just lotion and moisturiser?