I have to deal with that more often then I like to admit. I've got a couple of tricks. Make sure she is way hot. It takes more to prime her pump than it does yours. Try to time things so that when you're ready, so is she. Next one, take your self right to that point where one more half stoke will do you in. Then through superior muscle control only allow a small portion of your boys out. That will lessen the tension and you can ride on. Another is the practice method. Guys are basically training themselves (through masturbation) to get off as quick as possible. Now, try the reverse. Train yourself through serious discipline (something I fail to master every time) not to "finish". Talk about blue balls! You gain more control by taking it right there and STOPPING
Lastly, it's all in your head. Try not to get worked up. All the other chemical solutions will work but do you want to be relying on it? Oh and GHB is good too
Lastly, it's all in your head. Try not to get worked up. All the other chemical solutions will work but do you want to be relying on it? Oh and GHB is good too