busting too quik???

[SmooThy5464]

whats up guys well see i just recently broke up wit my grl after a year and a half and we were having sex for a while and recently i have been havin a problem with busting too quik i mean really quik it sux but we had been together so long that she was cool about it and we would just go again and we were really open about it not a big deal. now i am not with her and i am with a new grl now and she is an awesome grl and i like her alot i am just affraid to have sex wit her and bust all extra quik and look like a moron i wanna make a good impression i mean she is a virgin i gotta teach her right so if any1 knows of any good things to take to help please let me know or any suggestions r greatly appreciated also i have tried the numbing cremes to prevent premature ejaculation and that didnt do shit so if any1 has any other ideas pleas let me know i am dieing to get with this girl thank you...

 

[drrman]

damn bro, sorry about that, read my post below, i have the exact opposite problem!!!!

 

[onemind]

Valium or Zanax along with a few drinks. I go all night with either combination some times if I drink to much on them I can't even get a nut but if the girls realy hot I usaly nut eventualy.

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

if the de-sensatizing stuff did'nt work,you should just rub one or two off before the date.Or get hammered that always helps.

 

[SmooThy5464]

yeh i usually catch myself poundin a few beers be4 hand just in case but i get sik of always doin that now this Valium or Zanax what exactly is it and were can i purchase any sugestions please help...

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

they will relax you,sometimes i get a little tired from the valium.You can get them from tj.

 

[BlkWS6]

Are you using a condom man? I can last forever when I use a rubber. That little bit of desensitization seems to help out a lot. Now I know you said you have tried the creams, but you may even want to try one of those "climax control" condoms they have out now. It is a rubber w/ desensitizing cream within (which is also cool because if you are with a new girl she wont know, and she will just think it is a regular rubber, which may save you some possible embarassment). So you will get the desensitization from both the condom and the cream inside. And a lot of it is in your head as well (no pun intended ) if you keep thinking you are going to bust early, you will get more nervous and you will wind up doing that. The old self-fulfilling prophecy in effect. Train your unit, and your mind. Good luck!

 

[SmooThy5464]

thanks man but yes i have tried the climax control condoms and they didnt seem to do anything although i havent used a condom in about a year so maybe i will give them a try with this girl she was over all last night and i wanted her soo bad but was affraid of the embarrasment so didnt bother but iw ill see what i can do thanks alot guys any other comments r greatly appreciated ...

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

everytime you get close to busting,just think of a big musky ,hairy nut sack,and you should be all good.

 

[pac]

I can relate to your problem bro. I have always been able to go for hours on end multiple times, but after about a month of being with the girl I'm with now I can only go a little bit. I tried hitting an Ex (as a scientific experiment) but still went early. I can still go 8 times a day but that doesn't help when they are short bursts. I'm sure it's all mental with me and could be with you too. Mine started when I found out I was having a baby. I tried the climax control condoms last month and they worked a little. You can buy desesetizing (sp?) cream from porn shops. I have some viagra on the way from www.generics-online-pharmacy.com you may want to try that.

Good luck,
Pac