Curb material.
What's the point of live music? Go somewhere you have to scream just to get your drink order placed? Unless she's something extraordinary, you're not going to have sex while "out". So if sex is ruled-out, your next choice would be entertainment (i.e. UFC). After that, your last choice would be talking (at least it helps you position for the nay-nay).
You're not going to be able to talk at "live music". Sitting at a bar with blaring music looking at each other really isn't moving the ball up the field.