AFF is a good one and you do not have to be a gold member. Just post an add with a good pic that flatters you, none with you sitting on the toilet or sunburned at the ocean.
Then search through the adds, GOLD and Silver ones first. That way they can conctact you easier. Find one that you like and send them a wink or add them to your hotlist. Another way is to set up a Network of pictures using the network option. Inside the album type in your email address so you do not have to go through AFF email. That way you can invite people into your network and see your pictures that you want to see them. They can also contact you without you having to be a member of AFF. Tricky, but very effective and easy to do. There are alot of couples looking for bisexual women.. alot!!!!!!