So, I found out that the bf I had in Texas is into BDSM. WTF? I didn't know. I dug him, but evidently he would like to have tied me up etc. in the sack. LOL. Which got me thinking, I don't even know the proper role of the submissive in that sort of relationship during that sort of thing. I mean, is the submissive supposed to act like they are fighting to get free? act like they like it? act like they hate it? just lie there like a dead trout on the 5th of July?
Screw that noise.