Damn, sorry, but some of you people have major trust issues and others don't know what the hell they're talking about.
NY Muscle & Bikinimom had the best comments/opinions, though I don't agree w/NY that strip clubs are for trash and totally pathetic. Thanks, but I venture to strip clubs on occassion (as do many guys on here), and 99% of the time my fianceé is with me...I'm just lucky in that she enjoys them as much as I do. Yeah, I wouldn't touch 75% of strippers with a 10' pole, but a number of them are hot, a few I've met are actually intelligent and nice women and doing it because it's the easiest way to get cash (whether that's for school or whatever). You can't tell me that if most of the guys on here that are attractive and well-built would say "no thanks" if they were all offered $500+ (at upper-end clubs) per night to strip down to their skivies. Are the guys at Le Bare low-life white trash loosers because they're happy making big bucks for chicks to have fun, etc.? I'm not saying I'd do it and I'm not saying I'd be cool with my fianceé stripping or anything...but stereotyping girls OR guys gets you nowhere.
Bikinimom has it right though Grace: if you're so worried and totally against your fiance having a bachelor party then you damn sure better reconsider marriage. Trust is a cornerstone of any relationship, especially marriage, and if you don't trust him not to get his knob slobbed or screw a stripper then why in the hell would you even be planning to marry him. I think the main problem here is not your fiance having a bachelor party, it's your LACK OF TRUST in him. That's what you have the problem with, whether you agree with me or not. And I think Cindy99 has her own trust issues too...she's stereotyping guys and thinks all of us will cheat given a willing woman, a few beers and our friends saying "go for it". Sorry to bust your bubble babe, but there are men out their who have the ability to control their dicks and make their own decisions. Sounds like you've been screwed over by men before and now you think we're all alike and not to be trusted...that's your loss.
As for wiseguy's comments, shit man, speak for yourself...telling her she should be worried, etc. Maybe that would apply to YOU and YOUR friends, but I consider myself and my friends to be stand up guys. Yeah, we like to party and most of us enjoy seeing attractive women naked (this does not mean skanky prostitutes), but that does NOT mean every guy is looking to nail one more piece of ass at his bachelor party. Guys like you are the ones I feel sorry for...you're bound to go through life with one meaningless screw after another and never know what kind of experiences you're missing. If you think guys are stupid for getting married then you have a helluva lot to learn about life. I apologize if my comments piss you off, but I took your comments personally as I'm engaged.
And on that note I sure as hell plan on my buddies throwing me a kick-ass bachelor party, but no amount of beer or peer pressure could make me do something I don't want to do. I'm an adult and have the ability to say no...not like I'm in grade school where I might feel like I need to do something I'd rather not just to feel accepted or to fit in...please! As bikinimom & other said, if he's gonna do it at his bachelor party then he's bound to do it at other opportunities as well. I imagine my friends and I will be hitting a strip club, as I'd prefer to look at attractive women than hired skanks off the street. I don't care if they decide to hire strippers from a club or what not, and I wouldn't mind if those strippers decided to put on a "show", and if my friends felt the need to ask them to perform additional "entertainment" then that's their choice...but I am and will be perfectly able to say "no thanks guys, you go ahead." Also, I would NOT want my dad or my girl's dad at my bachelor party...sorry, but that would be too uncomfortable and most of the guys wouldn't feel in place to have as much fun as they would otherwise. Would you invite your boyfriend's mom out with your girlfriends if you all tend to get a bit wild & crazy? Yeah, right. Your fiance should be grown-up enough that he doesn't need a chaperone, and if you feel he does then there's another ding on the trust-o-meter. Bachelor parties are not evil and any couples who break up supposedly due to having/not having a bachelor party never should been engaged in the first place.
My fiancée will be having a bachelorette party, either in town or in Vegas and yeah, I'm not 100% for the idea because she has some wild-ass friends...some of whom I don't fully respect or trust and who have been known to flash themselves when drunk at bachelorette parties. BUT I do trust my fiancée and know she's not dumb enough to risk our entire relationship on some guy right before our wedding. And hell, if your guy did do something he shouldn't at his bachelor party and you find out about it, better to know now then AFTER your married and he cheats on you later.
Bottom line: you really need to think over your entire relationship and feelings for your fiance, if you can't trust him then you have no business planning a wedding.
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