Bachelor Parties

[Grace1]

Hi Everyone. I just wanted to get some opinions on bachelor parties.
I just wanted to ask the woman how they feel about their future husband attending a bachelor party. Also I wanted the to ask the men, what really happens at those parties.
Any opinions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

 

[havoc]

Hi Everyone. I just wanted to get some opinions on bachelor parties.
I just wanted to ask the woman how they feel about their future husband attending a bachelor party. Also I wanted the to ask the men, what really happens at those parties.
Any opinions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

I'll sum it up, at some parties the men bang the hell out of some whore skank and at some they dont.
Do you trust your man? If so, then don't let him go or have one. peace

 

[Grace1]

Thanks....I do trust him but considering the situation, he will be drinking alot, having naked whores all over him and peer pressure from friends. If a guy does not want to cheat why would he want to put himself in such a situation? Why get yourself all worked up and horney for no reason?

 

[bigschweeler]

It all depends on what he and his buddies are planning. If they are just going to a strip club then it is no big deal.

However if they are having girls come to them, then you should be a little worried if you have any doubts about him. Usually those girls will do extras for cash, and in these situation his buddies will usually foot the bill for it. Usually this isn't sex, but blow jobs and hand jobs.

My wife would never have let me do the second one in this list. She also has a problem with lap dances at Strip clubs so after my bachelor party I promised I wouldn't go to Strip clubs as it bothers her so much.

 

[starfish]

Hi Everyone. I just wanted to get some opinions on bachelor parties.
I just wanted to ask the woman how they feel about their future husband attending a bachelor party. Also I wanted the to ask the men, what really happens at those parties.
Any opinions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Just have an AWESOME bachlorette party the same night.. He will spend the whole time worried about what you are doing

 

[bigschweeler]

Re: Re: Bachelor Parties

Just have an AWESOME bachlorette party the same night.. He will spend the whole time worried about what you are doing

This works to a point, but once you've had a couple drinks it doesn't have the same sting that it did at first.

 

[danielson]

batchelor parties are SWEEEEET!


especially for a 16 year old (at the time)








but yeah, depends on the trust you have. almost certainly a naked chick will be present, but what rubbing etc goes on depends on your future hubbies friends

 

[starfish]

I agree... MOST guys are complete dogs at bachelor parties..
Trust me, I know..

 

[manny78]

Re: Re: Re: Bachelor Parties

This works to a point, but once you've had a couple drinks it doesn't have the same sting that it did at first.

yup and you feel justified to fuck the hell out of the whores.....

 

[Cindy99]

i was at a bar US Beer Company in Lincoln Park in Chicago a few years back with some girlfriends and we were talking to a few cute guys who had a Bachelor Party going in the back. they invited two of us in and there were about 35 guys back there and what they were doing - holy crap!!! there were 2 women who had a 2 sided long rubber thing and they were screwing each other, then there was another woman who was blowing the audience one by one, one after another, and the guys were all just standing there looking at each other and they weren't even embarrassed and it was just gross and i felt really sorry for the future wife of the bachelor who spent most of his time naked (naked in front of all his friends) being screwed by the 2 women on the floor. i couldnt' believe it, it was like a scene from some bad porno movie. beware ladies, like a poster said b4, have them hit Cheetah III or the like in your town, they'll blow all their money and come back horny and frustrated... or have the fathers in law attend, i can't imagine these guys would do what they did if some older gents were there (especially the father of the bride)...

 

[supertech69]

Wolf, Wolf! I say if you trust him, let him go.

 

[Grace1]

I thank you all so much for your replies. I am totally against this bachelor party and do not see the need for them whores. I mean, why get married if a man still needs to sow his wild oats .
I was confused about this whole thing because when I approached my fiance with this, he said he was going anyway.
He also said that I was the only woman who worried about bachelor parties. I knew that wasn't true.

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[Cindy99]

you aren't the only one who worries about such things - on the other hand, they'll probably do what they're gonna do - isn't there any way you can get them to invite your father and the groom's dad? their presence should calm it down, shouldn't it? you'd be making it more into a family-wedding-event type of thing than a goingsoutwiththeguys type of thing...

 

[NY Muscle]

Some bachelor parties are fine and nothing nasty happens, but the horror story bachelor partys, and ive seen many is only something you should worry about if A) your future hubby is a HICK/WITE TRASH and/or b) his friends are HICKS/WITE TRASH.

My cousins bachelor party was strictly by the book…we went to scores…my dad was there his dad his brother, and a few friends…nothing bad happned we had fun and we met some famous people, some of my other friends just prefer to goto vegas or atlantic city and gamble and have no need to see some skanky crack head get naked, like me, I dont need that shit, strip clubs are so played and pathetic its beyond sad!.

Ive seen some nasty shit..girls just fucking people, sucking guys, guys sticking the serving spoon from the potato salad in a whores pussy and a bear bottle in the other…these girls a PURE TRASH…ive actually walked out on a few bachleor parties cause it was so nasty I was afraid to even touch the walls….try to get ur hubby to goto a more upscale strip club, do NOT let him rent a hall out…do it in public…but if hes classy and so are his friends there shouldn’t be a problem.


oh and BTW guys dont need alcohol to make him fool around with some slut..if he doesnt do it sober and is a stand up guy then he wont do it drunk either..so dont worry...women are worse..is teh girls us guys need to worry about .get some alcohol in them and they will do just as bad if not worse things at their bachelorette party then us guys.

 

[Bikini Mod]

If there is trust then there should be NO PROBLEM.

I INSISTED that my ex have a fullblown skank-inclusive bachelor party and told him that he shouldn't do anything that he wouldn't want ME doing. I came home LONG AFTER him that night (went to AC w/my sis and a friend and had some fun drinking and gambling). Also, that I would NOT CLEAN up ANY bodily fluids that he emitted while drunk.... just wanted him to know UP FRONT.

A few years later I and my gf sat outside the basement window of her husband's freind's party. (No, we weren't SPYING but the "entertainment" was supposed to have looooong been gone.) None of the men knew that we were there. We both watched our husbands (I was about to deliver our first child so YOU KNOW that my ex wasn't getting any hehehee.) and we were TOTALLY PLEASED! Not that either of us expected any different. They were drunk and stupid but sat back and basically let the young goofs act like dorks with the "entertainment". And yes, at least ONE of the girls was a bonified skank as she was giving blowjobs in the bathroom for "tips".

If you can't trust the man that you are about to marry NOW then you never will be able to. It isn't the bachelor that I would be concerned about, it is the "happily married men" with a few kids - THOSE GUYS ARE THE PIGS.

My take is, if a man is going to behave in this fashion he will do it REGARDLESS and is not worth my time, nor does he deserve me. And yes, women can be BIGGER pigs than men.

PS - the ONLY REAL worry should be drinking and driving.

 

[Grace1]

Thanks guys....It really is good to hear (NY Muscle) that not all guys like that kinda shit. I give you a lot of credit for actually walking out of a bachelor party because it was disgusting. I just don't see the point of it and I'm getting all upset over this crap, I guess because of all the horror stories. I wouldn't worry too much if I knew they were going to a strip club like scores but a private stripper or Vegas, I dont think I'll be able to deal with. It's pretty sad that wedding plans can be destroyed over shit like this. A friend of mine almost called off her wedding because of a bachelor party. I don't know what his friends are planning but I know at a past bachelor partie his friends asked the groom if he wanted a prostitute. The groom said no...Which was good but just that fact that they would even ask that is disgusting.
NY Muscle, I understand what you said about some woman doing things too and I'm sure they do but its a whole lot easier for a man. I know that I would never do anything. I don't even care if I have a bachelorette party.
Its good to hear that I'm not that only one that would worry about this stuff....Thanks Cindy99....

 

[bigwillster]

Feed the kitty is the bomb!

 

[NY Muscle]

Thanks guys....It really is good to hear (NY Muscle) that not all guys like that kinda shit. I give you a lot of credit for actually walking out of a bachelor party because it was disgusting. I just don't see the point of it and I'm getting all upset over this crap, I guess because of all the horror stories. I wouldn't worry too much if I knew they were going to a strip club like scores but a private stripper or Vegas, I dont think I'll be able to deal with. It's pretty sad that wedding plans can be destroyed over shit like this. A friend of mine almost called off her wedding because of a bachelor party. I don't know what his friends are planning but I know at a past bachelor partie his friends asked the groom if he wanted a prostitute. The groom said no...Which was good but just that fact that they would even ask that is disgusting.
NY Muscle, I understand what you said about some woman doing things too and I'm sure they do but its a whole lot easier for a man. I know that I would never do anything. I don't even care if I have a bachelorette party.
Its good to hear that I'm not that only one that would worry about this stuff....Thanks Cindy99....

why dont you try to weasel youself into the bachelor party if you are worried? tell him it would turn you on to see a stripper dance for him and make him all hot n bothered, then maybe YOU can take HIM in the back later..and even tell him youd let the girls rub up on you and it would turn you on......hey its a LOOOONGGG shot but introduce that freaky and lesbian card into ANY situation and it might just work....he may give in

but i highly DOUBT his buddies will go for that shit lol but it cant hurt to try...

 

[Grace1]

I think that's awesome that you have that kind of trust in your husband. That's the way it should be. It is all about trust...
That's what my fiance said but I would just feel more comfortable knowing that he is involved in the planning of this thing....I don't know what those friends of his are planning...I've seen alot of shit to...At my previous job they used to get strippers for the guys and strippers for the girls around X-Mas time. I've seen the nicest guys that I thought highly of doing a lot of shit. That made me think a lot!
NY---That is a good suggestion and I'm sure he would like it but his friends probably wouldn't want me around....They would think I'm their to watch him(Which I really would be)!haha...

 

[Cindy99]

there's no way his friends will let you in there, dontchay think? you can try but i stil say get the inlaw parental types to attend.

 

[robmach]

Hi Everyone. I just wanted to get some opinions on bachelor parties.
I just wanted to ask the woman how they feel about their future husband attending a bachelor party. Also I wanted the to ask the men, what really happens at those parties.
Any opinions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

why not go be the biggest whore you can FOR your man he wont want another whore

 

[Grace1]

Yah...I don't know if I'd want to see that anyway....

 

[Grace1]

I take care of him....haha..

 

[cure]

Nothing beats my story. Taking the groom, sitting him down on a chair. Plastic wrapping him to the chair. Pulling down his pants and blindfolding him. We then had a little lamb do the dew on his dick till he blew his load and we decided to unmask him with the goat having a face full of his cum. Still the funniest experince i have witnessed to date.

 

[bigguns7]

I'm getting married next May and I have no intention of doing anything with any of the several strippers that will be at my party.

 

[Cindy99]

you have no intention of doing anything now, but wait until alcohol and peer pressure take over - you'll do something you'll regret. the only sure fire way not to feel shitty later (if guys actually do have remorse after doing stupid things, which is debatable in my book) is to not have the strippers there at all, or to have fathers and fathers-in-law there and make it a family type outing with friends attending too and make sure the strippers are reputable - i would think one could find some strippers that weren't prostitutes????

 

[NY Muscle]

you have no intention of doing anything now, but wait until alcohol and peer pressure take over - you'll do something you'll regret. the only sure fire way not to feel shitty later (if guys actually do have remorse after doing stupid things, which is debatable in my book) is to not have the strippers there at all, or to have fathers and fathers-in-law there and make it a family type outing with friends attending too and make sure the strippers are reputable - i would think one could find some strippers that weren't prostitutes????

Cindy from your past posts it seems as if the only type of guys you meet are trash and/or you been hurt real bad by a guy and now you are like a vulture out to attack any man in your way. If the dude says he isn’t gonna do anything then why don’t you believe him?

Me personally I don’t want any strippers but if there were the MOST id do is take my shirt off and make them BEG for me and TEASE them, but that is the EXTENT as to what will happen.

Now get ur ass to NY so I can tease YOU

 

[Cindy99]

i guess i just see the EVIL in all you people hee hee hee

 

[kd]

If there is anything sexual that you won't or haven't done yet or asked your man if he wants, then there is the possibility the hooker will offer it (or anything he wants )to him and he may not turn it down.

But if you make him happy and trust him you have nothing to worry about

 

[Bikini Mod]

Grace, I am not trying to give you a hard time, BUT if I were you I wouldn't be getting married. It seems to me that YOU DON'T TRUST YOUR MAN - PERIOD - END OF STORY.

Did you read the part in my reply about the other "attendees"? You know, the guys who have been married about 5 or so years with two kids and a wife whos ass is so wide and cheesy that it can barely fit through the door?... you know, the woman that starved herself into that size 7 wedding gown that didn't fit by the end of the reception? YEA! THOSE MEN - THEY ARE THE ONES WHO WILL BE ACTING LIKE SEX-STARVED IMBECILES!

If your man loves you and marries YOU - he will STILL have THE SAME "FRIENDS" and will STILL BE 100% capable of acting like a dog and some OTHER freind's bachelor party.

Insecurity is VERY UNAPPEALING.

If he loves YOU - then he will not degrade himself at the risk of LOSING YOU. If he does not - then WHY would you marry him?

 

[wiseguy7]

What happens at bachelor parties is just all fun and games. Its the way a guy can have some fun for the last time in his life before he begins the slow painful death called marriage. I was at one a couple of months ago and the deal was the girl had to pick two guys to suck off but she was butt ugly and we couldn't get a hard on for her so nothing happen. If your worried about your husband having a bachelor party you should be because its his last night of freedom and he'll do whatever he wants. I feel so bad for guys who get married.

 

[RealDeal]

Damn, sorry, but some of you people have major trust issues and others don't know what the hell they're talking about.

NY Muscle & Bikinimom had the best comments/opinions, though I don't agree w/NY that strip clubs are for trash and totally pathetic. Thanks, but I venture to strip clubs on occassion (as do many guys on here), and 99% of the time my fianceé is with me...I'm just lucky in that she enjoys them as much as I do. Yeah, I wouldn't touch 75% of strippers with a 10' pole, but a number of them are hot, a few I've met are actually intelligent and nice women and doing it because it's the easiest way to get cash (whether that's for school or whatever). You can't tell me that if most of the guys on here that are attractive and well-built would say "no thanks" if they were all offered $500+ (at upper-end clubs) per night to strip down to their skivies. Are the guys at Le Bare low-life white trash loosers because they're happy making big bucks for chicks to have fun, etc.? I'm not saying I'd do it and I'm not saying I'd be cool with my fianceé stripping or anything...but stereotyping girls OR guys gets you nowhere.

Bikinimom has it right though Grace: if you're so worried and totally against your fiance having a bachelor party then you damn sure better reconsider marriage. Trust is a cornerstone of any relationship, especially marriage, and if you don't trust him not to get his knob slobbed or screw a stripper then why in the hell would you even be planning to marry him. I think the main problem here is not your fiance having a bachelor party, it's your LACK OF TRUST in him. That's what you have the problem with, whether you agree with me or not. And I think Cindy99 has her own trust issues too...she's stereotyping guys and thinks all of us will cheat given a willing woman, a few beers and our friends saying "go for it". Sorry to bust your bubble babe, but there are men out their who have the ability to control their dicks and make their own decisions. Sounds like you've been screwed over by men before and now you think we're all alike and not to be trusted...that's your loss.

As for wiseguy's comments, shit man, speak for yourself...telling her she should be worried, etc. Maybe that would apply to YOU and YOUR friends, but I consider myself and my friends to be stand up guys. Yeah, we like to party and most of us enjoy seeing attractive women naked (this does not mean skanky prostitutes), but that does NOT mean every guy is looking to nail one more piece of ass at his bachelor party. Guys like you are the ones I feel sorry for...you're bound to go through life with one meaningless screw after another and never know what kind of experiences you're missing. If you think guys are stupid for getting married then you have a helluva lot to learn about life. I apologize if my comments piss you off, but I took your comments personally as I'm engaged.

And on that note I sure as hell plan on my buddies throwing me a kick-ass bachelor party, but no amount of beer or peer pressure could make me do something I don't want to do. I'm an adult and have the ability to say no...not like I'm in grade school where I might feel like I need to do something I'd rather not just to feel accepted or to fit in...please! As bikinimom & other said, if he's gonna do it at his bachelor party then he's bound to do it at other opportunities as well. I imagine my friends and I will be hitting a strip club, as I'd prefer to look at attractive women than hired skanks off the street. I don't care if they decide to hire strippers from a club or what not, and I wouldn't mind if those strippers decided to put on a "show", and if my friends felt the need to ask them to perform additional "entertainment" then that's their choice...but I am and will be perfectly able to say "no thanks guys, you go ahead." Also, I would NOT want my dad or my girl's dad at my bachelor party...sorry, but that would be too uncomfortable and most of the guys wouldn't feel in place to have as much fun as they would otherwise. Would you invite your boyfriend's mom out with your girlfriends if you all tend to get a bit wild & crazy? Yeah, right. Your fiance should be grown-up enough that he doesn't need a chaperone, and if you feel he does then there's another ding on the trust-o-meter. Bachelor parties are not evil and any couples who break up supposedly due to having/not having a bachelor party never should been engaged in the first place.

My fiancée will be having a bachelorette party, either in town or in Vegas and yeah, I'm not 100% for the idea because she has some wild-ass friends...some of whom I don't fully respect or trust and who have been known to flash themselves when drunk at bachelorette parties. BUT I do trust my fiancée and know she's not dumb enough to risk our entire relationship on some guy right before our wedding. And hell, if your guy did do something he shouldn't at his bachelor party and you find out about it, better to know now then AFTER your married and he cheats on you later.

Bottom line: you really need to think over your entire relationship and feelings for your fiance, if you can't trust him then you have no business planning a wedding.

 

[wiseguy7]

As for wiseguy's comments, shit man, speak for yourself...telling her she should be worried, etc. Maybe that would apply to YOU and YOUR friends, but I consider myself and my friends to be stand up guys. Yeah, we like to party and most of us enjoy seeing attractive women naked (this does not mean skanky prostitutes), but that does NOT mean every guy is looking to nail one more piece of ass at his bachelor party. Guys like you are the ones I feel sorry for...you're bound to go through life with one meaningless screw after another and never know what kind of experiences you're missing. If you think guys are stupid for getting married then you have a helluva lot to learn about life. I apologize if my comments piss you off, but I took your comments personally as I'm engaged.

Hey realdeal no your comments don't piss me off you have your opinion and I have mine. Just reading through your comments you cleary state that every guy doesn't act like this and your right everyone is different. As me I'm just a guy looking to have some fun or as you put it "a meaningless screw". Like me and my fiends say a hit is a hit. You feel sorry for me hey thanks for your concern but I just don't want to get married because I don't plan on having kids so I don't see the point doesn't mean I can't be in love. Don't take my comments so personally either they weren't directed to you.

 

[solidspine]

Wouldn't it be great to catch a std the night before your wedding?

 

[Cindy99]

or at least a nice big rash on the groom's face from exposure to nasty purse (is that the right word?)???

 

[robmach]

What happens at bachelor parties is just all fun and games. Its the way a guy can have some fun for the last time in his life before he begins the slow painful death called marriage.

So will you let your fiance have a gangbang right before she gets married? Maybe you will find a nice surprise when she leaves it there for you.

I personally think strippers are pointless. I wont even have a bachelor party.

 

[wiseguy7]

So will you let your fiance have a gangbang right before she gets married? Maybe you will find a nice surprise when she leaves it there for you.

I personally think strippers are pointless. I wont even have a bachelor party.

I don't have to worry about my fiance having a gangbang before she gets married because I'm never getting married. Strippers being pointless and you wouldn't have a bachelor party damn you sound like fun guy to hang out with.

 

[Enigmaxxx7]

or at least a nice big rash on the groom's face from exposure to nasty purse (is that the right word?)???

BWHAHAHAHA!!!

This story is very familiar. On my bachelor party, the guys lined up some stripper/hos. We all met at a gym (Big name franchise gym but I won't mention the name). We set up shop in the aerobics room. The hos wanted the chairs in a big circle with one flat workout bench in the middle. They went around blowing everybody and they had 2 girls doing each other on the bench. Then it was time for the bachelor (that being me). They took me on the bench and undressed me. Then they started the real show. One was sucking, one was riding, one was about to sit on my face when all of a sudden everything stopped. Apparently the guy that had the key to the gym didnt lock the front door and some patrol car saw lights on and cars in the parking lot so they came in to check it out. I was buck naked as were 4 girls. They got the whole story but wouldnt budge on arresting us. Myself and the 4 girls were arrested on prostitution charges. To make it worse, I find out later that one of the girls is my fiance's first cousin. And my future father in law is the D.A. So my fiance' calls off the wedding the week before. I got a 6 month sentence with a $1000 fine. So all in all I'd say it was worth it. It only cost me 6 months and $1000 to stay happily unmarried.