Awkward dating, she's shooting confusing signs, plz help decifer. *wtf?*

[miplank]

also,

This thread is worthless w/o pics.

 

[billfred]

Why are you even asking us for rationalizations of her behavior? Would it change anything?

It doesn't matter why she acted the way she did. Don't try to understand it. I don't see why you apologized for your lashing out at her when she was a pain in the ass all night.

It doesn't matter why she's a drama queen, it just matters that she is one. At the end of the day, some people totally get off on drama. When something starts going well, theyll do something to fuck it up for fun. Maybe they just think it's entertaining, maybe they fuck it up because they have intimacy issues, maybe they do it to so when you react, they'll think you care. Whatever the reason, run the other direction, dont answer anymore calls, and forget she exists.

Obvious he needs the slightest justifications so he can see her again to get laid. Not easy to let a hottie slip away even when she is goofier than a football bat.

 

[twenty47]

also,

This thread is worthless w/o pics.

for reals. if she is as hot as you say i would put up with her shit to atleast hit it once...


post pics and i will decide if i would put up with or get rid of.

 

[AFeedz]

I'm sure lambruh can find another hottie that isn't fvcking crazy.

On the up side, when this headcase finally goes off the deep end, maybe he'll get to fvck her in one of those rooms with padded walls.

 

[Lambruh]

You're guys right, I shouldn't be worried about why she is acting this way.... some good advice , but alotta obv "she's a stripper blah blah c'mon dummy" okay , yah but outside of stereotyping, what's she trying to tell me?

I wanna hit it and quit, but she' not that type (and i'm not really either anymore). So i'm kinda putting in effort for fucks sake cus i'm bored and don't have a Golden Delish list of gals to bounce to right now

Sometimes and this is a problem for me. I cling to people who have issues because I feel that I can help them or maybe redirect their past life mindset into a better one. In comparison I also have a hard time dealing with a girl not being into me as much as I want them to, so I go out of my way like to try and pursued her. This is cocky, but i'm sure alot of other guys on here do this. Sometimes when you hit a barrier of regular, everyday ass - easy vadge gets boring, normal relationships get boring, girls at the bar coming home with you get boring. You want something more, whether it's dating dancers, pro cheerleaders, high end bartenders and even gorgeous girls with stuck up personalities. Girls that seen it all and heard it all from every rich/macho/popular stud that hit on them --- these are the ones I (along with many) shoot for now because it's exciting. Have you ever saw a girl/guy give u attitude with a snarl after you say something polite or hit on them? Aren't you kind of interested in why they did and how you can get them to change their mind about you? I'm talking about walking right back up to that rude person and talking to them as if what they did cruel was actually a sign to come pursue them

Basically, i'm not trying to stick with this girl, but i'm having a hard time reading what she wants and what she's playing. The whole summary I wrote was pretty much all negs about her, her positives outweigh her negs but unfortunately she has to many negs to handle.

 

[Lestat]

You're right, I shouldn't be worried about why she is acting this way....

I wanna hit it and quit, but she' not that type. So i'm kinda putting in effort for fucks sake cus i'm bored

Sometimes and this is a problem for me. I cling to people who have issues because I feel that I can help them or maybe redirect their past life mindset into a better one. In comparison I also have a hard time dealing with a girl not being into me as much as I want them to, so I go out of my way like to try and pursued her. This is cocky, but i'm sure alot of other guys on here do this. Sometimes when you hit a barrier of regular, everyday ass - easy vadge gets boring, normal relationships get boring, girls at the bar coming home with you get boring. You want something more, whether it's dating dancers, pro cheerleaders, high end bartenders and even gorgeous girls with stuck up personalities. Girls that seen it all and heard it all from every rich/macho/popular stud that hit on them --- these are the ones I (along with many) shoot for now because it's exciting.

Basically, i'm not trying to stick with this girl, but i'm having a hard time reading what she wants and what she's playing. The whole summary I wrote was pretty much all negs about her, her positives outweigh her negs but unfortunately she has to many negs to handle.

how do you know she's not the type to hit it quick! Sounds like it to me. Go for it man, worst case she says no and you got one less headache. best case she gives you anal night 1!

 

[miplank]

Pics or stfu!

 

[twenty47]

post a pic of her dude.



has she tried talking to you since u said sorry for being harsh?

 

[nefertiti]

You're guys right, I shouldn't be worried about why she is acting this way.... some good advice

I wanna hit it and quit, but she' not that type (and i'm not really either anymore). So i'm kinda putting in effort for fucks sake cus i'm bored and don't have a Golden Delish list of gals to bounce to right now

Sometimes and this is a problem for me. I cling to people who have issues because I feel that I can help them or maybe redirect their past life mindset into a better one. In comparison I also have a hard time dealing with a girl not being into me as much as I want them to, so I go out of my way like to try and pursued her. This is cocky, but i'm sure alot of other guys on here do this. Sometimes when you hit a barrier of regular, everyday ass - easy vadge gets boring, normal relationships get boring, girls at the bar coming home with you get boring. You want something more, whether it's dating dancers, pro cheerleaders, high end bartenders and even gorgeous girls with stuck up personalities. Girls that seen it all and heard it all from every rich/macho/popular stud that hit on them --- these are the ones I (along with many) shoot for now because it's exciting. Have you ever saw a girl/guy give u attitude with a snarl after you say something polite or hit on them? Aren't you kind of interested in why they did and how you can get them to change their mind about you? I'm talking about walking right back up to that rude person and talking to them as if what they did cruel was actually a sign to come pursue them

Basically, i'm not trying to stick with this girl, but i'm having a hard time reading what she wants and what she's playing. The whole summary I wrote was pretty much all negs about her, her positives outweigh her negs but unfortunately she has to many negs to handle.

Codependent relationships are pretty standard fare for addicts and recovering addicts. Be careful with that. Every relationship I've been in where I felt like I had to fix him, or I wanted him to fix me, has been disasterous to my ability to stay on track because with that sort of dynamic too much of how ok YOU are hangs in the balance of how ok THEY are, or how ok the relationship is.

 

[miplank]

here's her FB - Can't post pics cus she deleted me lulz

lol@getting deleted already.


I think you're ready for a commitement.