Nan you know approximately nothing about the situation except what Mitch has posted. You know the tip of the iceberg.
I don't even need him to go away. I don't control him. What I do need is for our situation not to be an issue here and for him not to be poked because the board thinks the drama is interesting or entertaining or thinks they could progress the situation along any.
More importantly, it shouldn't matter what you think. When someone asks you to leave a serious, personal situation alone, you should leave it alone. There are reasons this shit needs to stay off here, so last thing I need is someone who thinks they know things tempting people to bring it back.