anyone else ever had grrrlfiend probs

[flex123]

Yes but let's use that same example if you were married and had a wife (or husband in Nthan's case). Let's say you guys just don't get along and have kids. You decide to get a divorce and it gets ugly. If you told her about the gear use you can guarantee she'll use that in court to label you a "drug user" and gain full custody of the kids.

GOOD point, I never thought of that. But still someone you share certain things with should know everything about you. If you didnt know stuff she did wouldn't you think thats messed up?

 

[Iron Gator]

MvMaxx:
You're right. Okay I tell nobody then!

The only people I tell now is 2 of my closest friends that I trust w/my life.

Well that doesn't count because sheep can't talk!!

J/K

GO GATORS!

 

[me2dammit]

its as I always said

alot of people create their own problems.

Time and time again

I spiticulate the game. The game is what I spit. DOnt tell your woman anything you dont have to that could come back to haunt you!!!!!

If it could get you in trouble with the law, Dont tell. I mean this is not rocket science. If anything can come back to harm your rep or you. Shut UP! Anything, not just gear use, anything.

You have been sprinkled with the spittery of game, you may thank me for it later. Follow this rule and it will make you relationship better and you breakup clean(if you break up).

Use this information at your own risk. I take no responsibility for you relationship being happier and you getting into gardening or something.

 

[FOCUSED]

One word.........JAIL............don't tell her shit it's not her buisness till she has a ring on her finger...........FOCUSED

 

[Xtreme2001]

This post should be a sticky. It's brought up at least once a week Just in different variations of topics.

It really depends on how well you trust your gf. I personally could, she'd have to understand why though.

 

[mvmaxx]

But still someone you share certain things with should know everything about you. If you didnt know stuff she did wouldn't you think thats messed up?

I hear what you're saying and I agree with you. But the simple fact is 60% of marriages end in divorce. Those 60% believe when it started that they wouldn't be one of those marriages that wouldn't make it. I love my wife and I trust her completely, but she won't find out I'm using gear because it only gives her ammo if things end up badly. Ammo to use in court to take my son away from me, which will NEVER happen. It doesn't matter HOW cool she is with it at the moment. Hell, it doesn't matter if she does your injects for you. Bottom line is IF your marriage ends in divorce she CAN use it against you in a VERY effective way if she so chooses. I choose to remove that possibility.

 

[mvmaxx]

A thread like this was posted a while back and another member and I went back and forth on the issue. We decided that if you're going to tell your wife you use gear then you need to get her to use it as well (var cycle for example). That way she can't use it against you because she's just as bad in the courts eyes.

 

[gsxr]

Treat her like a mushroom... Feed her bullshit and keep her in the dark. Seriously, she doesn't need to know this and it can't possibly help your relationship any by telling her. Hide your shit in a very good place (not in your underwear drawer or anything like that). If she asks you, lie and say "I just use weight gain and creatine... that stuff really works"

 

[therookie]

My girl injected me all last summer, shes a nurse practitioner.......

I will not tell her im ON when i start my cycle in 2 weeks. If she says im getting ripped what are you on,ill tell her to shut the fuck up and gimme soemcredit for hard work

 

[buffdawg10]

Hey bro, it is your girlfriend not ours, we don't know how she will react. You have been with her you must have some idea about how she would take it. But my opinion is if it is just a girlfriend, she does not need to know all of your business, sometimes there are things that should just be left unknown. Like the guys said above, you never know when something will happen or maybe yall would break up then she would spread the shit around, then everyone would know. Keep it to yourself and if she asks, questions play it off and tell her you started taking supplements, she just doesn't need to know what kind.