Any women here who have...

[HiDnGoD]

Be careful.......thats the first step in ruining your marriage.

Not necessarily. Been there, done that.

 

[wetback]

Not necessarily. Been there, done that.

Didnt say it was garenteed, but, typically it does more harm than good to a marriage.

 

[bigmann245]

Didnt say it was garenteed, but, typically it does more harm than good to a marriage.

its understood that you have to have a very secure relationship to do this. weve had a couple threesomes and we both loved it but arent addicted to it. its been 2 years since we did anything but we met this couple and she has been considering being with another woman for a while and it looks like it might happen. we have been together for 12 years, dated for 3 then married for the rest. so far it has only inhanced our relationship. some people call it legalized cheating... lol.. but we do it safely and must know the person very well before anything happens.

 

[bigmann245]

Be careful.......thats the first step in ruining your marriage.

they did a study on the divorce rate amongst swingers and found that there is only a 2% divorce rate amongst people who swing. and they said that those were failing relationships that tried swinging to help the marriage. it does not help but it enhances a secure marriage. compare that to the devorce rate amongst the rest of the nation of married couples. they say its because there is no reason to cheat since it is allowed. like i said, we like it and are still together and our first time was 5 years ago. never was an issue at all.

 

[wetback]

they did a study on the divorce rate amongst swingers and found that there is only a 2% divorce rate amongst people who swing. and they said that those were failing relationships that tried swinging to help the marriage. it does not help but it enhances a secure marriage. compare that to the devorce rate amongst the rest of the nation of married couples. they say its because there is no reason to cheat since it is allowed. like i said, we like it and are still together and our first time was 5 years ago. never was an issue at all.

Glad to see your still together bigman........always love to hear about a good marriage !

 

[bigmann245]

Glad to see your still together bigman........always love to hear about a good marriage !

thank you.