Any bors realized they will never get married???

[SoKlueles]

marraige is for women

so what are u saying?

 

[rnch]

I'm getting married as soon as the girl I'm stalking realizes I'm right for her.

ya gonna marry your patched up blow up doll? i didn't realize that was legal in tennessee.

it realy is "a whole 'nother world" up there.

 

[TC2]

Men bitch and moan about how much it sucks for THEM to be married.

Let's see....

Most women work. (If they are stay-at-home moms they work 24/7, for NO PAY, no vacation days and ZERO benefits unless you want to count having to give a hairy guy that let himself go a looooooooong time ago occasional sex a "perk".)

Most women are still expected to do at least 1/2 the housework/cooking/ and nearly ALL the social obligation - stuff ie Christmas cards, birthday gifts, etc.

Most women are expected to take care of most of the childrearing responsibilities whether it is feeding/disciplining/car pooling/etc.


So now - a woman's workload is exponentially INCREASED while a guy gets occasional sex if he doesnt piss her off too badly by not letting the garbage overflow the umpteeumpth time this month.

And marriage sucks for men and not women because.............?

Uhhh riiigghht.....

That's how it used to be 50 years ago.

Todays women want a life long all expensives paid vacation. They want to stay home while you bust you ass making a living(which will never be enough for her), Then after she's been sitting on her ass all day you're expected to be a carpenter,plumber,electriction(sp?),lanscaper.

Oh and since she works so hard sitting on her ass all day you are expected to do half the housework and take care of the kids.

And after her "stressful"(gimme a fuckin break) day how DARE you expect her to cook dinner and SEX???? What have you done to EARN that???


Yeah women have it rough.

 

[Forge]

Heh, alot of jaded answers in this thread.



Myself, I'm 33, been married and divorced already. Will I ever marry again? If I meet someone who I feel that comfortable with again then sure, I'll give it another shot. I liked marriage to be honest.

Marriage is what you make of it, nothing more. Either you want to work at it and make it wonderful or you don't want to work at it and it's horribly bad. And both people have to want to make it work, if one loses interest then both suffer. It's not an easy way to live in today's society, that's for certain, but when it works it's simply fantastic.

Some people just don't want companionship bad enough to put in the work. Not saying that's a bad thing, just different strokes for different folks.

 

[dirty~d~]

Men bitch and moan about how much it sucks for THEM to be married.

Let's see....

Most women work. (If they are stay-at-home moms they work 24/7, for NO PAY, no vacation days and ZERO benefits unless you want to count having to give a hairy guy that let himself go a looooooooong time ago occasional sex a "perk".)

Most women are still expected to do at least 1/2 the housework/cooking/ and nearly ALL the social obligation - stuff ie Christmas cards, birthday gifts, etc.

Most women are expected to take care of most of the childrearing responsibilities whether it is feeding/disciplining/car pooling/etc.


So now - a woman's workload is exponentially INCREASED while a guy gets occasional sex if he doesnt piss her off too badly by not letting the garbage overflow the umpteeumpth time this month.

And marriage sucks for men and not women because.............?

Good lord, why am I not surprised to see this kind of post in here?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Uhhh riiigghht.....

That's how it used to be 50 years ago.

Todays women want a life long all expensives paid vacation. They want to stay home while you bust you ass making a living(which will never be enough for her), Then after she's been sitting on her ass all day you're expected to be a carpenter,plumber,electriction(sp?),lanscaper.

Oh and since she works so hard sitting on her ass all day you are expected to do half the housework and take care of the kids.

And after her "stressful"(gimme a fuckin break) day how DARE you expect her to cook dinner and SEX???? What have you done to EARN that???


Yeah women have it rough.

Exactly how long have YOU been a stay-at-home parent?








Is that the sound of crickets chirping?





Let me tell you something sir. I have been a stay-at-home mom who also helped her spouse run their full time business.

Being a single mom is waaaaaaaaaaaaaay fucking easier. (Oh yea, did I forget to mention that I did this for nearly 3 years with no support from the ex?)




Dont EVER go on and on about how fucking easy being a stay-at-home PARENT (I would never EVER knock a man who chose this path) is until you have walked a mile in one's 24/7 shoes.

 

[vinylgroover]

At 32, i would like to marry one day. I will only do it if i find the right woman though.........someone who rocks my world.

 

[Dial_tone]

At 32, i would like to marry one day. I will only do it if i find the right woman though.........someone who rocks my world.

Right. Too many people see marriage as giving up something when it ought to be adding something to your life.

 

[FreakMonster]

Men bitch and moan about how much it sucks for THEM to be married.

Let's see....

Most women work. (If they are stay-at-home moms they work 24/7, for NO PAY, no vacation days and ZERO benefits unless you want to count having to give a hairy guy that let himself go a looooooooong time ago occasional sex a "perk".)

Most women are still expected to do at least 1/2 the housework/cooking/ and nearly ALL the social obligation - stuff ie Christmas cards, birthday gifts, etc.

Most women are expected to take care of most of the childrearing responsibilities whether it is feeding/disciplining/car pooling/etc.


So now - a woman's workload is exponentially INCREASED while a guy gets occasional sex if he doesnt piss her off too badly by not letting the garbage overflow the umpteeumpth time this month.

And marriage sucks for men and not women because.............?

BlaH Blah Blah, Same women bitching about the same shit all the time. Spare me!!!

 

[PBR]

im done with it...too much to risk any more. i dont think our society promotes it. it institutionalizes a relationship, IMO. ive met so many women in the last 3 years since my own divorce, who just wake up one day, and say, "know what?, im done with this, im outta here"....the cost factor is enough to make you not want the risk...i realize there are three sides to every story and circumstances are not always divulged...her side, his side and the observer's side. but it seems that everything in our world now is so disposable...too bad, and i think it is a shame. actually it has reduced alot of stress in my life, accepting the single life. i hope to meet someone who is so "deep" that marraige would be an "after -thought"...i want to go beyond what marraige is. ya know?