About to try swinging thing tomorrow ?

[manny78]

So I'll finally try this tomorrow. Sounds like we're gonna have a BBQ, some Sangria and then poufff. Now I'd like to know. Now is there some advices I should have before ? Things to do or not ? Also, what is best when doing this: fucking altogether in the same room or in separate rooms ?

Thanks

 

[needsize]

I don't have any advice but glad to hear you're finally going through with it

 

[Puddles]

Never did a swap, nor do I want to, but from my 3-some experience it's great to be in the same room...to see and hear all of the pleasures you're both receiving and giving is such a turn on!

But, once, I had to go pick up my daughter from a party and the three of us had been going at it all day. Since they were in the middle of fucking and I was already an hour late, I helped get her off one last time and said good-bye...OMG what a turn-on that was. The whole time I was gone I couldn't get them out of my mind...the last vision I had of them was my husband on top of her pounding away. I wound up leaving my daughter where she was so I could join them when I got back home. Too horny to have the kid home! LOL

You'll have to experiment and find out what floats your boat most...if you're like me, you'll enjoy both.

 

[guards]

Never did a swap, nor do I want to, but from my 3-some experience it's great to be in the same room...to see and hear all of the pleasures you're both receiving and giving is such a turn on!

But, once, I had to go pick up my daughter from a party and the three of us had been going at it all day. Since they were in the middle of fucking and I was already an hour late, I helped get her off one last time and said good-bye...OMG what a turn-on that was. The whole time I was gone I couldn't get them out of my mind...the last vision I had of them was my husband on top of her pounding away. I wound up leaving my daughter where she was so I could join them when I got back home. Too horny to have the kid home! LOL

You'll have to experiment and find out what floats your boat most...if you're like me, you'll enjoy both.

Out of interest, would it be as arousing being with two men as it was with another woman and your husband??

 

[Puddles]

Out of interest, would it be as arousing being with two men as it was with another woman and your husband??

NO! Um...first of all, I have no interest in having a 3-some with another guy, but to see my husband with another guy...I'm sorry, not my cup of tea at all.

 

[guards]

NO! Um...first of all, I have no interest in having a 3-some with another guy, but to see my husband with another guy...I'm sorry, not my cup of tea at all.

\I'm not saying that your husband would be having sex with another man, perhaps two men going at you.

 

[Texmuscle]

I think the arrangement depends on a lot of factors.

Do you want to do some stuff with the other chick you never get to do with your girl? If so, maybe the separate rooms approach might be best, since your lady may not want to see you being quite so studly/nasty etc with someone else. And vice versa. Are you comfortable if your woman starts getting wilder than shit with the other guy?

Then there is just the whole sensory aspect of it. Does the idea of watching the sex, hearing it etc. turn you on? Then you want to be in the same room. But if the reason you're doing it is more to have the variety of the other babe, no need to be in the same room.

And the other couple may have expectations on this front - - they may expect to be in the same room with each other.

No protocol on this man. Just ask what they want and come to a consensus as to what everyone will be comfortable with. personally, I think there is nothing hotter than being in a room where people are deeply into the sex taking place and hearing the sounds of all that. Very primal. But that may not be for you.

Have fun!

 

[HansNZ]

I haven't had a foursome, only a couple of threesomes with couples.

The first one was good because I got all the attention (I was the novelty). The second was was really awful. The chemistry wasn't there and we all felt clumsy. Because I was the extra component I felt self-conscious and responsible for the lack of fireworks. My anxiety just compounded this situation and made it worse.

Just go ahead and try to enjoy yourself as much as possible. If it works - great - if it doesn't then don't be put off. They will probably be just as nervous and unfamiliar with the situation. As such, whatever you suggest they will probably go along with.

 

[Puddles]

\I'm not saying that your husband would be having sex with another man, perhaps two men going at you.

In the past a MMF 3-some really turned me on, but right now it doesn't...not in terms of actually doing it myself. Seeing it in a movie is cool though!

And thanks for clearing up the sex part between the guys...that one gave me the chills.

 

[guards]

And thanks for clearing up the sex part between the guys...that one gave me the chills.

Me too...lol

 

[WIDELAT]

HOW COULD YOU LET SOMEONE ELSE FUCK YOUR WIFE?

 

[supertech69]

You have a daughter, and you and your husband have 3somes. That's sick. If i found out my parents did that, i'd disown them and run away from home immediately. Weren't the parents of that dead girl Danielle, swingers, and the accused, one of their "swingers"? Gross.

As for 3somes, i have NO DESIRE to see another man's naked penis, so guys are out of the question. Fuck, i'd be just too embarassed to be even naked in front of another man, let alone horny and wanna bang.

-= nav =-

Grow up!

 

[Machiavellian Muscle]

Learn from my past experience. You and your partner serious, and I mean seriously need to sit down and talk honestly what each one of you are comfortable w/doing. You may be more open than her, vice a versa. However, you both need to come to terms with your "rules." or comfortability factor before you enter the scene.

 

[TEXgrl]

Learn from my past experience. You and your partner serious, and I mean seriously need to sit down and talk honestly what each one of you are comfortable w/doing. You may be more open than her, vice a versa. However, you both need to come to terms with your "rules." or comfortability factor before you enter the scene.

exactly, you need to discuss what is ok and not ok, especially with your girl

 

[WIDELAT]

YOUR LADY IS GOING TO LIKE BEING FUCKED MORE BY THE OTHER GUY, DO YOU WANT TO THINK THAT CAUSE YOU WILL EAT WILL EAT YOU UP IF YOU REALLY CARE AND LOVE YOUR WIFE. SHE IS ALSO A FEMALE AND WAY MORE EMOTIONAL THEN A MAN WEATHER SHE APPEARS TO BE OR NOT WOMEN BECOME ATTACHED TO PEOPLE THEY SLEEP WITH SHE WILL HAVE A BOND WITH THIS GUY. SHE WILL ALSO THINK IN HER MIND WEATHER SHE TELLS YOU OR NOT IS HE MORE ATTRACTED TO THE OTHER GIRL?? IS SHE PRETTIER THEN ME OR A BETTER FUCK??? GIRLS DO THAT IN ORDINARY SITUATIONS, THIS SITUATION IS INTENSIFIED 100X'S OVER. THIS WILL RUIN YOUR MARRIAGE. BUT IF YOU GUYS BOTH WANT TO BE FUCKING OTHER PEOPLE THEN YOUR MARRIAGE IS ALREADY RUINED.

 

[manny78]

Thanks guys and girls

 

[dawookie]

Well, I may be able to help, me and my girl have talked about going to a swing club for awhile but always chickened out...

until last wkend when I asked her while we were out if she wanted to go check out one of the swing clubs..

I dont know if your situation is going to be the same as with a swing club but anyways.. it was a blast... I am normally a little jealous, but wasnt bothered and still am not bothered by our swinging club experience..

there was nothing like getting head from 2 chicks while kissing my girl, then looking up in the ceiling mirror and seeing one of the girls feeling on my girl and one of the girls husbands doing her from behind..

We both look at it as a surreal, crazy night.. everything felt like a porn movie, except with condoms on ( a must ) and not knowing the other peoples names.. they told us their names, but I had other things on my mind..

Set rules based on what you two want and dont want.. I like the no kissing on the mouth rule, and also the condom rule..

 

[dawookie]

Things to do or not ? Also, what is best when doing this: fucking altogether in the same room or in separate rooms ?

oh, and I would want to be in the same room, if not that would almost feel like cheating.

 

[GinNJuice]

Thanks guys and girls

So, what happend?

 

[manny78]

So, what happend?

Will finally happen this week-end. My and my girl couldnt cause we were both working, but anyway sounds like I'm gonna have some good time

 

[WIDELAT]

KRONKETTE ARE YOU AND KRONK SWINGERS?

 

[redhotavenger]

thats funny

I was invited to join a private party in 2 weeks, and the host told me to just act kool, mingle with the people, and you will get laid. Don't stand by the bar and stare. They don't like that. Its going to be like the movie " EYES WIDE SHUT "
Have fun, and let me know how everything went. I tell you about my first time in 2 weeks.

 

[marcus123]

Have fun at the swap meet!

 

[manny78]

All I can say is: fuckin insane and sooooo good. Hehehehe. COuldn't imagine it would be that way. I guess the key there is trust and communication

 

[WIDELAT]

HOW DID THE OTHER GUY LIKE YOUR WIFE?

 

[angel_eyes]

Funny, I recently have been bombarded by unsolicited instant messages from my Yahoo Public Profile asking if I will be a third to married couples. My profile does not mention anything about women or swinging.

So, I started seeing this married couple. It's pretty cool, we go out for a nice dinner, drink good wine, maybe go out and then fuck like crazy Sometimes I just go over to their house and they make a nice dinner and we then we will go at it during the dinner preparations, cook dinner, then play some more. The weird thing is, the husband actually told his wife that I suck his cock better than her, and she was ok with it. He was like "honey, watch her take my cock in her mouth" Guess it is a good thing they both like me? If that would have been my other half, I think my feelings would have been hurt. Who knows, they have been married for over 10 years.

 

[TheStromba]

Sounds like you have a good thing there. Me, Mrspuddlesfl and 38DoubleDamnGood are a threesome and we are having a lot of fun. It sounds like the married couple you are with have a good line of open communication which is the key to making a three way relationship work.

Me and MrsPuddles got married right out of high school 18 years ago and there is really NOTHING that we can not tell each other.

The wife you are with is probably more interested in giving her husband the best head possible than insulted at her husband for telling her you give better head.

That's true love !!