A sex fantasy but is it dangerous to make it real?

[riverrock]

Hello All,

Just like everyone else in the world, I have a few things that I'd love to do, but generally expect that it might never happen. One thing I always wanted to do was to have a third person in the room watching myself and my GF having sex. So, I said it to her this evening when we were watching a fairly steamy Porno on DVD. She said she'd definitely do it, but that it would have to be a stranger and that she wouldn't mind if it was male or female. To be honest, just having someone watching would be a real turn-on, but here's where I'm worried........If you invited someone from an "Alternatives magazine" or someone we met in a Bar, are they likely to want to join in (no way!) or at least expect something more from my Gal than just sitting there. I'd probably allow her to touch them, but not the other way around. Is this too dangerous and should remain a fantasy, or does anyone have any advice on making it a success?

 

[x_con]

just make sure the other person is a woman, then you can stop worrying about her trying to hop in the mix and be more concerned with having one girl suck your dick while another licks your balls. Also nothing worng with enjoying watching the two of them touch eachother as long as the other isnt a dude. Jealously can greatly inhibit sexual experiences so try and let go of that shit as much as you can.

 

[GrandMaster]

if shes kool with it thats great... just make sure its another female. A guy would want in, or who knows what your woman might like when she sees them

 

[fergie]

riverrock you stud, I'll tell you what I'll do it but you have to do the watching sound good?

 

[riverrock]

Fergie: That sounds like an excellent plan!!! Tell you what - you give me your stash of Sustanon and I'll give you my Mrs!!! Now, you can't get a better swap than that!

 

[HiDnGoD]

IMO male or female doesn't matter. You have to be secure in your relationship.
Having another couple & do what is basically same room sex. You do your gal, while the other couple watches & gets it on.
They may want to join in, but if you set the rules beforehand, & agree on a panic word with your S.O., you should be OK. The panic word has to be something that can't be confused with another word & lets you both know you're uncomfortable with the situation. You can also agree on an innocuous phrase that also means "lets go ahead".
Good luck. If it works out, it's GRREEAAAAAAT!

 

[fergie]

or we could just swap old ladies.... better that then give up my stash

 

[Hiatussin]

you can do stuff like that if you know you can trust the person. Which is hard

 

[rnch]

dude..........if that turns you on, go for it.

i perfer to have 100% attention of the room when i am bumpin' uglies.